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Poor mobility but not registered disabled

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BUMCHEESE · 18/08/2025 16:04

My DM is 82 and can only walk very limited distances due to an issue with her legs and feet - a few minutes max. She is able to do this unaided eg without zimmer frame.

But from what I've read she wouldn't be classified as disabled or get any special treatment e.g. special parking or access to a wheelchair etc.

It makes doing things with her very difficult as we try to meet half way between our houses - my DC can't sit still for long so while we can meet for a meal it's stressful, and we have to find somewhere with parking close by etc.

AIBU to struggle to think of things to do and places to meet and to think provision for people like this is poor?

(Half way is around Windsor area, in case anyone has any suggestions!)

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AintNoPunshineWhenShesGone · 18/08/2025 16:11

I bought my dad a folding wheelchair from Amazon, it was about £200.

If you can't afford one, have a look at your local FB groups as plenty of people give them away.

Fearfulsaints · 18/08/2025 16:10

Have you spoken to your local council about a blue badge (which is the badge for disabled parking) she might be eligible?

In terms of access to a wheelchair, I dont know where you mean, but there isn't really a register of disabled people that qualifies you for this. Some venues, that have that specific facility, might want proof like a pip claim, bit others would just accept you saying she's old and has a leg issue and can't walk far.

EyeLevelStick · 18/08/2025 16:10

You can buy wheelchairs yourself - a basic lightweight companion-propelled one that you can pop in your car boot will be about £200 new, but you may find second hand ones. They are an absolute game changer for days out, if your DC aren’t still in a pushchair.

Sunseed · 18/08/2025 16:09

What is stopping you from buying a wheelchair?

Mrsttcno1 · 18/08/2025 16:07

As PP says, not sure what you mean by “registered disabled”.

Does she receive PIP etc?

MewithME · 18/08/2025 16:07

I am sure someone will correct me if I'm wrong but there is no such thing as being registered disabled as such.

You can apply for a blue badge with medical evidence. Different councils have different criteria.

If your DM was in receipt of certain benefits like PIP then that can help a blue badge application, otherwise a GP letter or something.

EyeLevelStick · 18/08/2025 16:07

She may very well qualify for a blue badge. If you don’t apply you’ll never know. Complete the form honestly but with the worst days in mind, not when she’s at her most chipper.

TigerRag · 18/08/2025 16:07

There's no such thing as registered disabled apart from visual and hearing impairments

Have you (assuming this is what you mean) tried applying for a blue badge for her?