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To think Shein has upped it’s game

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Ikeasucks · 18/08/2025 11:20

Their stuff looks lovely (online on skinny models anyway) - have heard a few good things recently as i had written them off a few years ago. Anyone use them and happy with the product, quality, returns etc

i hate online clothes shop but the high street/town centers are dead in many places now so options are really limited often to just M&S, Next, H&M or Primark

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TheLudditesWereRight · 20/08/2025 14:55

Shops are not the only place to get clothes. You can order home deliveries from Vinted, or get free bundles on FB or NextDoor. That might not suit you if you insist on new, but you can't say that Shein is the only cheap and convenient option out there.

ChaiLarious · 20/08/2025 14:49

TheLudditesWereRight · 20/08/2025 14:42

No wonder you are being called out. You are wilfully ignoring all the alternatives that are cheaper, less problematic, and no more effort.

So how is a person who does not drive and on a limited income expected to travel to their local Sainsburys, which may be around 10 miles away just to buy clothes with their weekly shop? They would almost certainly choose the option of walking to the budget supermarket that may be a 5/10 minute walk away. The middle class privilege is strong on this thread. Some families can't afford the bus fare to travel to what you deem a better option.

GenieGenealogy · 20/08/2025 14:48

Who knew the Shein-Shite fans were such delicate little flowers.

They are not being "attacked". They are being called out for their poor decision making and reasoning. Of course if you come out with clearly untruthful nonsense about not being able to buy cheaper elsewhere, or nonsense about class and loads of other irrelevant issues people are going to call you out on that.

boredwfh · 20/08/2025 14:45

Had some good quality thick cotton t-shirts for £2.50 each off there for my child recently that I was impressed with.

Wexone · 20/08/2025 14:44

SquishedMallow · 20/08/2025 12:27

Absolutely...

It not naive - if you look deeper into companies, most do come from China however do regular audits, look at the factories that they are used to prdice these, pay these factories a proper fee, open transparent suplly chain, Qulaity control and UK standards applied - these are NOT done by Shein and Temu
Everyone has access to google, use it for 5 mins and you will learn alot about Shein and Temu practices

TheLudditesWereRight · 20/08/2025 14:42

ChaiLarious · 20/08/2025 13:52

It is if you don't shop at a supermarket with a clothing range in store. Aldi, Lidl, Farmfoods and Heron don't stock clothing. Some may choose to only shop there if that fits their budget or is their local supermarket.

No wonder you are being called out. You are wilfully ignoring all the alternatives that are cheaper, less problematic, and no more effort.

SquishedMallow · 20/08/2025 14:36

Disturbia81 · 20/08/2025 14:00

Yep, in defence.

Exactly

ChaiLarious · 20/08/2025 14:36

DancingNotDrowning · 20/08/2025 14:29

You’re not being “piled on”

you’re being called out for making shit choices.

Choices that demonstrably harm children, minorities and the environment.

Choices that cause actual, tangible harm and suffering.

If a neighbour kept a child in their basement, forcing them to work 17 hours a day you’d call the police. If they asked you if you wanted them to do a couple of hours cleaning for you you’d be horrified. But because it’s a child in a foreign country you’re quite happy to play your part in the slave trade. It’s grim

I'm poor and working class, my neighbours don't have basements.

DancingNotDrowning · 20/08/2025 14:29

Disturbia81 · 20/08/2025 13:39

Because they’re being piled on by so called do gooders. Your kids will make their own choices, and probably hide the ones you would judge so fiercely.

Primark can be cheap but doesn’t have the choice, it’s good for plain things.

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You’re not being “piled on”

you’re being called out for making shit choices.

Choices that demonstrably harm children, minorities and the environment.

Choices that cause actual, tangible harm and suffering.

If a neighbour kept a child in their basement, forcing them to work 17 hours a day you’d call the police. If they asked you if you wanted them to do a couple of hours cleaning for you you’d be horrified. But because it’s a child in a foreign country you’re quite happy to play your part in the slave trade. It’s grim

TheLudditesWereRight · 20/08/2025 14:13

SquishedMallow · 20/08/2025 09:48

I love SHEIN (in fact everything I'm wearing as we speak is from SHEIN )

Prices are literally unbeatable. Great quality (stuff I've purchased anyway) and looks good. Takes a week approximately to arrive , never had to return anything.

I only ever buy from other shops in a sale now. It's the big giants fault why people are turning to SHEIN. You can pay £65 for a pair of trousers from River Island (a more middle tiered priced shop) or you can pay £4.79 from SHEIN. It's a no brainer. Retailers here have gotten greedy and used to upping the profiteering. Now they're being pushed out of business. Some of that is their own fault .

People talk of the ethics. But all clothes shops are at it to various degrees. And I'm not ultra wealthy or terribly middle class and I have to pick my 'save the world' battles. Most everyday people aren't in that privileged position to take a stand of big problems outside of their control.

I get all my clothes for free from a local swap shop. Cheaper, better quality, greener, more ethical and community-building.

TheSwarm · 20/08/2025 14:03

Disturbia81 · 20/08/2025 13:39

Because they’re being piled on by so called do gooders. Your kids will make their own choices, and probably hide the ones you would judge so fiercely.

Primark can be cheap but doesn’t have the choice, it’s good for plain things.

Edited

Again, you are choosing to participate in a discussion about SHEIN.

If you can't cope with people pointing out the issues associated with these companies, maybe just don't click on the link.

Digdongdoo · 20/08/2025 14:03

Disturbia81 · 20/08/2025 14:00

Yep, in defence.

Again, it's a debate not a personal attack. If you're offended by people pointing out the ethical and environmental cost of the clothes you buy then that's on you.

Disturbia81 · 20/08/2025 14:00

Digdongdoo · 20/08/2025 13:42

It's not a "pile on". It's a discussion. You shein lovers haven't been particularly nice either if you're honest with yourselves... Plenty of judgement coming from you too.

Yep, in defence.

TheLudditesWereRight · 20/08/2025 13:59

MrsTerryPratchett · 19/08/2025 20:41

This is really interesting. In my youth, I was very alternative, part of the lifestyle, clothes and everything else. Part of that was cultural. We didn’t just want to look alternative, we wanted to be alternative. And part of that was speaking up for the majority world, caring about the environment, speaking truth to power, protesting the mainstream zeitgeist.

Is it now just important to look alternative?

Alternative lifestyles get co-opted by capitalism. that's how it works. https://naomiklein.org/no-logo/

No Logo – Naomi Klein

https://naomiklein.org/no-logo/

ChaiLarious · 20/08/2025 13:52

DancingNotDrowning · 20/08/2025 13:35

This is demonstrably false.

Not buying from shein requires no head space at all.

No one is asking you to source clothing spun from the wool of hand reared, yoga practicing bunnies and stitched under a full moon by fairies with PHDs who sip chamomile tea while performing interpretive dance tutorials on couture embroidery.

you’re literally being asked to stick a packet of three for £5 T-shirts into your supermarket trolly instead of buying from a company that employs slaves.

it’s not hard

It is if you don't shop at a supermarket with a clothing range in store. Aldi, Lidl, Farmfoods and Heron don't stock clothing. Some may choose to only shop there if that fits their budget or is their local supermarket.

Digdongdoo · 20/08/2025 13:42

Disturbia81 · 20/08/2025 13:39

Because they’re being piled on by so called do gooders. Your kids will make their own choices, and probably hide the ones you would judge so fiercely.

Primark can be cheap but doesn’t have the choice, it’s good for plain things.

Edited

It's not a "pile on". It's a discussion. You shein lovers haven't been particularly nice either if you're honest with yourselves... Plenty of judgement coming from you too.

Disturbia81 · 20/08/2025 13:39

Waitingfordoggo · 20/08/2025 13:27

Gosh, the Shein shoppers are ever so defensive- I wonder why that is? If you’re convinced there is nothing wrong with shopping at Shein, why are you here banging on about the middle class, rapists and immigrants etc? All just strawmen.

It’s honestly really easy not to shop at Shein- it’s not any sort of sacrifice at all compared to giving up your car or becoming vegan which are much bigger decisions for an individual to make.

As plenty of others have pointed out, you’ll get similar prices in Primark and Tesco but with a smaller impact on the environment and human rights (and you’ll have the assurance that your clothes are unlikely to catch fire, which is always nice).

I’m so glad my children have a conscience around these sorts of consumer decisions. Hopefully there are more like this in the next generations.

Because they’re being piled on by so called do gooders. Your kids will make their own choices, and probably hide the ones you would judge so fiercely.

Primark can be cheap but doesn’t have the choice, it’s good for plain things.

DancingNotDrowning · 20/08/2025 13:35

SquishedMallow · 20/08/2025 12:27

Absolutely...

This is demonstrably false.

Not buying from shein requires no head space at all.

No one is asking you to source clothing spun from the wool of hand reared, yoga practicing bunnies and stitched under a full moon by fairies with PHDs who sip chamomile tea while performing interpretive dance tutorials on couture embroidery.

you’re literally being asked to stick a packet of three for £5 T-shirts into your supermarket trolly instead of buying from a company that employs slaves.

it’s not hard

Waitingfordoggo · 20/08/2025 13:28

Oh, and most of the people I know who make their own yoghurt and bread are very firmly working class! It saves them money for starters.

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 20/08/2025 13:28

Make your choices. No-one else can stop you. But don't paint working-class people as incapable of having class solidarity with working class people in other countries to excuse yourself.

The rest of us have all kinds of things going in our personal lives, too. It's not just Shein shoppers who have shit happen to them. Hmm

Waitingfordoggo · 20/08/2025 13:27

Gosh, the Shein shoppers are ever so defensive- I wonder why that is? If you’re convinced there is nothing wrong with shopping at Shein, why are you here banging on about the middle class, rapists and immigrants etc? All just strawmen.

It’s honestly really easy not to shop at Shein- it’s not any sort of sacrifice at all compared to giving up your car or becoming vegan which are much bigger decisions for an individual to make.

As plenty of others have pointed out, you’ll get similar prices in Primark and Tesco but with a smaller impact on the environment and human rights (and you’ll have the assurance that your clothes are unlikely to catch fire, which is always nice).

I’m so glad my children have a conscience around these sorts of consumer decisions. Hopefully there are more like this in the next generations.

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 20/08/2025 13:22

SquishedMallow · 20/08/2025 12:29

Tell me you're very middle class that's never dealt with a major personal problem in your life without telling me you're very middle class and have never had major personal/family/health major upheaval?

I agree with everything PrincessofWells said, and I used to be homeless and live in a hostel.

SquishedMallow · 20/08/2025 12:57

ChaiLarious · 20/08/2025 12:45

Off to look at yoghurt makers on Temu now thanks

Tee hee 🤭

SquishedMallow · 20/08/2025 12:57

PrincessofWells · 20/08/2025 12:46

@SquishedMallow you are not wholly personally responsible for the damage to the planet, but if we all thought and acted like you, the planet will not survive.

It's easy to make changes without substantially altering your lifestyle.

Yes, you are right. I do get that. And it is the right thing for us all to take responsibility for our planet. I agree with you. I do try my best not to be wasteful, recycle, use my bike etc. it's just I admit : the SHEIN thing may be my weakness.

SquishedMallow · 20/08/2025 12:55

PrincessofWells · 20/08/2025 12:47

😂

I admire you for seeing the funny side @PrincessofWells 😁