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To think Shein has upped it’s game

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Ikeasucks · 18/08/2025 11:20

Their stuff looks lovely (online on skinny models anyway) - have heard a few good things recently as i had written them off a few years ago. Anyone use them and happy with the product, quality, returns etc

i hate online clothes shop but the high street/town centers are dead in many places now so options are really limited often to just M&S, Next, H&M or Primark

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ChaiLarious · 21/08/2025 18:29

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hiintrepidheroes · 21/08/2025 18:24

Why do you think people are trying to be perfect or ‘holier than thou’ just because we choose not to use child labour sourced clothes, or to put our kids in toxic clothes.

I understand you don’t care about these people forced to work in these conditions, but do you not care about the health of your own kids?

Waitingfordoggo · 21/08/2025 18:24

‘It is what it is’

😂

Or:

‘It just happened. I have no control over my behaviour as I am incapable of independent thought, and especially incapable of realising that I am not in fact the main character’.

Waitingfordoggo · 21/08/2025 18:22

Who are you referring to @IThinkPink?

IThinkPink · 21/08/2025 18:11

Daft mare! Trying to be holier than thou but I bet there’s something questionable in her lifestyle somewhere…

I shop from shein as do many as evidenced on this thread. It is what it is

MapWall · 21/08/2025 18:03

GenieGenealogy · 20/08/2025 11:12

So basically, "I pick my battles" means "I don't care". At least own it rather than dressing it up with odd arguments and analogies.

Not buying from Shein isn't "virtue signalling". Nobody in real life goes about approaching randomers in the street and telling them they don't buy from Shein or telling their friends without being asked about it. Any more than you would spontaneously tell someone where you bought your jacket without being asked first. This is an anonymous forum and nobody has anything to prove to anyone.

I think that poster has recently learnt the phrase ‘virtue signalling’. She is all over several threads peppering her comments with it ;-)

hiintrepidheroes · 21/08/2025 17:29

ChaiLarious · 21/08/2025 17:01

I'm not saying I buy from there because it's easier. I buy from there because I want to and I like the things I buy from there. I honestly couldn't give a flying fuck what anyone on here or anywhere else for that matter thinks about me as a person for choosing to shop there. Enjoy all trying to out do each other on how perfect you are.

I think you’ve missed the point. It’s never been about being perfect.

These clothes are toxic and should be nowhere near young peoples skin. People are upset over the poor working conditions in the factories, if you can’t understand basic empathy and concern for others then that says a lot about you.

FatherFrosty · 21/08/2025 17:12

OdisseanQueen · 21/08/2025 17:09

I often wonder if these people would feel the same if it were people like them being exploited to make the clothes. Suppose their water supply was being poisoned. Or if stacks of unworn discarded polyester clothing were all over their neighbourhood.

I strongly suspect they’d feel a lot of rage at the disregard for it and how we don’t see it.

OdisseanQueen · 21/08/2025 17:09

FatherFrosty · 21/08/2025 17:05

No one’s trying to out do anyone. It’s just hard to fathom why anyone would want to put themselves or their children at risk from toxic clothing. Even if you’re not bothered about ethics. You should be bothered about your families health

these sites are also being investigated by gambling commissions due to the spin to win discounts and count down timers. It creates the same buzz as gambling and does create an addiction.

I often wonder if these people would feel the same if it were people like them being exploited to make the clothes. Suppose their water supply was being poisoned. Or if stacks of unworn discarded polyester clothing were all over their neighbourhood.

FatherFrosty · 21/08/2025 17:05

ChaiLarious · 21/08/2025 17:01

I'm not saying I buy from there because it's easier. I buy from there because I want to and I like the things I buy from there. I honestly couldn't give a flying fuck what anyone on here or anywhere else for that matter thinks about me as a person for choosing to shop there. Enjoy all trying to out do each other on how perfect you are.

No one’s trying to out do anyone. It’s just hard to fathom why anyone would want to put themselves or their children at risk from toxic clothing. Even if you’re not bothered about ethics. You should be bothered about your families health

these sites are also being investigated by gambling commissions due to the spin to win discounts and count down timers. It creates the same buzz as gambling and does create an addiction.

ChaiLarious · 21/08/2025 17:01

FatherFrosty · 21/08/2025 16:57

The exact same way they buy stuff from shein by tap tap tapping on their phones.

you can even buy second hand stuff with it as well.

you cannot say it’s easier to buy from shein and temu. That argument washes as badly as some of the shite from those sites.

I'm not saying I buy from there because it's easier. I buy from there because I want to and I like the things I buy from there. I honestly couldn't give a flying fuck what anyone on here or anywhere else for that matter thinks about me as a person for choosing to shop there. Enjoy all trying to out do each other on how perfect you are.

Digdongdoo · 21/08/2025 16:58

OdisseanQueen · 21/08/2025 16:28

When I was less conscious about my consumption, I bought new things and never wore them. Kept them for a year, planning to resell, then donated them to charity 🙂

I recently redonated two new with tags dresses that I bought from a charity shop. Full circle 😂

FatherFrosty · 21/08/2025 16:57

ChaiLarious · 20/08/2025 14:49

So how is a person who does not drive and on a limited income expected to travel to their local Sainsburys, which may be around 10 miles away just to buy clothes with their weekly shop? They would almost certainly choose the option of walking to the budget supermarket that may be a 5/10 minute walk away. The middle class privilege is strong on this thread. Some families can't afford the bus fare to travel to what you deem a better option.

The exact same way they buy stuff from shein by tap tap tapping on their phones.

you can even buy second hand stuff with it as well.

you cannot say it’s easier to buy from shein and temu. That argument washes as badly as some of the shite from those sites.

OdisseanQueen · 21/08/2025 16:28

GenieGenealogy · 21/08/2025 11:05

I volunteer in a charity shop and we get loads of clothing brand new with tags (as well as other things still sealed in boxes). People buy in the sale, put it away for the following summer and change their mind, or lose/gain weight, or just decide it doesn't fit and they can't be arsed going back to change it, especially if it was bought fairly cheaply. People aren't stealing to donate stuff to a charity shop.

When I was less conscious about my consumption, I bought new things and never wore them. Kept them for a year, planning to resell, then donated them to charity 🙂

GenieGenealogy · 21/08/2025 11:05

I volunteer in a charity shop and we get loads of clothing brand new with tags (as well as other things still sealed in boxes). People buy in the sale, put it away for the following summer and change their mind, or lose/gain weight, or just decide it doesn't fit and they can't be arsed going back to change it, especially if it was bought fairly cheaply. People aren't stealing to donate stuff to a charity shop.

Digdongdoo · 21/08/2025 09:45

SquishedMallow · 21/08/2025 09:35

They're very likely stolen.

That's funding a whole other unethical trade.....

The stolen or fake ones are easy to spot, the sellers have lots. There's plenty that are just unwanted presents or impulse buys from the TK Max sales. My DH buys some of his work clothes the same way. Takes 30 seconds to check the sellers wardrobe and assess - easy peasy.

SquishedMallow · 21/08/2025 09:35

Waitingfordoggo · 20/08/2025 19:57

It’s got nothing to do with keeping me happy, it’s about trying to make choices that are better for the planet and its inhabitants.

I don’t know if you’ve ever heard of Vinted but you can buy brand new stuff on there still with tags on. My kids do it all the time. My son has some nice Fred Perry and Ralph Lauren stuff from there (not my scene but he likes those brands) brand new for a fraction of the cost they would be new.

They're very likely stolen.

That's funding a whole other unethical trade.....

TheLudditesWereRight · 21/08/2025 09:03

11 billion tons of stuff are shipped around the world a year, 40% of which is fossil fuel. It's worse than aviation for carbon emissions. We all urgently need to stop buying shit we don't need.

theconversation.com/ships-moved-more-than-11-billion-tonnes-of-our-stuff-around-the-globe-last-year-and-its-killing-the-climate-this-week-is-a-chance-to-change-150078

CoralSea · 21/08/2025 07:48

Ikeasucks · 18/08/2025 11:20

Their stuff looks lovely (online on skinny models anyway) - have heard a few good things recently as i had written them off a few years ago. Anyone use them and happy with the product, quality, returns etc

i hate online clothes shop but the high street/town centers are dead in many places now so options are really limited often to just M&S, Next, H&M or Primark

it's not about 'lovely' looking stuff though. Do you not care how things are produced???

DashboardConfession · 21/08/2025 07:47

AliciaLeeming · 20/08/2025 23:40

It's as easy to buy clothes from Sainsbury online as it is from Shein.

Yep. Their online customer service is excellent.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 20/08/2025 23:59

No one is asking you to source clothing spun from the wool of hand reared, yoga practicing bunnies and stitched under a full moon by fairies with PHDs who sip chamomile tea while performing interpretive dance tutorials on couture embroidery.

I'm desperate to see this and would definitely buy whatever they made.

AliciaLeeming · 20/08/2025 23:40

ChaiLarious · 20/08/2025 14:49

So how is a person who does not drive and on a limited income expected to travel to their local Sainsburys, which may be around 10 miles away just to buy clothes with their weekly shop? They would almost certainly choose the option of walking to the budget supermarket that may be a 5/10 minute walk away. The middle class privilege is strong on this thread. Some families can't afford the bus fare to travel to what you deem a better option.

It's as easy to buy clothes from Sainsbury online as it is from Shein.

PrincessofWells · 20/08/2025 21:13

ChaiLarious · 20/08/2025 18:26

Yes you can but people also may not like the clothes in the supermarket ranges. Why should people buy clothes they don't like just to keep you happy.

Because it's not about keeping us happy - it's actually about not buying from companies who use child slavery - therein lies your error.

Waitingfordoggo · 20/08/2025 19:57

ChaiLarious · 20/08/2025 18:26

Yes you can but people also may not like the clothes in the supermarket ranges. Why should people buy clothes they don't like just to keep you happy.

It’s got nothing to do with keeping me happy, it’s about trying to make choices that are better for the planet and its inhabitants.

I don’t know if you’ve ever heard of Vinted but you can buy brand new stuff on there still with tags on. My kids do it all the time. My son has some nice Fred Perry and Ralph Lauren stuff from there (not my scene but he likes those brands) brand new for a fraction of the cost they would be new.

Cherrysoup · 20/08/2025 19:11

I worry about the ethics. Saying that, is it awful that I’ve bought 2 items secondhand that are Shein? One wasn’t advertised as Shein and has had tons of compliments.