Hey just joined this group, really need advice, don't know where to turn! After 20 years of marriage and being together for 35 years (im 52) husband told me over the phone he wants to separate, haven't been getting along for a few months I will admit, but very hard to keep a relationship going when he works away all week and only home at weekends, I work Saturdays so only have time on a Sunday. Said he wants to be on his own, we'll 80% of our marriage has been on our own, i have brought up the boys mainly on my own over the years, ive asked him to be home more, but still chooses to be away all week my 3 boys are all adults and we have 2 beautiful grandchildren, he hasnt spoken to our boys, they are very angry and hurt, he is keeping himself apart from them all. I was looking forward to our time now, doing the things we want together but now he has changed all that, I cant afford the house on my own, he wants to move out and I don't know what to do, also I heard this week im being made redundant due to closure of my company, im in bits, been very emotional and cant understand why this is all happening, any advice would be greatly received.