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He’s come back steaming drunk

28 replies

forevergrateful1 · 17/08/2025 23:31

I mentioned to my boyfriend I am starting to get drained. If it’s not his debt, it’s his overwhelming emotions he piles on. He is very clingy and I put up another post about this. I told him today as I’ve been so drained emotionally it’s become physically draining that I’m constantly needing to sleep.

Although I have been feeling drained and low myself, he made commitments to see his friend which I was supposed to go. I didn’t go because we both don’t have the money especially him.

he’s come back steaming drunk been sick all over the toilet and has run up a tab to pay for these drinks. He even brought others drinks on this tab. I was fuming I got his clothes and told him to leave and he started crying. He’s slumped at the front door sleeping and won’t move now.

I don’t know what to do I’m so mad that I had to post.

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autienotnaughty · 17/08/2025 23:35

Ring the police and get him removed.
move on.

This man doesn’t care about your feelings you are better off single.

mangosmoothie123 · 17/08/2025 23:34

You need to sit him down when he’s sober and give him an ultimatum. He needs to grow up a bit and be more responsible with his money and make better choices or you should reconsider your relationship.

Hope you’re okay

Haggisfish3 · 17/08/2025 23:32

Leave him and throw him out.