I’m looking for some impartial opinions on this please
My ex-partner (and mother of my 7-year-old son) has been in a new relationship for about 6 months. She introduced him to our son around 6 weeks ago, and within another 2 weeks her partner moved in. From what I understand, he was recently divorced and had been living with his family before this. A former partner moved out about 8 months ago who had lived with them for 3 years, which my son was upset about.
I’ve spoken with my son about it, and he says he’s happy and that he likes the new partner. While I’m glad he feels positive, I also know that at 7 he might not fully understand or be able to express if the pace feels too fast for him.
I personally think a gradual introduction over 6+ months would have been a healthier approach. I realise everyone approaches relationships differently, but I struggle to understand moving this quickly when children are involved.