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Would you go to the beach with legs this hairy?

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Spicyprawnsitisthen · 17/08/2025 17:15

Like this?

I went today without really realising how bad they were until I got there. I live by a beach, not on holidays and just rushed there after work
Now i’m looking at them like 😮
I feel like no one I know would do this

Would you go to the beach with legs this hairy?
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saffy2 · 18/08/2025 18:10

Yes I would. I rarely shave my legs due to time and energy. My showers are a rush as it is. I’ve worn shorts all summer and been to the beach and pools with leg hair much longer and darker than that. It’s perfectly normal after all.

Caerulea · 18/08/2025 17:53

At some point I started asking myself 'would DH shave his legs to go swimming?' and the answer is always no, so why should I?

He & I were laughing at my leg hair last night because, and I'm guessing this is a hormone thing, I've only got noticeable hair left on my shins & ankles. I'm fair & fine haired so had I never started shaving them they'd probably be near invisible too

Account734 · 18/08/2025 17:51

I wouldn't but I wouldn't judge anyone negatively that did. When I see someone rocking hairy legs I respect them for being comfortable in their body.

PuppiesProzacProsecco · 18/08/2025 17:41

DH thought I was ridiculous last week for wearing long trousers in the heat wave because my legs were too hairy. I was working from home and saw no-one but DH and DS all day 🙈

In my defence, I have ASD and having visible hairy legs (or other physical "imperfections") really stresses me out. It's not so much the having them, it's more the having to look at them that upsets me.

I also won't wear sleeveless tops as I hate my upper arms. I'm a weirdo.

Ebsalami · 18/08/2025 17:36

Yes.
The whole thing of women supposedly needing to pretend they don’t grow hairs on their legs is ridiculous.

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 18/08/2025 17:34

Actually younger women are shunning hair removal.

bugalugs45 · 18/08/2025 17:16

I had laser hair removal treatment 12 years ago , it wasn’t cheap but was worth every penny , I haven’t shaved my legs since & they’re smooth as a baby’s bum !
My armpits I used to do daily as were so dark I now do approx once a fortnight and that’s only in the lazy year ( menopause symptom ) .
For anyone reading this considering laser , do it !

likeafishneedsabike · 18/08/2025 17:11

I am very pale with black hair. But even I don’t give a shit these days. I work with (gorgeous) teenage girls who just don’t really bother with body hair removal and I feel they have re-educated me. Being hairy is no crime against humanity - you don’t see my DH having to do all sort of prep for the beach or pool. He just packs his towel and fucks off. So I have broken the bonds of hair removal tyranny.

Thissickbeat · 18/08/2025 17:00

I wouldn't, but I was always bullied for mine. Have lasered it all off now.

I'd be impressed if someone else did though.

Emmz1510 · 18/08/2025 16:53

I personally wouldn’t. But that’s because I’m insecure about my body and wouldn’t have the confidence. I feel bad enough about my body that my thought process is if I can at least control that I will.
That doesn’t mean I think there is anything wrong at all about other people having hairy legs at the beach. I wouldn’t look twice and yours aren’t that noticeable. So crack on!

Bluedenimdoglover · 18/08/2025 16:47

Who cares? Who really notices? Just forget about it and enjoy the beach!

Cherrytree86 · 18/08/2025 16:43

Longnightmoon · 17/08/2025 17:32

Once a week? 52 times a year? over how many years? have you ever added up all the wasted time that represents!? How awful that anyone feels this is necessary. It isn't a "standard"-it is a tyranny.

@Longnightmoon

it doesn’t take very long in the shower you know! Once a week is not much.
and some women prefer their legs smooth for themselves - how they look and feel.

Louiestopit · 18/08/2025 16:08

Yes. I would and I have and I give no shits.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 18/08/2025 16:06

I think it’s absolutely fine!

I think we should normalise people being allowed their own choices re body hair and not look at women’s body hair as somehow disgusting.

BauhausOfEliott · 18/08/2025 16:05

In an ideal world, I wouldn't - however, if I really fancied going to the beach and had no opportunity to shave my legs, hairy legs wouldn't stop me.

It's worth noting that never once in my life have I been at a beach or a pool or whatever and paid even the slightest bit of attention to whether any other woman had shaved or not. I could be next to someone on a beach all day and still not be able to tell you if she'd shaved her legs or not.

The only way in which I'm ever paying attention to body hair on a beach is when I'm looking for the optimum amount and distribution of chest hair on a man for peak sexiness, really.

surprisebaby12 · 18/08/2025 16:04

If you died tomorrow, would you regret not going to the beach because you have hair on your body? Life is so precious, while it’s great to look and feel your best, it should never dictate how you live your life. Go feel the sun on your skin and get time away from screens/ normal life!

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 18/08/2025 15:59

Thereisatimeandaplace · 17/08/2025 22:01

Haven't seen beyond the title, but my answer is yes, if you're comfortable with it.
If someone is close enough to see the hairs in my kegs, then they're too close.

You must have very fair leg hair. Mine is black and I still would. I walk down the high street in shorts with much hairier legs than that. I got ranted at by my male downstairs neighbour about it, but it turned out he thought I was just wearing a shirt, no shorts. He's apologised.

tigerlady14 · 18/08/2025 15:49

I have very pale skin and brown body hair and I haven’t shaved my legs/armpits or any other part of my body for about 5 years or more (I sometimes tidy up my eyebrows) I do things like this all the time and nobody cares/if they do they haven’t said anything to me :)

1989whome · 18/08/2025 15:46

Damn right I would 😂 if someone's is staring that closely to see your hairy egs, that's their issue lol.

Greypanda86 · 18/08/2025 15:42

I wouldn’t but I shave everyday cos I don’t like having hairy legs but if I saw someone else like this I wouldn’t care less

hypnovic · 18/08/2025 15:36

Yes I would who gives a sh!t. If people don't like it they can look away. We are lucky to have the mental space time and luxury to even wonder if its an issue

MsDDxx · 18/08/2025 10:34

I wouldn’t, but I wouldn’t judge anyone who did, if you see what I mean 😂

Annoyeddd · 18/08/2025 10:33

All this crap about beach ready is a marketing ploy to sell razors, creams, fake tan etc.

stayathomer · 18/08/2025 10:28

i generally only realise once I get home from somewhere that my legs and nails are in pretty crappy nick and then I shave, moisturise, cut nails etc (so basically when nobody will see them!) Every time too!!

SeaOfBliss · 18/08/2025 10:25

Yes. If anyone notices, they won’t remember on a day out at the beach

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