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To be so angry at my step dad

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hayleysthinking · 15/08/2025 23:07

My Mum had me quite young and split with my dad when I was a teen, I’m now in my 20s and my mum has remarried.
She found out she was pregnant but didn’t want another child due to her age but her husband did and wanted her to keep it.
She ended up losing the baby and because she was at home on her own she nearly died as she lost so much blood she lost consciousness and I found her.
Fast forward a year and mum is pregnant again and says she knows he will keep on until he gets a child.
Secondly I have been accused of being jealous because I’m worried that I will lose my mum and he doesn’t seem to care one ounce about her health as long as he gets his child.
AIBU to really hate this selfish prick who knows my mum nearly died and doesn’t want another baby but is willing to risk her health to stop him keeping on?

OP posts:
bumbaloo · 15/08/2025 23:10

Why isn’t she taking responsibility to ensure she doesn’t get pregnant if she doesn’t want a child?