AIBU for being annoyed with MIL for buying us another pram?

Refuse it, tell her you don’t need another pram thanks and also definitely highlight the safety reviews to her.

This doesn't make much sense. Does she think your DS should walk more? Then why buy another pram?!

If it's Amazon, you can send it back yourself. Of course you might not want the hassle. So frustrating for you! I'd be tempted to leave it outside with a note saying 'free' to get rid of it without any effort on your part or take it back to her next time you visit.

Yanbu does she have your kid much can it be given to her to keep at her house if not donate it. Like most people I spent a significant amount of time researching prams/pushchairs I wouldn't be want to be just given a random one

I went through similar with a family member and just sold or donated the items. It quickly stopped!

"Hi DM [because this needs to come from your DH!], I guess you ordered this pram before you apologised to us for making the inappropriate comments about our DS and our choice of pram? You can't possibly have ordered it after that as that would make your apology insincere, so I'm guessing you forgot to cancel the order? As you know we put a lot of research into the pram we have and we love it, so it's the only pram DS is going to use. Would you like me to bring the new pram to you so you can send it back for a refund, or shall I donate it to charity?"

Don't accept delivery and on any comeback simply say you'll be choosing one when the baby and you feel good and ready.

That's really overstepping on their part. I would message and say "Whilst I appreciate your concern, we are happy with our current pram and won't use the one you sent. Do you want to return it for refund or shall I donate it to charity?".

Yanbu. Id never use it.

This is a really important moment to set clear boundaries, if you stand your ground now I believe she will not go against you in the future (at least in the near future.)

I would be taking it to her and explaining you have chosen a pram you are happy with and you do not want a different pram.

She already knows she’s overstepping, you’re just reenforcing that bulldozing you will not result in her getting her way.

I'd donate it to a local charity shop or children's charity/women's shelter.

Then I'd message MIL "Thanks for the buggy, we looked at it but decided we like our one best. I've given it to a local charity and they were very grateful".

In what way does she think it impacts your DC's walking? "That seems a bit of a bizarre claim for a buggy they ride in!

AS others said - just refuse delivery. If that's impractical for some reason then tell her she can either collect it the same week or you will sell it on ebay/donate to your local Oxfam/put it out with the trash/etc. Don't be drawn into a discussion about it. She didn't have the good manners to check with you before ordering, you can be just as high handed. If she tries to argue, let her finish her spiel and then say "So are you coming to get it or should I get rid?".

Give it to her to send back - no way would I use it or let her get away with this!

Refusing delivery only works if you re in or they ring the door bell. Most of the time, they just dump it there.

Drop it round at her place.Next time you see her and say you don't want it. .She can post it back.

Refuse delivery and then ring her and tell her exactly why. She got her chance to choose prams with her own children, you get to choose yours.

Don't accept it when its delivered.

Just refuse delivery. Say you didn't order it and don't accept it at the door. End of.