Years ago,I had two friends who where slightly older than me
I was also very vulnerable and they took full advantage of this
They tried to control every single thing I did/spent money on/brought up my dc/decorated my house/clothes we wore etc
They dumped me when I grew a backbone and slagged me off to anyone who would listen and I lost a lot of friends
They caused so much trouble for me,I almost had a breakdown
I know that woman A only married her husband (and had two daughters with him) as he had a good job and has a minted family
If he'd been a bloke who had less money/assets she wouldn't have looked twice at him-the plan is to stay with him until the youngest is 18(and get a long marriage out of it so she'll walk away with more,plus she doesnt want to be a single parent) and then she's taking him 'for everything he's got' (her words not mine) and he's the sort to give her everything just because he loves her
She freely admits she has to 'grit her teeth' while having sex with him but to the outside world,they have a perfect marriage and are made for each other
The other fancies herself as an erotica writer
Most of the stories she's 'made up out of her head' are actually the affairs she's had behind her fellas back
She's a real life dorien green (birds of a feather)
i know dorien had an unhappy marriage in birds,and had lovers to fill the gap but this womans bloke would do anything for her and utterly adores her
She left her (then young) children to be with him (and had more dc with him) and is shagging anything that moves while he's hard at work in his two jobs or sat at home while she goes out with 'the girls' (she's not,she's in bed with one of her lovers)
She just loves the thrill of getting away with it apparently
They both know I could blow their lives up tomorrow and avoid me like I have the plague but flap their mouths thinking I don't know what's said about me
I won't say anything as it's not fair on two,hard working and decent men but it's tempting as both women have accused me of what they do themselves