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What's some juicy gossip that you can't share irl but can share with nosy strangers on mumsnet?

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 15/08/2025 19:39

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To improve an otherwise boring friday night in front of the TV, with my slightly poorly DD x

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Horsie · 17/08/2025 04:33

Lucyweeks · 16/08/2025 18:36

Well there's a certain cosmetic company owner who is vile to other women particularly if they're curvy.
She was rude to me, then was very insulting to a friend who she interviewed for a job. Sadly for her she approached a colleague of mine for an investment. I vetoed that. He can afford to be picky.

Oooh, are her initials CT???

Horsie · 17/08/2025 04:29

Glitchymn1 · 16/08/2025 18:16

My best friend is on a site to liaise with men who live fairly locally who have large attributes, I can’t get my head around it.

You can't? Really? 😂

ChloeUK · 17/08/2025 04:29

mumofoneAloneandwell · 16/08/2025 08:29

Ooo, do keep us updated! Sounds like it could be fun, as long as he won't get too jealous?

Early days for us yet but it's been fun discussing it and roleplaying 😊

Sodastreamin · 17/08/2025 03:30

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 15/08/2025 20:08

I know that some shit will be going down at the scout committee meeting next week. I. Cannot. Wait.

Omg PLEEEEEASE share. My life is miserable

changeme4this · 17/08/2025 02:57

Daisyvodka · 15/08/2025 20:01

My gossip is that I found out a neighbour of mine, who went through a breakup a couple of years ago and is still living in the house, waiting for it to sell, has been going round heavily implying she has been bravely shouldering the majority of the mortgage and bills all by herself, when in actual fact her ex is still paying half the mortgage (while paying for their own rental while they wait for the house to sell) and her new boyfriend moved in and started paying rent months ago so she's actually paying the least towards the roof over her head out of her, her ex and new boyfriend. No kids involved, she dumped the ex because she met new man, and she's bought a fancy new car....

I wonder if we know the same person? I haven't met the new man yet, but his profile appeared on her FB page a couple of months after Hubby moved out.

She recently told me of an earlier trip where he (the new bloke) had gone away with her while she was married.... and it was supposed to be for other reasons.

Did your friend tell her spouse to move their pets or she would get rid of them?

very difficult to remain on friendly terms with her. Feels all pre-organised.

Ihateboris · 17/08/2025 02:14

Ha ha 😂...and your sons!

Fiers · 17/08/2025 01:53

A woman I work with seems to be going through some sort of mid-life crisis. We are all worried about her and have tried to talk to her but she just shuts it all down.

October last year she announced her husband was ill and was waiting for a diagnosis. By November she had left him and moved into social housing (she had owned her previous home).
Began sleeping with one of her clients. Spent thousands of pounds on plastic surgery for teenaged daughter and for botox/fillers/tattoos for herself.
Started dating a few different men at the same time and constantly showed us all the expensive gifts they bought her.
Started becoming unreliable at work, calling in sick or just not showing up at all, leaving halfway through the day or just not coming back from lunch. Eventually told us that she didn't want too many hours because it would affect her universal credit. Why or even how she could claim UC I don't know.
Then she announced she had a boyfriend and it was true love. Last month she moved in with him, after seeing each other for only 4 months. But the worst thing is she has kicked her kids out of their home.
She dropped her 13 year old daughter off at her dad's house with a bin bag of her things and told her she was living there now. She kicked her 18 year old daughter out and told her to find her own place or move in with her own boyfriend (who is also a student and living with his parents). I spoke to her 18 year old the other day and she says she hasn't seen her mum in 2 weeks, she (P) never replies to her daughters messages. She just seemed absolutely broken when she was telling me.
Her new boyfriends 12 year old daughter was then kicked out and told she is not welcome at her dad's house. P was genuinely pleased with herself when telling me this.
She's kept her social housing home (despite no one living there) and is still claiming universal credit even though new boyfriend is a high earner and she is capable of working full time.

It's all just so ridiculous and awful. She's a completely different person to how she was a year ago.

Anonyone1 · 17/08/2025 00:29

My ex-best Mum friend’s DH confessed (or bragged?) to my DH on a night out once that he had shagged one of the other school Mums from their DCs class back in the day. They were both single, so nothing untoward, but my ex-friend is the kind of person who would be furious if she ever found out and wouldn’t be able to get over it very easily.
DH only told me this after she stopped talking to me!

ZiggyZowie · 17/08/2025 00:24

A relative of mine was much admired by Adolf Hitler.

ThistleTits · 16/08/2025 23:41

TraintoManifeStation · 15/08/2025 20:51

Dear Great Uncle…

When you scattered my Grandmother’s ‘ashes’, it was actually cat litter and fag ash.

Omg lol 😆 😂 🤣

SadTimesInFife · 16/08/2025 23:26

Probably not a secret.....who the song "Toxic" was written about..?

mrsmiawallace3 · 16/08/2025 23:24

I know a man who arrived in our town ten years ago from SA. He has since installed himself with three separate recently divorced women, each of whom have three children. He appears to move on when the settlement money runs out 😯 A sort of hobosexual ambulance chaser....😒

PrincessHoneysuckle · 16/08/2025 23:20

The head at my ds school is shagging the deputy head.Neither are single.

Rowen32 · 16/08/2025 23:16

whackamole666 · 16/08/2025 22:37

Tell me you're a hair stylist without telling me you're a hair stylist

I read that post knowing she was a hair stylist, it's only when I saw your post I realised she nevet actually said she was 😂

mumofoneAloneandwell · 16/08/2025 23:01

Apollobinds · 16/08/2025 22:58

When DD was a teenager she was really upset as one of her closest friends had started sleeping with her very recent ex. I reported the friends mum for benefit fraud (which was true). The mum couldn’t work out who had reported her. She had to pay a lot of money back!

Oh. Erm ...

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Apollobinds · 16/08/2025 22:58

When DD was a teenager she was really upset as one of her closest friends had started sleeping with her very recent ex. I reported the friends mum for benefit fraud (which was true). The mum couldn’t work out who had reported her. She had to pay a lot of money back!

Mummy2Sienna · 16/08/2025 22:52

Verydemure · 16/08/2025 16:36

That is very reassuring! He seems like a good egg

Not JM?? 😞

Namechangefordaughterevasion · 16/08/2025 22:41

My 30 something PFB is pregnant with a much wanted honeymoon baby. She doesn't want to announce it generally until she is post 12 weeks.

I've spent the last 3 weeks away with various friends and family members absolutely lying through my teeth when they ask for news of her and her new husband

whackamole666 · 16/08/2025 22:37

DressingGemma · 16/08/2025 19:33

One of my clients told me she suspected her husband was having an affair. She didn’t want to upset the family home etc so she’s kept quiet but has recently started seeing someone at work herself behind DH back. He best friend is also my client. She told me it is HER who is having an affair with first clients husband but she doesn’t have a clue. She also doesn’t know about friends secret fella at work. So I have to sit and listen to the stories and try not mix them up just incase I let anything slip. Client one will be like I think he was with her last Thursday afternoon, if I find out who she is. I feel like saying I KNOW he was with her Thursday afternoon noon she told me yesterday! Bloody scumbags.

Tell me you're a hair stylist without telling me you're a hair stylist

Ultravox · 16/08/2025 22:27

An Italian foreign exchange student came to our town with a school trip. When she left she found out she was pregnant. She had the baby in her home country and put it up for adoption. It was quite a scandal for her at the time as her family were very religious - fairly sure she didn’t have much choice.
I know who the father was but he knew nothing about the whole thing. I see him occasionally and he is a decent guy but he has no idea he has a child who lives in another country. He has a step kid who he treats really well and I just know he would have been a good dad.

Klp122 · 16/08/2025 22:17

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 15/08/2025 21:58

I know that two people, A&B for example who are in a relationship actually got together at least 12 months before they claim and when one of them was he was still married to someone else. Nor did they first meet in the place they both claim to.

Other than the people immediately involved (of which I am not one) nobody else knows this I am not entirely sure how much of the above A's ex even knows. I do have to sometimes bite my lip when people go on about what a lovely couple they are and how lucky they found each other after As marriage ended 🙄.

This sounds exactly like my not so 'D'B and his new partner. I wonder if it's them? Hmm

mumofoneAloneandwell · 16/08/2025 22:12

Qwerty58 · 16/08/2025 22:03

They used to hang out in places like Courchevel, or probably Dubai

And just like that, the appeal has worn off 😭

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Notmaintain · 16/08/2025 22:11

Qwerty58 · 16/08/2025 22:02

no, dear God 🤣

nicer and more attractive- and not an asshole!🤣

by “younger” I mean we were in our mid twenties and there was no grooming involved, and we had a clear idea what we were doing (and it was fun basically)

Seriously, you should be contacting publishers. It's a very alien world to most of us. People would love reading exposes of the rich.

Livpool · 16/08/2025 22:11

Simonjt · 15/08/2025 19:41

Not gossip, but it’s my husbands birthday this month, he’s desperate for my chemical romance tickets but he didn’t manage to get any. He thought I was at work this morning, I wasn’t, I was securing two hospitality tickets for him :)

Aww that is adorable

TheGander · 16/08/2025 22:07

Thindog · 16/08/2025 21:58

He wasn't called Andrew by any chance, was he?

She said he was a nice man and not an asshole, so that excludes Andrew.

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