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Why is everyone hating on London

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greenwichvillage · 15/08/2025 15:04

Recently a lot posts I read on social media is about how much people hate London. Its has been called all sorts of names - cesspit, dirty, crime ridden and the foreigners have taken over. They don't recognise London anymore and they are glad they have moved to whiter areas with cheaper housing.

For context, I have lived here all my life, lived in North West London and now live in Southwest London. I admit there are parts of London that have deteriorated, equally there part parts of London that are really nice. Yes it is expensive to live in and properties are expensive but that does not make it a cesspit.

I love living where I am and I love all that London has to offer. I'm not English but I am British and I'm not white and I feel really safe here in London. Yes there are problems with crime, but there is crime everywhere.

I have been to other areas in the UK and really none of it appeals to me, I have been to beautiful country side and small towns and cities and tbh I would get bored after two days there. But I would never go as far as insulting it which people seem to do quite a lot with London.

I think Farage/ Reform and Tommy have a lot to answer for.

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Jamesblonde2 · 15/08/2025 23:33

Chompingatthebeat · 15/08/2025 23:27

Maybe 'rural up north' is the same

Pleased to say we’re the same as we always were and welcome tourists who know what they’re going to get. Traditional. It’s great.

No Roma beggars.

Chompingatthebeat · 15/08/2025 23:27

Wolfpinkola · 15/08/2025 23:25

@Jamesblonde2 nowhere feels like it did 30 years ago. Accents change and evolve, populations move, the centre of London arguably is is no longer the west end, I would say all the interesting stuff is East now.

Maybe 'rural up north' is the same

Wolfpinkola · 15/08/2025 23:26

PistachioTiramisuLimoncello · 15/08/2025 16:37

If they think like that OP then we are delighted they have moved out. Good riddance to the racist Reform voting twats! 👋

🙌🤣

GypsyQueeen · 15/08/2025 23:26

MasterBeth · 15/08/2025 23:20

I don't know. You tell me.
You are the one labelling them as "Romanian -looking."
Maybe you could be a bit more accurate before you start throwing your nationalistic slurs around.

I think he probably means Roma.

Wolfpinkola · 15/08/2025 23:25

@Jamesblonde2 nowhere feels like it did 30 years ago. Accents change and evolve, populations move, the centre of London arguably is is no longer the west end, I would say all the interesting stuff is East now.

MasterBeth · 15/08/2025 23:20

Jamesblonde2 · 15/08/2025 23:15

So where are those women from then? They’re certainly not British.

I don't know. You tell me.
You are the one labelling them as "Romanian -looking."
Maybe you could be a bit more accurate before you start throwing your nationalistic slurs around.

Wolfpinkola · 15/08/2025 23:18

Islamophobia and ignorance.
Also, there’s a general feeling of resentment maybe as the rich / poor gap gets bigger. Many cities have high unemployment and not very good prospects even just 2 hours away from London but young people are put off by the high rent, not realising the bigger picture which is sad

MasterBeth · 15/08/2025 23:18

newchapternewday · 15/08/2025 20:19

I love London and have worked in London for over 30 years, enjoy the buzz, my kids love it and we have some great days out. However the demographic has changed so much and while all types of people do rub along together the major has made it very clear that London is no longer for 'white families'.

Was so upset when this was in the press last year as I really feel that all demographics should be represented.

www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/sadiq-khan-white-family-official-website-b2396431.html

Are you able to read?

Did you read the article?

Did you read the bit that says: Mr Khan said the caption was added by a staff member “in error”, and does not reflect his view or the view of the GLA.?

Are you repeating this on purpose or through ignorance?

Jamesblonde2 · 15/08/2025 23:15

MasterBeth · 15/08/2025 23:13

"Romanian looking beggars." FFS.

So where are those women from then? They’re certainly not British.

MasterBeth · 15/08/2025 23:13

Jamesblonde2 · 15/08/2025 23:02

It doesn’t feel like it did 30 years ago.
The buildings and landmarks do, but the lack of cockney local accent is really disappointing and astounding.
I imagine tourists think the same. Perhaps not what they were expecting.
Immigrants sleeping in tents in parks?
Romanian looking beggars on every corner.
Those horrible American sweet shops which are a front for money laundering.
I don’t recognise the place so won’t be going back. I imagine the people who live there abd like it don’t want me back. Fair enough.
I’ll stay rural up North where things haven’t changed as much.

"Romanian looking beggars." FFS.

MasterBeth · 15/08/2025 23:12

InOverMyHead84 · 15/08/2025 22:57

I speak as I am and open to critique.

London is a foreign country to me. Overcrowded and not representative of my day to day life. I go there as a one off here and there and take it's ways as a curiosity.

It does not feel like the UK to me. It governs us, but is different to us.

Maybe that explains Brexit.

I find this a really odd thing to say.

What does the UK feel like, then? Like Cornwall or like Birmingham? Like Milton Keynes or the Isle of Mull? Like Shrewsbury or Swindon or Stirling? Because they all feel as different from each other as any of them do to London.

I worry that when you say "a foreign country", you are talking about London's many ethnicities. Is that what you mean? And why does this trouble you?

Jamesblonde2 · 15/08/2025 23:02

It doesn’t feel like it did 30 years ago.
The buildings and landmarks do, but the lack of cockney local accent is really disappointing and astounding.
I imagine tourists think the same. Perhaps not what they were expecting.
Immigrants sleeping in tents in parks?
Romanian looking beggars on every corner.
Those horrible American sweet shops which are a front for money laundering.
I don’t recognise the place so won’t be going back. I imagine the people who live there abd like it don’t want me back. Fair enough.
I’ll stay rural up North where things haven’t changed as much.

noblegiraffe · 15/08/2025 23:00

bldy · 15/08/2025 22:54

The thread is about the particular SM R Wing thing that is going on at the moment.

where are people seeing this all? I have only seen the cesspit comments on Daily Mail (yes I know I shouldn't go on there!)

Twitter.

It’s so stupid that people are starting to take the piss https://x.com/rosieisaholt/status/1956291893156856099?s=46&t=vKGM6xpoeW3wdlaVVVagQA

https://x.com/rosieisaholt/status/1956291893156856099?s=46&t=vKGM6xpoeW3wdlaVVVagQA

InOverMyHead84 · 15/08/2025 22:57

I speak as I am and open to critique.

London is a foreign country to me. Overcrowded and not representative of my day to day life. I go there as a one off here and there and take it's ways as a curiosity.

It does not feel like the UK to me. It governs us, but is different to us.

Maybe that explains Brexit.

bldy · 15/08/2025 22:54

The thread is about the particular SM R Wing thing that is going on at the moment.

where are people seeing this all? I have only seen the cesspit comments on Daily Mail (yes I know I shouldn't go on there!)

GypsyQueeen · 15/08/2025 22:49

EasternSkies · 15/08/2025 22:35

The thread is about the particular SM R Wing thing that is going on at the moment. Not about people whose personal preference is to live / visit elsewhere.

The Far Right are anti the Muslim / Labour mayor and desperate to prove that London is a desperate lawless no/go zone full of feral migrants.

As it happens crime has fallen over the last year, and in multi cultural cosmopolitan London , which houses more migrants / refugees per head of population than anywhere else, the community here is NOT staging riots and setting fire to accommodation hostels / hotels.

But Reform want Londoners to believe that we are under threat so are yelling ‘cess pit’ on repeat.

That’s what the OP was referencing, I think.

I was commenting on the fact that she kept trying to argue with people when they gave their reasons for not liking London. Like they were going to decide to change their minds based off what she had said 🤔😅

EasternSkies · 15/08/2025 22:35

GypsyQueeen · 15/08/2025 17:09

Yes!

Not quite sure what the purpose of the thread is. OP asked why some people hated London. Some people told her. OP then wants to get into a back & forth with them & try to argue about how wonderful London is ...😅

Some people seem to think the whole country is London.

I personally think there are many beautiful places in the North of England, Wales & Scotland, and would much rather live there than London (and I'm a southerner). It's just personal preference.

The thread is about the particular SM R Wing thing that is going on at the moment. Not about people whose personal preference is to live / visit elsewhere.

The Far Right are anti the Muslim / Labour mayor and desperate to prove that London is a desperate lawless no/go zone full of feral migrants.

As it happens crime has fallen over the last year, and in multi cultural cosmopolitan London , which houses more migrants / refugees per head of population than anywhere else, the community here is NOT staging riots and setting fire to accommodation hostels / hotels.

But Reform want Londoners to believe that we are under threat so are yelling ‘cess pit’ on repeat.

That’s what the OP was referencing, I think.

noblegiraffe · 15/08/2025 22:05

Hiptothisjive · 15/08/2025 22:02

No you’re right I’m not but you make me the subject of your reply when you reply directly to me and accuse me of those things. Your response wasn’t general or in answer to thr OP - it was directly to me. Hence my response.

No, you quoted my post about people hating Muslims and Sadiq Khan which was a response to the OP (the first post on the thread so it definitely wasn't aimed you) and tried to make it about you.

My post wasn't about you, it was about the far right campaign referred to in the OP. I don't know why you decided to take it personally and quote it.

Hiptothisjive · 15/08/2025 22:02

noblegiraffe · 15/08/2025 21:56

Because the OP was referring to the current batch of social media posts where people are saying that London has fallen, overrun by foreigners etc and was asking why.

My response (the first on the thread) was that it's because they hate Muslims and Sadiq Khan.

You then decided to respond that you dislike London and don't hate Muslims.

But that's irrelevant to the OP because you aren't posting it on social media, and to my post about the far-right muslim hating campaign to deride Sadiq Khan's London as a cesspool. They the ones currently hating on London by slating it on social media as described in the OP. You are not the subject of this thread.

No you’re right I’m not but you make me the subject of your reply when you reply directly to me and accuse me of those things. Your response wasn’t general or in answer to thr OP - it was directly to me. Hence my response.

Wonderwendy · 15/08/2025 21:57

NoSoupForU · 15/08/2025 21:48

Its a grotty shit hole for the most part. Its too busy. Its very stressful being there because the people generally aren't warm and friendly. There are good things too, but nothing I'd personally deem worth enduring all the negatives.

I mean it's not a "grotty shit hole" at all. You clearly have no idea what you're on about.

noblegiraffe · 15/08/2025 21:56

Hiptothisjive · 15/08/2025 21:46

What are you on about? Seriously?

I haven’t been on social media obsessively posting about London - in fact this is the first time ever. What a strange thing to say.

Because the OP was referring to the current batch of social media posts where people are saying that London has fallen, overrun by foreigners etc and was asking why.

My response (the first on the thread) was that it's because they hate Muslims and Sadiq Khan.

You then decided to respond that you dislike London and don't hate Muslims.

But that's irrelevant to the OP because you aren't posting it on social media, and to my post about the far-right muslim hating campaign to deride Sadiq Khan's London as a cesspool. They the ones currently hating on London by slating it on social media as described in the OP. You are not the subject of this thread.

NoSoupForU · 15/08/2025 21:48

Its a grotty shit hole for the most part. Its too busy. Its very stressful being there because the people generally aren't warm and friendly. There are good things too, but nothing I'd personally deem worth enduring all the negatives.

Hiptothisjive · 15/08/2025 21:46

noblegiraffe · 15/08/2025 21:43

Have you been going on social media and obsessively posting how London has fallen? Because if you have, that's a bit weird? And also what the far-right are currently doing.

What are you on about? Seriously?

I haven’t been on social media obsessively posting about London - in fact this is the first time ever. What a strange thing to say.

noblegiraffe · 15/08/2025 21:43

Hiptothisjive · 15/08/2025 21:39

Yeah I think you and o have different definitions of hating on…..I am more like this (taken from Google on the definition of hating on)

Hating on" something, particularly in informal contexts, means actively expressing strong dislike or criticism towards it, often in a negative, public, or even bullying way. It implies a more active and aggressive form of dislike than simply not liking something

Have you been going on social media and obsessively posting how London has fallen? Because if you have, that's a bit weird? And also what the far-right are currently doing.

Hiptothisjive · 15/08/2025 21:39

noblegiraffe · 15/08/2025 20:06

You dislike London. Hating on London is not the same as disliking London.

Hating on is making public criticism of something, usually on social media and usually in an unpleasant and vindictive way.

Yeah I think you and o have different definitions of hating on…..I am more like this (taken from Google on the definition of hating on)

Hating on" something, particularly in informal contexts, means actively expressing strong dislike or criticism towards it, often in a negative, public, or even bullying way. It implies a more active and aggressive form of dislike than simply not liking something

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