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So bored of 'we left our life in the UK' influencers

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Prenoden · 15/08/2025 12:47

Seem to be so many now. 'We left our life in the shitty UK for a dream life in [insert any sunnier country]. I'm not actually following these, they just seem to pop up on my social feeds uninvited.

Content on a lot of them is boringly similar, contrasting dull grey skies of previous life vs them now sat on a beach sipping from a coconut with clichéd POV captions.

Obviously everyone is entitled to do what they like and move wherever but why does it always have to be contrasted in this way? As if everyone is crazy for staying in UK. Every place has pros and cons and a lot of these sunny places aren't all they're cracked up to be.

A friend moved to Spain a decade ago in search of this kind of idyllic life and although the weather was lovely etc they said the bureaucracy was terrible, the school system was appalling and once her partner lost his job and couldn't find another that pretty much ended it and they willingly moved back.

Before anyone asks, I'm not bitter because I am stuck on this island. I like it here, it's not perfect and if you watch the news it's all negative, but I live in a lovely town, we have a nice network and I work remotely 4 days a week which is flexible with DC, earning enough money for what we need but always budget etc.

I do think Brexit was a terrible mistake though and the country has been in decline since. We will come to see it as a historic mistake but at the moment the far right loons seem to have a grip on setting the narrative (even though Brexit is their fault).

It's ironic that a lot of these new life influencers are now in sunnier EU countries that Brits could have easily moved to at the drop of a hat before Brexit but now it's a lot harder and bureaucratic, a lot of them create content about how to navigate visas etc. It's like it's become more desirable because it's not so easy anymore.

I actually have Eu citizenship thankfully so can still move to Southern Europe if I wanted to but the economies don't seem great so unless you're retired/ digital nomad it doesn't work. Climate change is also a worry a summers getting hotter everywhere and I wonder what that will mean in 10- 15 years.

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Applepe · 15/08/2025 14:30

I know someone who moved here for the weather. 👍🏻

OriginalUsername2 · 15/08/2025 14:29

Prenoden · 15/08/2025 14:27

Yes not sure what's causing it, I do get some of those UK vs US ones too. Why does everything have to be a constant comparison though?

The ones that annoy me most are when people try to paint Dubai / Saudi Arabia as some sort of heaven compared to UK.

Dubai must be packed to the rafters with people on laptops.

OriginalUsername2 · 15/08/2025 14:28

I’m dreaming of moving to Scotland to get away from the heat.

Prenoden · 15/08/2025 14:27

Littlecaf · 15/08/2025 13:36

Maybe it’s your algorithm on social media? All I seem to see are influencers talking about how much better the UK is in comparison to the US!

Yes not sure what's causing it, I do get some of those UK vs US ones too. Why does everything have to be a constant comparison though?

The ones that annoy me most are when people try to paint Dubai / Saudi Arabia as some sort of heaven compared to UK.

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Prenoden · 15/08/2025 14:25

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 15/08/2025 14:04

The indigenous people want out and everyone else wants in 😂

The right wing press are deliberately painting a picture that everything is awful here to sow division/ fear / anger

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Prenoden · 15/08/2025 14:24

heldinadream · 15/08/2025 13:41

Climate change already taking its toll, we have family in Portugal and they have loved it there for about 12 years but they're now moving back and climate change is definitely a large part of that decision.
Right now there are four major fires within 50 miles of them, and lots of small villages are being evacuated.

I like the UK and I think we're very lucky, and have been so for many years, compared to a lot of places; socially and politically and climate-wise. I enjoy travelling and I appreciate other cultures and peoples, but I'm glad to live here.

Yes the climate is very worrying, every year seems to be a new record temperature. It all well and good seeking life in the sunshine but what's the point if its far too hot to be outside?

At least with a UK sunny day of 24 -25 you can still be outdoors without getting sunstroke

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Paganpentacle · 15/08/2025 14:05

They'll be back when they need support. Or the NHS.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 15/08/2025 14:04

The indigenous people want out and everyone else wants in 😂

ComfortFoodCafe · 15/08/2025 13:45

They always think its great until the country they move too has many wild fires due to climate change, so over it.

heldinadream · 15/08/2025 13:41

Climate change already taking its toll, we have family in Portugal and they have loved it there for about 12 years but they're now moving back and climate change is definitely a large part of that decision.
Right now there are four major fires within 50 miles of them, and lots of small villages are being evacuated.

I like the UK and I think we're very lucky, and have been so for many years, compared to a lot of places; socially and politically and climate-wise. I enjoy travelling and I appreciate other cultures and peoples, but I'm glad to live here.

Littlecaf · 15/08/2025 13:36

Maybe it’s your algorithm on social media? All I seem to see are influencers talking about how much better the UK is in comparison to the US!

dottiedodah · 15/08/2025 13:33

I completely agree with you.There is so much to like about our little country .Like you we live in a nice town near the sea. I can't travel abroad (recovering from Cancer) And all people say is they know of cheap Insurance .I am happy having a holiday here! We have friends who have emigrated, and its a mixed bag. High costs of Medicine, and hospital treatment .Missing home and so on .

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