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Neighbors barking dogs are driving me mad

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whyisnothingsimple · 14/08/2025 23:03

I moved into my new house in March - all great except for next door’s 2 barking dogs. They seem to bark for no reason whatsoever and one will set the other off. It’s often just a minute but is frequent through the day and night. I’ve met lots of other neighbours who are lovely but not spoken face to face with these ones. They keep themselves to themselves according to others. I’ve started to tell the dogs to be quiet as the owners don’t seem to. Tonight I’ve been drifting off 3 times and then woken by their barking. They must hear me telling their dogs to be quiet - is it time for a face to face chat? I would have thought they might come round to me but looks like they won’t. I’ve no wish to fall out with anyone but am I being u reasonable in expecting not to be barked at when I go into my garden - I’m grumpy and tired tonight so now is not the time although I’m sorely tempted.

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JohnofWessex · 16/08/2025 14:47

If we ever get dog licences I suggest that before they get anywhere near an animal potential owners have to go through a training course where it is spelled out to them in words of one syllable how there animal is expected to behave and that if it doesnt bye bye doggy hello large fine

Clh1991 · 16/08/2025 10:48

caramac04 · 15/08/2025 22:52

@Thattimeofthenight you haven’t compassion in abundance for animals when you describe your neighbours unhappy dog as disgusting. As for the dog’s owners, you’re probably right.

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Thattimeofthenight · 15/08/2025 23:18

caramac04 · 15/08/2025 22:52

@Thattimeofthenight you haven’t compassion in abundance for animals when you describe your neighbours unhappy dog as disgusting. As for the dog’s owners, you’re probably right.

Shat everywhere, lunged at kids, barked all day long…

I’m not fussed what you think of my language. It was a disgusting animal and they were disgusting people.

caramac04 · 15/08/2025 22:52

@Thattimeofthenight you haven’t compassion in abundance for animals when you describe your neighbours unhappy dog as disgusting. As for the dog’s owners, you’re probably right.

PlutarchHeavensbee · 15/08/2025 22:16

Peaceisenough · 15/08/2025 01:15

I wish all dog owners thought like you Gorse.

Yes, agree. My neighbours are selfish entitled twats that leave their dogs howling and barking for hours. We’ve complained but they don’t give a shit.

Thattimeofthenight · 15/08/2025 21:54

PixieTales · 15/08/2025 21:42

It’s the language that poster uses to describe an animal that I find quite disgusting and almost disturbing with the lack of empathy towards an innocent animal.

Lots of things are annoying and antisocial- loud music, bonfires, kids screaming, couples arguing, cars speeding, but saying things like:

unfortunate creature

every time my disgusting neighbours’ disgusting mutt started its barking

Trained the damn thing to shut up

I think is taking it a step too far and not necessary.

🤷🏻‍♀️ I have animals. I always have had animals. I have compassion in abundance for animals. It’s not the dug’s fault, but I don’t care. Wasn’t their children’s fault the way they were dragged up either but society had to deal with the result of that. Unfortunately there was no CD available to train their shitty behaviour out of them.

Too many people own dogs who simply shouldn’t.

PixieTales · 15/08/2025 21:42

Noisecomplaint · 15/08/2025 21:03

To be fair I love dogs, I have three of my own.

but being tormented in your own home is something else. It’s irrational how you loose all thought for anything but that. People who let their dogs bark and disturb others should have them removed from them.

It’s the language that poster uses to describe an animal that I find quite disgusting and almost disturbing with the lack of empathy towards an innocent animal.

Lots of things are annoying and antisocial- loud music, bonfires, kids screaming, couples arguing, cars speeding, but saying things like:

unfortunate creature

every time my disgusting neighbours’ disgusting mutt started its barking

Trained the damn thing to shut up

I think is taking it a step too far and not necessary.

JohnofWessex · 15/08/2025 21:14

Keep a log of whats happening then off to The Council

Noisecomplaint · 15/08/2025 21:03

PixieTales · 15/08/2025 19:50

And what a pleasant human being you sound…..prime example of why I prefer most animals to most people 🤣

To be fair I love dogs, I have three of my own.

but being tormented in your own home is something else. It’s irrational how you loose all thought for anything but that. People who let their dogs bark and disturb others should have them removed from them.

whyisnothingsimple · 15/08/2025 20:34

Yes a dogs bark is so intrusive - I had dogs for 40 odd years but I never let them intrude on my neighbours - they were well trained (can’t think of the bossy lady’s name but she was right - they are a pack animal and need hierarchy. Think my neighbour might be here as today has been bliss - 4/5 bouts of barking for less than a minute - I can cope with that.

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Thattimeofthenight · 15/08/2025 19:55

PixieTales · 15/08/2025 19:50

And what a pleasant human being you sound…..prime example of why I prefer most animals to most people 🤣

My neighbours were the unpleasant people. The dog was an unfortunate creature but I can’t help that situation when I have utter psychos for neighbours. For my sanity I trained their dog not to bark, because they couldn’t.

You can take your opinions on it and stick them elsewhere because you clearly have no idea what it’s like to be tortured daily with the never ending sound of a dog barking.

Your opinion on it is nothing.

PixieTales · 15/08/2025 19:50

Thattimeofthenight · 15/08/2025 19:18

I don’t give a shit. I refuse to have my human life wrecked by an animal loudly barking non stop. It’s the stuff of nightmares to live with. Couldn’t give a flying fuck what you think about that 👍🏻

And what a pleasant human being you sound…..prime example of why I prefer most animals to most people 🤣

Thattimeofthenight · 15/08/2025 19:19

Abracadabra12345 · 15/08/2025 17:36

So no garden near neighbours?

No

Thattimeofthenight · 15/08/2025 19:18

PixieTales · 15/08/2025 18:40

every time my disgusting neighbours’ disgusting mutt started its barking

Wow, I see the dog haters are out in full force on this thread. 🙄

I don’t give a shit. I refuse to have my human life wrecked by an animal loudly barking non stop. It’s the stuff of nightmares to live with. Couldn’t give a flying fuck what you think about that 👍🏻

Moneyworries890 · 15/08/2025 18:47

My neighbour got a small dog that barks ALL THE TIME. He clearly got annoyed with it as he started locking him out in his back garden, which is right under my baby's bedroom window, and just let him bark and bark.

Let me tell you, the rage I felt when my newborn baby kept getting woken up by a fucking yapping dog is like something I have never felt before in my life.

I went over there, in my pyjamas, no bra, soaked in breastmilk (baby was like 5-6 weeks old) and shouted at the neighbour like a fucking mad woman.

Problem solved.

The dog still barks 24/7 but he keeps it inside so it's only loud enough to ocasionally bother me but not loud enough to wake my baby.

Poor dog though. Can't imagine he's a happy puppy. It's been a year and it's still barking. Can't imagine he brings much joy to the owner either.

PixieTales · 15/08/2025 18:40

Thattimeofthenight · 15/08/2025 08:55

Well, I’ll tell you what I did @PixieTales , and this will really blow your mind…

In similar circumstances to the OP I bought a CD online that emits a high pitched noise that dogs don’t like. I worked from home and every time my disgusting neighbours’ disgusting mutt started its barking I whacked the volume up.

Trained the damn thing to shut up in no time. If you can’t train your dog I’ll train it for you.

Thankfully I now live in a detached house and don’t have to suffer other people.

OP, I highly recommend one of these CDs.

every time my disgusting neighbours’ disgusting mutt started its barking

Wow, I see the dog haters are out in full force on this thread. 🙄

PixieTales · 15/08/2025 18:36

OhHellolittleone · 15/08/2025 07:58

wtf? Children and dogs are not the same. A dog should not be disturbing neighbours, but sometimes with children there isn’t anything the parents can do. A dog can be sent elsewhere, locked in a room…. Trained!

Neither should someone else’s children be disturbing neighbours on a regular basis.

sometimes with children there isn’t anything the parents can do

Apart from teaching them not to screech and shout whilst in the garden or moving them
inside you mean? Oh the irony.

Abracadabra12345 · 15/08/2025 17:36

Thattimeofthenight · 15/08/2025 08:55

Well, I’ll tell you what I did @PixieTales , and this will really blow your mind…

In similar circumstances to the OP I bought a CD online that emits a high pitched noise that dogs don’t like. I worked from home and every time my disgusting neighbours’ disgusting mutt started its barking I whacked the volume up.

Trained the damn thing to shut up in no time. If you can’t train your dog I’ll train it for you.

Thankfully I now live in a detached house and don’t have to suffer other people.

OP, I highly recommend one of these CDs.

So no garden near neighbours?

Peaceisenough · 15/08/2025 12:59

Poor, sad dogs.

Gettingbysomehow · 15/08/2025 12:52

The barky dogs around me are all owned by elderly people and I have never seen either of them go for a walk. They are properly bored, which is probably why they bark. My cat doesn't help, she taunts them from the roof. I have to keep my bedroom window shut so she can't get up there.
I think it's wicked to have a dog and keep it in a small back yard.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 15/08/2025 11:49

whyisnothingsimple · 15/08/2025 07:43

These 2 are foreign rescue dogs apparently - from a war zone - so your post gives me hope that they can, with training by the owners, be more considerate neighbours.

I would be so tempted to ask them "Oh you work for a Dog Charity , is it specifically re-homing traumatised dogs . Does this mean you;re fostering these two (noisy little gits) and they;ll move on any time soon"
<Hope Springs Eternal>

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 15/08/2025 11:45

whyisnothingsimple · 15/08/2025 11:17

It has taken the joy out of moving to my new home. I’ve been told the owner works for a dog Charity but don’t know if that is true. They had a minutes bark this morning a few hours ago and now silence. I can’t even hear them in the house so a good day so far.

They might have recognised themselves Grin

You can get those silent dog whistles but I think they're only effective if the dog is trained to respond by not barking.

Dogs could be trained to do something (like dogs who herd , or agility) with a whistle signal.
Local noisy dog would think Parrrr-tayyy if a whistle blew !

whyisnothingsimple · 15/08/2025 11:30

2Pandora · 15/08/2025 11:08

I have this week lost my older dog who had developed doggy dementia. There was an hour every evening where he would bark and eventually during the night as well. Overall we managed to comfort him and calm him ( with copious amounts of cbd oil and by laying with him. )Our neighbours have been wonderful and we have worked very had to avoid them being disturbed because it is our responsibility as responsible dog owners to try and prevent our dogs being a nuisance- the point I’m making though is it’s not always lack of training that causes a dog to bark .

I know there can be lots of reasons why dogs bark but you have been responsible in trying to keep the noise down. I’ve been told these dogs were adopted from a war zone - if so they must be traumatised- I feel for them. Their garden is tiny and I’ve never seen/heard them being played with. I have only seen 1 of them walked once and I only saw that as I heard a terrible commotion outside and their dog was going ape at another dog walking up the road - it was very aggressive.

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MamaElephantMama · 15/08/2025 11:24

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She shouldn’t have to tell them as the owners should be the ones telling them to be quiet. I wouldn’t want to listen to it all day either.

Noisecomplaint · 15/08/2025 11:22

whyisnothingsimple · 15/08/2025 11:17

It has taken the joy out of moving to my new home. I’ve been told the owner works for a dog Charity but don’t know if that is true. They had a minutes bark this morning a few hours ago and now silence. I can’t even hear them in the house so a good day so far.

Sometimes this one doesn’t bark for a day but I still can’t relax…I sit waiting for it to bark or dread seeing them pull off the drive incase it starts up again. I’m sure barking dogs can be used as a form of torture!

Really hope it gets better for you