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Disgusted at this advertisement on a bus (photo included)

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Kerry71 · 13/08/2025 18:05

Does anyone else find this imagery completely inappropriate in this day and age, or am I a prude as my husband so kindly put it? It unnecessarily objectifies women and I thought we’d moved on from this sort of thing.

Disgusted at this advertisement on a bus (photo included)
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ThePoliteLion · 13/08/2025 21:31

I had some black stilettos like that in 1987. Would love to know who signed off that ad because it’s in a time warp.
I don’t object to the legs though

landlordhell · 13/08/2025 21:31

It’s an odd choice for 2025.

lifeonmars100 · 13/08/2025 21:29

Mrsmunchofmunchington · 13/08/2025 20:31

I often think it is so we can’t run away too.
A rapist’s dream.

I have always thought this

mumofoneAloneandwell · 13/08/2025 21:28

niadainud · 13/08/2025 21:03

Since the 1980s?

😄😄 no not that long

Zov · 13/08/2025 21:27

Can't say it bothers me @Kerry71 Smile It's just a pair of legs with some nice shoes on the feet!

lifeonmars100 · 13/08/2025 21:27

very dated

Blinky21 · 13/08/2025 21:27

It's outdated and weird, and it's pretty easy to fall over in trainers if the bus jolts. Surprised this got past a modern marketing team, assuming it did

Topsyturvy78 · 13/08/2025 21:19

Bunnycute23 · 13/08/2025 21:02

'A trans'. Like 'a homeless' on Brass Eye. I despair.

No as in transgender you know as some would say chick with a dick.

DeanStockwelll · 13/08/2025 21:18

@Kerry71 would you of created this thread if it had been a picture of a man's pair of legs in shorts ?

It's just sensible advice , bus drivers ( on the whole ) are very good at their job but other muppets mean that sometimes they have to slam their anchors on. So its safer to stay seated

Lovelife85 · 13/08/2025 21:08

You must be a right bundle of laughs..

it’s a pair of legs,get over it.Hardly something to be disgusted by.Its not like it’s an arse hanging out!

WiddlinDiddlin · 13/08/2025 21:05

It is an information poster - the point is to get people to look at it.

A pair of legs in tracky bottoms or suit trousers or jeans is not going to get people looking at it.

A nice shapely pair of legs in high heels, is.

If you've an issue with that, I really don't know what to tell you - billions of women around the world go to work with their lower halves dressed exactly like that. If it is disgusting to you, thats a 'you' problem.

If you're annoyed or upset that people will be more inclined to look at a nice pair of ladies legs... thats human nature, what do you suggest is the solution?

PolyVagalNerve · 13/08/2025 21:05

It reminds me of :

You get more leg room in an Allegra

niadainud · 13/08/2025 21:03

mumofoneAloneandwell · 13/08/2025 18:06

I dont think so, i think its fine tbh, its just a pair of legs

It does look like an old advert though, like maybe its been there a while

Since the 1980s?

Bunnycute23 · 13/08/2025 21:02

Topsyturvy78 · 13/08/2025 20:57

Friend of my uncles was eyeing up who he thought was a woman leg's in a short skirt. So he turned his car around so he could see him/her from the front and realised they were a trans.😂😂😂

'A trans'. Like 'a homeless' on Brass Eye. I despair.

Ratafia · 13/08/2025 20:58

SoScarletItWas · 13/08/2025 18:10

I think using and objectifying women to sell stuff is the very definition of sexism. Don’t get me started on why it absolutely HAD TO BE a pair of high heels and a mini skirt to make the point.

edit for typo

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They're not selling anything?

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 13/08/2025 20:57

LillyPJ · 13/08/2025 20:41

Why are women encouraged (through marketing and advertising) to wear stuff that shows off and exaggerates parts of their bodies? Think sheer tights, short skirts, high heels... There's no practical reason. It's a sexualised image. If you can't see that, you are part of the problem.

It's a picture of an unidentified person's calves and knee and shoes (who could be male, as pointed out)

The skirt could be longer and rode up, could be the saggiest pair of shorts, most sack like dress...

I wouldn't even say they were wearing tights

There's nothing sexualised here

Topsyturvy78 · 13/08/2025 20:57

PInkyStarfish · 13/08/2025 19:48

You are assuming it’s a pair of woman’s legs! For all you know they might belong to Eddie Izzard or Grayson Perry!

Friend of my uncles was eyeing up who he thought was a woman leg's in a short skirt. So he turned his car around so he could see him/her from the front and realised they were a trans.😂😂😂

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 13/08/2025 20:53

DiscoBob · 13/08/2025 20:40

Yeah it does look aggressively 80s. Even the style of shoe and skirt. I'm guessing the art director at the agency is either crap or about 78 years old.

The style of the skirt we can't see....

RussianDoll76 · 13/08/2025 20:49

I just thought professional commuter . Didn’t assume there was a short skirt. Think it’s a stereotype of a powerful business
women . Not offensive at all

VioletandDill · 13/08/2025 20:48

Most of the time I wear boots and cargo shorts. Sometimes I wear very high heels with very short skirts. Sometimes when I do that I get the bus, and yes I should wait til the bus is stopped to get up, or I might end up on my arse! That woman (or otherwise!) is a lot more demure than me at a club!

Is the solution to the problems that come with sexualisation of women really to pretend that women who wear heels and skirts don't exist?! To erase them from every image? That thought makes me much more uncomfortable than an advert with a pair of legs!

My message would be 'women can dress how they like, we should see a diverse representation of women in the media, and no matter how they dress, sexual assault and harassment is not okay', not 'don't show women's bodies because it's inappropriate'.

YABU

Anchorage56 · 13/08/2025 20:46

LillyPJ · 13/08/2025 20:41

Why are women encouraged (through marketing and advertising) to wear stuff that shows off and exaggerates parts of their bodies? Think sheer tights, short skirts, high heels... There's no practical reason. It's a sexualised image. If you can't see that, you are part of the problem.

I sometimes despair a little at some of the stuff people choose to wear but I cant get worked up about a woman wearing a skirt that shows mainly the lower half of her legs and a smart pair of heels. Are you only happy if women wear trousers or long skirts and only flat shoes?

XenoBitch · 13/08/2025 20:43

LillyPJ · 13/08/2025 20:41

Why are women encouraged (through marketing and advertising) to wear stuff that shows off and exaggerates parts of their bodies? Think sheer tights, short skirts, high heels... There's no practical reason. It's a sexualised image. If you can't see that, you are part of the problem.

Um, some women like to wear those things?

LillyPJ · 13/08/2025 20:41

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 13/08/2025 20:33

I think if you are sexualising a woman's calves then you might just be part of the problem

Why are women encouraged (through marketing and advertising) to wear stuff that shows off and exaggerates parts of their bodies? Think sheer tights, short skirts, high heels... There's no practical reason. It's a sexualised image. If you can't see that, you are part of the problem.

XenoBitch · 13/08/2025 20:41

This thread 🙄

It is legs. To be fair, if it had to be a pair of legs that most represented the area the bus is in, where I live it would be joggers, trainers, walking frame and an ankle tag.

DiscoBob · 13/08/2025 20:40

Dangermoo · 13/08/2025 18:24

It's like a throw back to the 80s. Of course women, wearing stilettos are far more susceptible to falling over, on a bus. Patronising and yes, sexual objectification. I agree with you, OP.

Yeah it does look aggressively 80s. Even the style of shoe and skirt. I'm guessing the art director at the agency is either crap or about 78 years old.

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