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OP posts:
FenderStrat · 13/08/2025 18:44

kc431 · 13/08/2025 18:41

How is it awful? It’s completely true, being made redundant is a normal part of life now.

Yes, it is a part of normal life. And for many people, a deeply stressful one.

The posters 'that's life' comment, was deeply dismissive of the many people that right at this moment in time will be feeling very stressed about their future and, in many cases, their family's future.

BondAway25 · 13/08/2025 18:41

LurkThenPost · 13/08/2025 16:58

Majority of couples work full time. Online shopping is VERY convenient for bulk ordering and saves hassle taking kids out to run some errands. Plus, parking costs and then petrol. There has been a rise in parking fines too.

What sane parents want to spend their weekends running errands and grocery shopping when I can have it delivered on a weekday? Which means I can save my weekends taking kids out and spending quality time with them.

Then don't ever complain about the state if the high streets, or the lack of jobs.

children can enjoy all of the 'quality time' wholesome activities AND going to a shopping centre for a look around & maybe lunch or something it's not either/or.

Except at this rate they'll never get that experience.

kc431 · 13/08/2025 18:41

FenderStrat · 13/08/2025 18:32

What an awful thing to say.

How is it awful? It’s completely true, being made redundant is a normal part of life now.

FenderStrat · 13/08/2025 18:41

Yes I have lost my job once. I was made redundant and had to move to a different part of the country to find work. It was deeply stressful.

I do not propose the company should be forgiven its debts. I think their business model works anymore. That doesn't mean I can't have genuine sympathy for the staff at all levels that will lose their job.

When did people get so vile?

LlynTegid · 13/08/2025 18:39

Sorry for the staff who will lose their jobs, but no surprise. Though I wonder if they would have survived a bit longer if there was not the current unfair competition that allows parcel carriers to be allowed to provide a sub-standard service, or had lower rents if the money launderers were not allowed to keep shops open.

OneNeatBlueOrca · 13/08/2025 18:35

FenderStrat · 13/08/2025 18:32

What an awful thing to say.

Have you ever lost a job before ? Been made redundant? Because I have. That is i am afraid normal life.

Do you propose the company is forgiven it's debts so people remain employed ? What will they be paid with?

It isnt an awful thing to say all things considered. When did people become such snowflakes.

BondAway25 · 13/08/2025 18:35

Boomer55 · 13/08/2025 16:51

It's not really a loss. 🤷‍♀️

Not for you maybe. But certainly will be for the 200+ losing their job!! It will be for the children who enjoy going in to spend their picket money & enjoy the Claire's vibe. Not many shops for children to enjoy anymore.

For the High Streets
For the Economy

you need to think outside of your own shoppping preferences.

FenderStrat · 13/08/2025 18:32

OneNeatBlueOrca · 13/08/2025 18:30

That's life.

What an awful thing to say.

BondAway25 · 13/08/2025 18:30

Moonnstars · 13/08/2025 16:30

Yes I agree. My daughter likes spending her pocket money there and has some vouchers to use.
It's hard to know where to go to buy the 'tat' they sell without resorting to looking online, it's hard for children to have that experience of going into a shop and picking out things they like these days.
(And to the other poster who said better to go to a park etc, we do that too!)

Exactly!!

amazing how you can do both isn't it!! 🤣

OneNeatBlueOrca · 13/08/2025 18:30

FenderStrat · 13/08/2025 15:36

What about the people that will lose their jobs though?

That's life.

Gal3tt3 · 13/08/2025 18:29

BondAway25 · 13/08/2025 18:27

I agree totally.

But it’s planet damaging extortionate tat they don’t need.

Gal3tt3 · 13/08/2025 18:28

beautifuldaytosavelives · 13/08/2025 18:16

Of course it’s generally tat. Of course it’s over the odds. It’s marketed at tweens exercising some purchasing power. To all those who ‘don’t bother’ with the high street, please don’t come back bemoaning the lack of part time jobs for DC or the amount of time they spend online, or lack of social skills…the high street, and for youngsters, shopping together, is a community and a social experience and when there’s nothing but empty buildings, it will be too late.

So what do you want people to do? Spend money they don’t have on tat they don’t need in poorly stocked shops whilst paying extortionate parking / bus fairs to fill landfill that damages the planet.🤔

BondAway25 · 13/08/2025 18:27

BubblingBelly · 13/08/2025 16:12

But surely it is much more fun for young kids to look around Claire‘s and choose various items, than looking at the screen and ordering online. It’s just not the same for children, surely. Being in a shop, looking at prices, talking to shop assistants, are useful social learning experiences too.

I agree totally.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 13/08/2025 18:22

I do feel sad for the employees facing unemployment - it seems there are not a lot of secure jobs in retail shops now 😕

But agree that the quality wasnt that great 20 years ago - i'm sure its gotten worse

Might take dd(6) there to see if she likes anything, but usually we do the same at Sainsbury's (which isnt cheap either tbh)

OP posts:
goudacheese · 13/08/2025 18:18

The offers worked well for me with two daughters but we were regulars 20 years ago before online shopping. My youngest ended up in A&E after ear piercing so the placed soured after that.

Ireolu · 13/08/2025 18:18

I was in there yesterday with my 8 yr old. The prices are way to high. DD wasn't willing to part with her cash yesterday as she agreed.

beautifuldaytosavelives · 13/08/2025 18:16

Of course it’s generally tat. Of course it’s over the odds. It’s marketed at tweens exercising some purchasing power. To all those who ‘don’t bother’ with the high street, please don’t come back bemoaning the lack of part time jobs for DC or the amount of time they spend online, or lack of social skills…the high street, and for youngsters, shopping together, is a community and a social experience and when there’s nothing but empty buildings, it will be too late.

PowerfulFishRiver · 13/08/2025 18:06

CatrinVennastin · 13/08/2025 17:32

I used to work for Claire’s in a head office role and for a business in the retail sector they are actually a really good flexible employer.

most of the staff are female and paid the minimum wage so to be celebrating the demise of the stores is really harsh.

Yes the products are tat but people are just buying even more tatty tat from Shein and Temu so the workers making the products get paid even less.

I don't mean to be snarky but can you really consider a company a good employer when it pays most people minimum wage? And in my experience with retail jobs, flexibility often ends up meaning you get fewer shifts than you need and end up having to try and find a second job to make ends meet.

spoonbillstretford · 13/08/2025 18:00

Fargo79 · 13/08/2025 17:55

I can't see anything online about Dominos closing down. A dip in sales is all that's been reported.

It's entirely due to my Mounjaro, sorry about that Domino's 😅

Though I will always love, and can still manage, a small vegetarian supreme, double mushrooms, jalapeños instead of green peppers. Bloody lush. Practically health food in pizza terms. There are vegetables!

pinkpanther84 · 13/08/2025 17:57

It’s just way too expensive for its market. My 11 year old would love to shop there but it’s so overpriced she ends up spending her money in b&m, home bargains and primark

spoonbillstretford · 13/08/2025 17:57

No sad loss for me. I have a high tolerance for spangly nonsense but it really was absolute tut. Feel sympathy for anyone losing their job though.

Gal3tt3 · 13/08/2025 17:56

Fargo79 · 13/08/2025 17:55

I can't see anything online about Dominos closing down. A dip in sales is all that's been reported.

That’s what was referring to, it’s a good thing.

Fargo79 · 13/08/2025 17:55

Gal3tt3 · 13/08/2025 17:52

I’m glad. Overpriced landfill.

Not sad about Dominoes either. Overpriced crap that adds to the obesity crisis. Doing without takeaways, over priced coffee and consumerism isn’t a hardship.

The human race is going to have to adapt. We have been wasteful and eating/ living beyond our means for far too long.

I can't see anything online about Dominos closing down. A dip in sales is all that's been reported.

Iocainepowder · 13/08/2025 17:55

One positive will be fewer places that parents can get their babies’ ears pierced by a teenager with a gun.

Fargo79 · 13/08/2025 17:54

Their business model and pricing was shite. I'm amazed they lasted as long as they did. The internet has been catastrophic for the high street, but Claire's dug its own grave IMO and was only a matter of time.

So many Christmas shopping trips I've been to Claire's looking for stocking fillers and every single time without fail I've walked out empty handed. I was never prepared to pay the overblown price for the thing I actually did want, and could never find 6 pieces of tat I wanted to buy which would have brought the price down to something realistic. As for the ear piercing, just don't get me started.