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JenniferBooth · 13/08/2025 22:45

Im 52 and ive bought their large hair claw grips because they are slightly longer than ones ive seen elsewhere and i have very thick hair

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 13/08/2025 22:34

The majority of the stuff they have ever sold is almost certainly now in landfill. Awful company wasting our finite resources selling tat to kids.

bellamorgan · 13/08/2025 22:13

Sad for the staff but you could see it coming once they starting having sections in other shops dedicated to them.

Failing stores often try and get a foot into other stores cheaply to try and bolster sales.

If toysrus couldn’t bring in enough children Claire’s had no chance long term. Probably only surviving by the idiots who still take children to get their ears done there.

BondAway25 · 13/08/2025 22:05

Gal3tt3 · 13/08/2025 18:29

But it’s planet damaging extortionate tat they don’t need.

I don't think it's the kids buying a sparkly bag, pair of earrings or Christmas necklace in uk retail store destroying the planet.

children buying things they want/like is part of growing up,

we ALL (yes, including you) have things we don't 'NEED' but just want,

BondAway25 · 13/08/2025 21:58

beautifuldaytosavelives · 13/08/2025 18:16

Of course it’s generally tat. Of course it’s over the odds. It’s marketed at tweens exercising some purchasing power. To all those who ‘don’t bother’ with the high street, please don’t come back bemoaning the lack of part time jobs for DC or the amount of time they spend online, or lack of social skills…the high street, and for youngsters, shopping together, is a community and a social experience and when there’s nothing but empty buildings, it will be too late.

Exactly!!

LurkThenPost · 13/08/2025 21:58

BondAway25 · 13/08/2025 21:49

Not everyone wants everything to go digital.

paying for parking. The amount that's gone up needs adressing for sure, but many don't want to lose the Hugh streets so closing all retail & banks is not the answer.

My point was they've made the high street inaccessible by extortionate parking prices, worries about getting parking fines, closing the banks and then retail shops are struggling. Something needs to be done.

beautifuldaytosavelives · 13/08/2025 21:53

Gal3tt3 · 13/08/2025 18:28

So what do you want people to do? Spend money they don’t have on tat they don’t need in poorly stocked shops whilst paying extortionate parking / bus fairs to fill landfill that damages the planet.🤔

No, but it’s lower footfall in town centres that’s the problem. With every closure , the high street becomes a less appealing place to visit and the cycle continues. This is bigger than Claire’s.

BondAway25 · 13/08/2025 21:53

EchoedSilence · 13/08/2025 18:53

We lived in a cardboard box and only had a stick to play with. Never did us any harm.

A stick? You had a stick? Spoilt!!

BondAway25 · 13/08/2025 21:52

Gal3tt3 · 13/08/2025 18:52

Kids actually don’t like being dragged round town in endless shops selling the same shite. Unnecessary consumerism isn’t that great for them or the planet.

No they don't. But many DO like being taken. ' Into town' to look around the shops that interest them & grab a bit of lunch. It's a social interaction that teaches them a lot.

BondAway25 · 13/08/2025 21:49

LurkThenPost · 13/08/2025 18:53

They can hire those same staff and train them up to work online - virtual assistants, virtual personal dressers and advice. The world is going more digital but people will still be needed. Look at the state of banks, it’s all online so many closing. The answer isn’t for people to pay parking or be worried about getting fines. People can’t afford take aways, Domino’s are having trouble.

Not everyone wants everything to go digital.

paying for parking. The amount that's gone up needs adressing for sure, but many don't want to lose the Hugh streets so closing all retail & banks is not the answer.

Mochudubh · 13/08/2025 19:04

JackJarvisEsq · 13/08/2025 17:50

I never got over the closing of Razzle Dazzle, my daughter will be feeling this same about Claire’s

There's a blast from the past. I used to LOVE Razzle Dazzle, I think I bought my first pair of leggings from there in around 1985.

OSTMusTisNT · 13/08/2025 19:03

Won't miss it, cheap nasty crap that ends up broken within days and thrown in the bin.

BondAway25 · 13/08/2025 19:01

Gal3tt3 · 13/08/2025 17:52

I’m glad. Overpriced landfill.

Not sad about Dominoes either. Overpriced crap that adds to the obesity crisis. Doing without takeaways, over priced coffee and consumerism isn’t a hardship.

The human race is going to have to adapt. We have been wasteful and eating/ living beyond our means for far too long.

Ok

so what 2000+ jobs are you creating for these staff losing theirs?

virtue posting helps no one.

LurkThenPost · 13/08/2025 18:56

Gal3tt3 · 13/08/2025 18:49

But we didn’t have that when we were little and have lived to tell the tale.It’s not really a hardship. Hardly ever ate out. Saturdays were a trip to the library or popping into town for errands. You saved up for things you really wanted. You didn’t waste money. Going into town to spend money you don’t have on tat you don’t need and wasting money on extortionate crappy chain restaurant food is where we’ve gone wrong.

Exactly! I don’t think I’m a bad parent for wanting my child to see the world and have different experiences. It’s not even about eating out, I happily take packed lunch and let them buy ice cream only as a treat out. I don’t want to spend my weekends on the high street running errands and I don’t think this makes me a bad person. I’ll happily take my child to the library, theatre and the cinema for an experience. I hate running errands myself and I like bulk buy.

FenderStrat · 13/08/2025 18:54

EchoedSilence · 13/08/2025 18:53

We lived in a cardboard box and only had a stick to play with. Never did us any harm.

Cardboard?
Luxury. We dreamed of cardboard.

LurkThenPost · 13/08/2025 18:54

Gal3tt3 · 13/08/2025 18:52

Kids actually don’t like being dragged round town in endless shops selling the same shite. Unnecessary consumerism isn’t that great for them or the planet.

I agree. It’s just nightmare all around, so I don’t bother.

EchoedSilence · 13/08/2025 18:53

Gal3tt3 · 13/08/2025 18:49

But we didn’t have that when we were little and have lived to tell the tale.It’s not really a hardship. Hardly ever ate out. Saturdays were a trip to the library or popping into town for errands. You saved up for things you really wanted. You didn’t waste money. Going into town to spend money you don’t have on tat you don’t need and wasting money on extortionate crappy chain restaurant food is where we’ve gone wrong.

We lived in a cardboard box and only had a stick to play with. Never did us any harm.

LurkThenPost · 13/08/2025 18:53

BondAway25 · 13/08/2025 18:41

Then don't ever complain about the state if the high streets, or the lack of jobs.

children can enjoy all of the 'quality time' wholesome activities AND going to a shopping centre for a look around & maybe lunch or something it's not either/or.

Except at this rate they'll never get that experience.

They can hire those same staff and train them up to work online - virtual assistants, virtual personal dressers and advice. The world is going more digital but people will still be needed. Look at the state of banks, it’s all online so many closing. The answer isn’t for people to pay parking or be worried about getting fines. People can’t afford take aways, Domino’s are having trouble.

hotchocandtwosmokybacon · 13/08/2025 18:52

Sad to see a business on the brink of being closed but Claires does not look like to have a good management team and their business seems to be badly run : store layout and their stock seems to be a mess.

Gal3tt3 · 13/08/2025 18:52

Kids actually don’t like being dragged round town in endless shops selling the same shite. Unnecessary consumerism isn’t that great for them or the planet.

BondAway25 · 13/08/2025 18:51

FenderStrat · 13/08/2025 18:44

Yes, it is a part of normal life. And for many people, a deeply stressful one.

The posters 'that's life' comment, was deeply dismissive of the many people that right at this moment in time will be feeling very stressed about their future and, in many cases, their family's future.

Shame when you need to point out the obvious isn't it.

plus 2000+ more redundancies. Jobs lost. Jobs not being crested at the same speed, has a devastating affect on our economy!

The loss of a retail chain & the subsequent fall out should be note worthy not just 'that's life' . We 're sleep walking into a very dire economy.

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Gal3tt3 · 13/08/2025 18:49

BondAway25 · 13/08/2025 18:41

Then don't ever complain about the state if the high streets, or the lack of jobs.

children can enjoy all of the 'quality time' wholesome activities AND going to a shopping centre for a look around & maybe lunch or something it's not either/or.

Except at this rate they'll never get that experience.

But we didn’t have that when we were little and have lived to tell the tale.It’s not really a hardship. Hardly ever ate out. Saturdays were a trip to the library or popping into town for errands. You saved up for things you really wanted. You didn’t waste money. Going into town to spend money you don’t have on tat you don’t need and wasting money on extortionate crappy chain restaurant food is where we’ve gone wrong.

FenderStrat · 13/08/2025 18:48

I honestly, truly can't believe some of the thoughts being expressed here.

Would it kill some people to show a small piece of humanity to people who are going through a very difficult time in their life?

Motnight · 13/08/2025 18:47

This reminds me of the glee expressed by many posters when Kier Starmer announced the abolishment of NHSE leading to the loss of thousands of jobs.

BondAway25 · 13/08/2025 18:45

Wexone · 13/08/2025 17:01

Exactly- i remember Claires opening up on our main street years ago, i used to go in and buy stuff for going out as well all my jewellery for my grad came from their. I now bring my nieces in and buy them stuff- yes i can buy cheaper on shein etc ( i dont by way refuse point blank to buy from shein or temu) but the difference is my nieces get the physically see the stuff, we see the prices and they have to pick to a set budget, we had to walk to the shop from the car park, we got hot chocolate after, it was a few hours break for my sister, we didnt have to scroll on a phone looking at the screen to buy. I am in my mid 40s and ever when i was a child we went to town on Saturday to meet for a coffee with my mother and my aunts bought me what my mother deemed as "tat" then in the shops. Soon there will be nothing left on the main street to go into

Yes, some people are too focussed on the price to see the value of the experience. Or assume if you do that, the kids don't have any other experiences! 🙄