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Are the old meanings of the words woman and man redundant?

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Thadthimes · 13/08/2025 06:15

Various dictionary definitions seem
to have made the words woman and man redundant.

In short.

woman = XX chromosomes, adult human female (including extremely rare cases of other chromosomal configurations but always without the SRY genes)

woman = XY chromosomes, adult human male (including extremely rare cases of other chromosomal configurations but always with the SRY gene) but believe and feels they are XX and all the associated characteristics of an adult human female.

man = XY chromosomes, adult human male (including extremely rare cases of other chromosomal configurations but always with the SRY gene)

man = XX chromosomes, adult human female (including extremely rare cases of other chromosomal configurations but always without the SRY genes) but believe and feel they are XY.

If this was a venn diagram I’m not sure it would work.

AIBU to think we just need new words for the old biological meanings of these categories to save confusion?

OP posts:
TheEyesOfLucyJordon · 13/08/2025 11:47

Thadthimes · 13/08/2025 06:31

But if trans identifying men are woman then they don’t work fine.
I think we need new words to define biology

Trans identifying men are NOT women; they're ....... men. Who knew? The definitions we have are absolutely fine 🙂

spannasaurus · 13/08/2025 11:46

As humans can't change sex its unnecessary to use assigned, observed or recorded in terms of a persons sex. It should just be what is your sex

AlexandraLeaving · 13/08/2025 11:40

MushMonster · 13/08/2025 11:34

And the poster I was replying to was correcting the term assigned at birth.
I do not disagree with you.
I was just baffled why they wanted to correct assigned by observed.

As PP explained 'assigned' implies a subjective choice made by the healthcare practitioner to place the newborn in a particular category.

'Observed' is more objective - the healthcare practitioner is simply noticing and recording which category the baby fits into. In most cases, this is very easy to tell. In a very small number of cases, blood tests are needed to clarify ambiguity.

spannasaurus · 13/08/2025 11:39

MushMonster · 13/08/2025 11:36

As far as I know, yes, it is the official term for all of us. We all get a sex assigned at birth.
Most of us never thinks twice about it.

We don't get assigned a sex at birth though. We have a sex which is observed and recorded. Our sex is determined at conception and is often observed prior to birth.

MushMonster · 13/08/2025 11:36

spannasaurus · 13/08/2025 11:34

It is the official term?

The NHS digital service manual states

We use the phrase "sex assigned at birth" when we're talking about trans health and gender dysphoria, as this is the language our audience uses

Nothing about it being an official term

As far as I know, yes, it is the official term for all of us. We all get a sex assigned at birth.
Most of us never thinks twice about it.

AlexandraLeaving · 13/08/2025 11:35

It is possible we need new words. But not to replace the traditional meanings of man/woman/boy/girl, as people understand these perfectly well in biological terms, whatever the dictionaries say. Even for people with DSDs, their sex is identifiable and real.

If society and dictionary-compilers feel the need for new words to describe the category of people who 'feel feminine' or 'feel masculine' or 'feel neither feminine or masculine' or whatever the correct way to describe what gender identity is about, then perhaps new words are needed for those categories.

Changing the meaning of existing words is childish and unhelpful.

MushMonster · 13/08/2025 11:34

And the poster I was replying to was correcting the term assigned at birth.
I do not disagree with you.
I was just baffled why they wanted to correct assigned by observed.

spannasaurus · 13/08/2025 11:34

MushMonster · 13/08/2025 11:25

But.. the official term is assigned at birth.
There is no need to correct assigned at birth whatsoever.

It is the official term?

The NHS digital service manual states

We use the phrase "sex assigned at birth" when we're talking about trans health and gender dysphoria, as this is the language our audience uses

Nothing about it being an official term

MushMonster · 13/08/2025 11:25

AnSolas · 13/08/2025 09:28

Nit pick

Assign is a "action" of placing a value on what is observed.
In this case the doctor records the observation when matching the criteria off a list.

And it is named as recorded at birth, by the doctor who observed it and decided they fit, (even with a reason of doubt about female or male.👀🤷‍♀️).

The doctor is looking at a pre-determined list which has only 2 possible outcome
Is female
Is male

Similar to cancer or pregnancy the doctor cant assign only record an answer about a fact.

Their observation and/or conclusion as to the fact may wrong and their documentation of their mistake may have consequence but the state of being (have cancer or not, is pregnant or not, is female or not) has not changed.

But.. the official term is assigned at birth.
There is no need to correct assigned at birth whatsoever.

jawsnsharks · 13/08/2025 09:43

Loving your work and your username OP.

AnSolas · 13/08/2025 09:28

MushMonster · 13/08/2025 08:33

It is observed indeed. But then it goes into your birth certificate and from there, rest of your paperwork. And it is named as assigned at birth, by the doctor who observed it and decided they fit, with no reason of doubt into female or male.
And.... it is so to account for a very small % of babies whose sex does not match that observed at birth or they cannot be put into female/ male group by their external genitalia. The actual deveopment of sex differentiation during pregnancy is complex, involves a lot of chromosomes and hormones, from both the mother and the fetus. So, in some cases, assigned at birth and actual sex do not coincide and in some cases this is not found out till puberty.

Nit pick

Assign is a "action" of placing a value on what is observed.
In this case the doctor records the observation when matching the criteria off a list.

And it is named as recorded at birth, by the doctor who observed it and decided they fit, (even with a reason of doubt about female or male.👀🤷‍♀️).

The doctor is looking at a pre-determined list which has only 2 possible outcome
Is female
Is male

Similar to cancer or pregnancy the doctor cant assign only record an answer about a fact.

Their observation and/or conclusion as to the fact may wrong and their documentation of their mistake may have consequence but the state of being (have cancer or not, is pregnant or not, is female or not) has not changed.

101jobs · 13/08/2025 09:09

I couldn’t DISagree with you more.

AnSolas · 13/08/2025 09:06

EhWhatFor · 13/08/2025 08:14

I'm transphobic because I asked a question?

I am not saying or even hinting that you are transphobic

In the TWAW "world" asking the question is transphobic as you are showing you recognise that this group of men are not women.

Then in the TWAW "world" you go further and remove these men from the classification Woman and create a new class of Not-Women (Transgender-women or Transwomen) which would be described as acting from a position (or feeling) of transphobia

ArabellaScott · 13/08/2025 08:57

Its a dictionary, OP, not an instruction manual.

BundleBoogie · 13/08/2025 08:57

Atina321 · 13/08/2025 08:03

Another post to incite hate. You aren’t controversial or edgy, just inciting bigotry.

Eh? Are you feeling quite alright?

BundleBoogie · 13/08/2025 08:55

Dancingsquirrels · 13/08/2025 08:00

In Aptil, after Supreme Court, they told me they were still following advice from UK Active ie Stonewall law

I've just checked again and leisure centre changed policy in June / July ie actual law. Males must now use male toilets

I think we'll see a lot more of this ie the rainbow bunting comes down and policies are quietly changed. The cost of renovating toilets and changing rooms all over the UK to fully enclosed single cubicles would be huge

That’s brilliant news!

We need to keep plugging away and complaining to these organisations. It works eventually.

AnSolas · 13/08/2025 08:55

Dancingsquirrels · 13/08/2025 08:00

In Aptil, after Supreme Court, they told me they were still following advice from UK Active ie Stonewall law

I've just checked again and leisure centre changed policy in June / July ie actual law. Males must now use male toilets

I think we'll see a lot more of this ie the rainbow bunting comes down and policies are quietly changed. The cost of renovating toilets and changing rooms all over the UK to fully enclosed single cubicles would be huge

It would also add a massive ongoing up keep cost as even with purpose design and build cleaning etc takes more time and money
And due to design limits reterofits cost even more

AnSolas · 13/08/2025 08:48

Dancingsquirrels · 13/08/2025 07:42

My local leisure centre still says people can use the changing room which matches gender. So, in practical terms, it's a mixed changing room

If you are in the UK ask the staff for the email address of whoever is responsible for the LC and write and ask why they decided not to avail of the single sex exemption or if they has why they are allowing males into the womens changing areas

Naunet · 13/08/2025 08:43

OP, what you're suggesting would mean those people formally known as women, would no longer be protected in law, so we'd then have to start campaigning for our rights all over again, and once weve done that, theres nothing to stop men from appropriating us all over again. Seems far easier to just put some pressure on those responsible for editing dictionaries, to grow the fuck up.

AnSolas · 13/08/2025 08:39

VioletandDill · 13/08/2025 07:27

Transwomen are women. Words can have more than one definition or complex definitions and the world doesn't collapse. TERFs are not radical. You're not rad at all.

Dunno whose side you're on, you troll of an OP, but nice wind up.

They are not in the UK.
Some women asked a Judge or two and its now official they are men🤷‍♀️

AnSolas · 13/08/2025 08:36

jen337 · 13/08/2025 07:24

Didn’t realise the school debating club met during the summer holidays

This level of debate

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MushMonster · 13/08/2025 08:33

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 13/08/2025 08:16

It’s not ‘assigned’ anyway - it’s observed.

It is observed indeed. But then it goes into your birth certificate and from there, rest of your paperwork. And it is named as assigned at birth, by the doctor who observed it and decided they fit, with no reason of doubt into female or male.
And.... it is so to account for a very small % of babies whose sex does not match that observed at birth or they cannot be put into female/ male group by their external genitalia. The actual deveopment of sex differentiation during pregnancy is complex, involves a lot of chromosomes and hormones, from both the mother and the fetus. So, in some cases, assigned at birth and actual sex do not coincide and in some cases this is not found out till puberty.

AnSolas · 13/08/2025 08:19

Meadowfinch · 13/08/2025 07:00

No, because they aren't. They are men.

They, as a group, have XY chromosomes and a penis and testicles and, lacking a vagina or ovaries or breasts, are unable to bear or nurse children.

Gosh, you really do need to go back to Biology GCSE don't you OP !

TBF "breasts" are a body part which both sex have.

We have chests, and breast tissues and nipples.

Female sexual development and male sexual development determine a different development pathway for breast which originate from the sexual reproduction role(class). Only a woman can grow a baby and she produces food from her body to feed her baby.

MJ1980 · 13/08/2025 08:17

Thadthimes · 13/08/2025 06:31

But if trans identifying men are woman then they don’t work fine.
I think we need new words to define biology

Ok Trans Man & Trans Woman

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 13/08/2025 08:16

Thadthimes · 13/08/2025 06:54

Many people and dictionaries seem to say that men can be women and that sex can be changed after it is ‘assigned at birth’

It’s not ‘assigned’ anyway - it’s observed.