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To think holidays with kids are 90% shit

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hagridshair · 12/08/2025 21:18

Currently away with DH and 3 dc (13, 10 and 2) and it’s just not been fun so far. Lovely hotel, loads going on but eldest just wants to be on his phone. He refused to wear a hat today and has been complaining of headache tonight so has been in a bad mood. Middle child is quite easily pleased, toddler too but obviously they are demanding in different ways. Between running around after them all and trying to make sure all are fed, hydrated, sun creamed and entertained me and dh are both knackered. No time to relax.

Eldests attitude has annoyed me a bit even though I know it’s typical teen behaviour. Just not really bothered about chatting or watching the entertainment with us during the evening. It’s also very hot 35 degrees pretty much everyday so I’m worried about keeping them all safe in the sun.

We look forward to this holiday all year and when it happens it always feels like a big anti climax. There have been some good moments, love watching my toddler dancing and enjoying things here for the first time. But it’s very hard work.

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AnotherNaCha · 12/08/2025 21:25

You sound pretty ungrateful to be honest! You are away with healthy children. Many can’t afford holidays, it’s up to you to reframe things and make the most of it. Your children aren’t responsible for making your holiday and are probably reacting to the unsaid pressures coming from you.

Morningsleepin · 12/08/2025 21:23

Sorry you are not enjoying yourself but that is a huge generalisation

IlovePhilMitchell · 12/08/2025 21:22

This topic has been done many times and the results are it depends on your family.

We have 1 small child and we adore holidays, but I can imagine having 3 with that age gap would be harder.

Would the 13 year old prefer to stay in the room in the evening and just chill? Or go for a walk in resort? I would have hated hotel entertainment at 13 too.

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