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OF… do any mums do it? AIBU for even considering it?

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Mumontheedge1249 · 12/08/2025 08:49

Just like the title says. only fans, do any of u mums do it? What’s ur family set up? What does ur husbands/partners think?

im considering it, but only like sexy pics on the side of my current part time job. No videos. Wanting to leave husband but need to earn more. But considering keeping it a secret from everyone. Does this make enough money? Lend me experience/feelings?

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Prettychubster · 12/08/2025 08:54

It's likely a crowded market and with all due respect you'll have to do more than just upload sexy pics. It won't earn you a lot, celebs make mega money because they are well sought after.

Consider a part time role in a supermarket, steady money and hours to fit around your family.

Ponoka7 · 12/08/2025 08:53

@LemondrizzleShark it's a small world and a lot of men use OF, women have been outed by being found.

Ponoka7 · 12/08/2025 08:52

One of my DD's was single and joined dating websites. You get offers for feet pictures/used underwear/footwear (you just buy primark flip flops for £1) and other non identifing stuff. She made around £5k, then decided to stop. Once your pictures are out there, they are available forever.

Piccolomaforte · 12/08/2025 08:52

I’d be concerned that once pics are out there, they will always be out there. I wouldn’t do it anyway, but the fact that people could find them at any point in the future would put me off - DCs, partners, employers.

LemondrizzleShark · 12/08/2025 08:51

OxfordInkling · 12/08/2025 08:50

Do you want to lose your PT job?

It’s very unlikely OP would ever be notorious enough for her work to find her OF page.

Simonjt · 12/08/2025 08:51

The average OFer earns is about £130 a month, for people earning £500,000 a year, great they’re okay, for those not earning that they are potentially destroying their future earning potential as some employers may think their OF, or past OF makes them unsuitable for their company.

LemondrizzleShark · 12/08/2025 08:50

Yes mums do it. Unless you are a celeb or appeal to a specific niche, I don’t think you are going to make enough from “sexy pics” to leave your husband.

OxfordInkling · 12/08/2025 08:50

Do you want to lose your PT job?