Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To just stop HRT

30 replies

ArtesianWater · 11/08/2025 21:15

I am 44 and have been on HRT for a little over a year. Long story but my GP was never quite sure it was peri - in particular, I had long covid and the symptoms (mainly irregular periods) began during that. I asked my GP if the covid could have messed up my hormones and she said it was perfectly possible but the medical profession doesn't yet understand the full impact of long covid. After other investigations she suggested an HRT trial and it really helped. I never questioned that it was the right thing to do.

Fast forward a year and I realised the other week that my boobs are constantly sore to the point of really uncomfortable. I also feel not quite 'me', I know that's a really vague description but I'm not sure how else to explain it and had a weird instinct to reduce the oestrogen gel. I did and felt much better. Then I skipped it one night and felt even better. Then I let the 'break' run for a few days. It's now been about 4-5 days without it and so far I feel much better. My boobs have gone back to normal, I think I have more energy and feel 'lighter', strange though that may sound. I am having an unexpected period but that's not surprising really.

Obviously I will go and see my GP, but it can take weeks to get an appointment and I wondered if anyone else has ever stopped HRT of their own volition? Is it ok to do and does anyone have any advice on how to monitor / manage coming off it if I decide that I don't need it?

OP posts:
Thaawtsom · 12/08/2025 06:23

I was similar in that I had other stuff going on (v stressful life events causing anxiety and heart palpitations and insomnia) as well as lots of antihistamines. Out the other side of both of those so trying to figure out what my baseline is like without anything. Am trying to support with lifestyle stuff too (going out for a walk/run right now!). Good luck OP

ArtesianWater · 12/08/2025 06:14

Oh wow, I thought I would get a lot of answers telling me I am being stupid!

It's weird because I thought HRT was a miracle when I first went on it a year ago. Now I am beginning to wonder whether the Covid (not peri) messed up my hormones and that I may not need the HRT after all. I guess I won't be able to tell until I have been off it for some time.

OP posts:
Thaawtsom · 12/08/2025 05:57

Yep. I have just stopped because like you I feel “not quite me.” Am monitoring symptoms and will go back to GP if I think I need to go back on and tinker with the HRT. Meds are meant to help and our bodies are individual and complex. Just keep a note of how you feel; you can change your mind again later.

KPPlumbing · 12/08/2025 05:56

I've done the same. And I remember the GP saying its fine to just 'stop' if necessary when I went to get hrt prescribed.

Im 41 and pushed for HRT in the hope it would help me to stay asleep through the night. Unfortunately it's had no impact, but is - I think - making me feel highly anxious and disassociated- like I'm floating above myself, looking down.

I've stopped and will stick to maintaining a good lifestyle instead for as long as I can, as a way to manage peri. I don't think I particularly have peri symptoms yet anyway.

When I stopped, it just triggered an early period, but that's it.

SpiritAdder · 12/08/2025 05:25

Yes you can stop HRT. The unexpected period is the usual withdrawal bleed you get with noncontinuous HRT. You should still see the GP to report the side effects of the type of HRT you were on so that can be in your record in case you want to try it again in a few months/years.