To leave DH if he loses his second job in three years?

His comments are disgusting, I’d be surprised if he only got a warning.

I don't think I could be with someone who thought that way about his female colleagues, not to mention someone who continually jeopardised his job. I'd be making a plan to leave. Sorry OP. You are not being unreasonable. This is all his own doing.

sure but unsolicited dick pics are the gold standard of evidence, employers can’t easily explain that away. Has tribunal written all over it, it is unambiguously strong evidence

Well what are his redeeming features that having a child with him was a great idea all you can do now is focus on that

Whatever he said it is a pattern of inappropriate behaviour against women. He didn't learn his lesson he just repeated his mistake. He sounds grim and dim. I'd be getting ducks in a row.

He's a horrible pig. Please leave.

The experience posted is far from abnormal. Problematic individuals often get shifted off teams where they cause nothing but trouble and delays and drama into managerial roles where (strangely enough) it is perceived they can do less harm to projects and client relationships.

As a man leave him. He sounds like a tool.

I can understand a lapse in judgment when engaging in humour, a the standards of today haven’t always been. But I read all your posts in this thread and my god, your other half has got problems. I’d honestly suggest a psych evaluation because no normal person should exercise such poor judgement.

Poor op. What a shock.

Is he generally quite a creep about women in your presence op? Or does he generally speak respectfully of them? What’s he like with his friends?

I don’t understand why you seem more bothered about the job than about him sexually harassing women?

I doubt very much that he wants an affair, a shag would do.
But some men seem to have no idea that it’s their own disgusting behavour that’s such a complete turn off. So they keep trying it on.
(A classic example of the definition of stupidity, where you keep doing the same thing but expect a different outcome. Twat. )

You are married to a vile, disgusting sex pest.

Please leave him for the sake of your children or I predict years of hell.

My dh reported a guy who said less than this.

Agree. I'm so sick of this "low bar" trope being used to bludgeon the partners of asshole men.

And by the way the union advised that there’d be no chance of him staying not because the manager would "influence" the hearing - what the fuck - but because what he said was a fireable offense.

Stop blaming her. That isn't helpful.

But your experience is abnormal, not the norm. You can’t really say to OP that there must have been more than comments based on your experience.

@Joness2 if or when you leave him, you need to be very clear to everyone, including him, that it’s because he doesn’t respect women and makes vile comments not because he’s lost another job.

You don’t need to answer this, but has he ever said anything so revolting to you?

For there to have been any risk of dismissal the first time round, it must have been more than comments.
A few years back, a male colleague sent me unsolicited dick pics, it later transpired he'd done the same to other young female colleagues, he'd also used made-up work requests to find 'ins' to build relationships and contact with female colleagues. He and I were mid-30s, most of his 'targets' were under 22. He also had a fiance, it turned out.

You might be thinking he must've been dismissed without passing 'Go', But instead, they dropped the investigation, slapped him on the wrist and let him sneak out the back door to another government department on promotion. Likely emboldened to repeat the same behaviour, in a new role responsible for large cohorts of young women. These men don't change. Not only do we let them get away with it, we often reward them for it.

That's even worse than I assumed when I saw your first post. Utterly vile.
He obviously hates women and lusts after them at the same time. He also wants to cheat on you and don't be too sure he hasn't.

I remember another post very similar to yours OP although the OP blames the victims and if I remember right called them dramatic while defending the husband. I will say now what I said then. If it goes into disciplinary then a lot more happened. And people talk. They alawys do. He will be known as the creep of the office and you will be pittied. People will say, "his poor wife". I would be so ashamed. Don't do this to yourself OP, don't leave for losing his job leave for his attitude towards women. Immagine your daughter having to work alongside men like that, on the edge all the time as there is a creep who is sexually harassing her.

Don’t be ridiculous. It’s not that simple. Especially not with a child in tow. Unless you’re lucky enough to have family who can take you in or plenty of money, these things take careful planning.

No way should you be supportive of a sexual harasser. He's a creep and he deserves to be dumped. It's his own fault he loses jobs, so he has to take the consequences of his actions. Don't believe his promises either. He's looking for action on the side if he is making sexually charged comments to other women. This guy is a whole truckload of ick.

your husband is disgusting, I don’t think any of his comments are excusable. Even men would find that these comments are too far.