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To not want neighbours cats in my garden?

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Rainbow3210 · 11/08/2025 14:46

Our neighbour has cats and they keep coming into our garden. They have also made their way into our house several times through the window and back door. I’m currently pregnant and have two young children. The children get upset when they come in as they don’t understand why they come and go (they want them to stay to play with). We have a lot of songbirds birds that sit in a bush in our garden and the cats are constantly trying to hunt the birds.

The cats are also doing the toilet in the garden which my husband has to clean with a hose. I believe it’s not entirely safe to clean up cat mess when pregnant.

I spoke to the neighbour and asked if they could stop the cats coming into my house and garden. They said there is nothing that can be done.

Is it unreasonable that this is bothering me?

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eyeses · 11/08/2025 17:23

Please don't get one of those noise torturers. It is not true that people can't hear them. I am nearly 60. I can hear them, and for anyone in their cone of sound it is torture. My neighbour has one pointed out from his front wall which goes right in my son's bedroom window so he has to stay with friends when it's too hot to sleep with the window closed. It is motion triggered pointing to the pavement and road.
They have another pointed out across the back garden but only spring to autumn that is constant rather than motion triggered making even hanging the washing really unpleasant.
They should be banned imo. If you want to try one then point it at your own house.

Ashley911 · 11/08/2025 17:23

Try shouting at them to go away

SkylarFalls · 11/08/2025 17:21

DancingLions · 11/08/2025 17:17

Mumsnet - "It's cruel to have indoor cats"
Also Mumsnet - "I don't want cats in my garden or killing birds".

Not everyone has the right sort of house/garden for a catio or cat proof fencing.
I suppose those people just shouldn't have cats!

OP, I sympathise but there's not a lot you can do except scare them away.

There is.

Close the door.

Rename it, get it a new collar with it's new name. Feed it.

Suddenly it's owner will have a much stronger case of the "mines" than they had before

Blessthismess2 · 11/08/2025 17:21

Rainbow3210 · 11/08/2025 14:57

If we leave the back door open on a hot day they also come into the house. I’m allergic to cats so I don’t want them inside. It feels unfair that we have to keep our back door shut during summer in our own secure garden because of neighbours pet choices.

That’s life 🤷🏼‍♀️

Tavimama · 11/08/2025 17:21

Spray them with water whenever you see them. Not near them, on them. It won't hurt them, but they won't enjoy it. Haven't had a cat in the garden for years since installing sprinklers. Also, those rubber spikes that go on top of walls and fences. They don't enjoy the sensation on their feet, so tend to avoid them. My neighbours are totally okay with this, as they describe their cats as total assholes!

Charltonstrek · 11/08/2025 17:20

Hosepipe

TheOGBethDuttton · 11/08/2025 17:20

godmum56 · 11/08/2025 17:06

cat proff their gardens for the umpteenth time

I didn't read all the replies. But if you could spell properly it would really help

AInightingale · 11/08/2025 17:20

You mention in one of your posts having a dog - what breed is it, and does it 'patrol' in your garden? Seems odd that cats are treating your house and garden as a free-for-all when there's a dog about. My dog tolerates my two cats but goes nuts if another comes into the garden. She's a Jack Russell cross though, terriers are known for it.

Daisy62 · 11/08/2025 17:20

godmum56 · 11/08/2025 17:17

can i ask which ones you bought please?

They were a pack of 2 from Amazn, about £50. Just had a look but they don’t have a brand on them. They work well for us but It is a very small garden though.

breakfastdinnerandtea · 11/08/2025 17:20

godmum56 · 11/08/2025 17:18

I suppose those people just shouldn't have cats!

yup

Yeah not really sure what the gotcha was here. “My house is not suitable for a cat”. Well, don’t get one then?

SkylarFalls · 11/08/2025 17:19

DancingLions · 11/08/2025 17:17

Mumsnet - "It's cruel to have indoor cats"
Also Mumsnet - "I don't want cats in my garden or killing birds".

Not everyone has the right sort of house/garden for a catio or cat proof fencing.
I suppose those people just shouldn't have cats!

OP, I sympathise but there's not a lot you can do except scare them away.

Well yeah it's almost as if you should consider things like that when choosing pets eh

Or you can keep retrieving YOUR cat if it roams into my house. I might decide I don't like the doors open after all..

godmum56 · 11/08/2025 17:18

DancingLions · 11/08/2025 17:17

Mumsnet - "It's cruel to have indoor cats"
Also Mumsnet - "I don't want cats in my garden or killing birds".

Not everyone has the right sort of house/garden for a catio or cat proof fencing.
I suppose those people just shouldn't have cats!

OP, I sympathise but there's not a lot you can do except scare them away.

I suppose those people just shouldn't have cats!

yup

dippy567 · 11/08/2025 17:17

Hate cats, so bad for wildlife killing birds all the time and shitting everywhere. Also annoys me the constant whatsapp and fb messages for lost cats...ffs (hopefully eaten by a massive bird!!).

I get the hose out to them in our garden.

godmum56 · 11/08/2025 17:17

Daisy62 · 11/08/2025 17:15

We found that two sonar devices at opposite ends of our small garden sorted the problem out. Our non-cat neighbours on one side have them too. We did years of chucking water at the cats but it didn’t work as there are so many cats in the road and we’re not always in the garden. We switch the devices off when one of my adult kids is here and in the garden, as she can hear them.

can i ask which ones you bought please?

DancingLions · 11/08/2025 17:17

Mumsnet - "It's cruel to have indoor cats"
Also Mumsnet - "I don't want cats in my garden or killing birds".

Not everyone has the right sort of house/garden for a catio or cat proof fencing.
I suppose those people just shouldn't have cats!

OP, I sympathise but there's not a lot you can do except scare them away.

Buxusmortus · 11/08/2025 17:17

ThankYouNigel · 11/08/2025 17:06

We’ll see. One of my neighbours is super considerate and picks up poo if her cat does it in one if our garden’s- I do hope you do the same for yours.

I've had cats for 40 years. There are numerous cats around here, all allowed outdoors, how on earth is anyone supposed to know which cat has shat where? 😂
Fortunately I live somewhere with normal neighbours who wouldn't dream of expecting someone else to come into their garden and pick up random cat turds.

SkylarFalls · 11/08/2025 17:17

I won't want to keep it, as soon as you come to claim it back: ITS YOURS. but you'll have to keep coming. Until you can think of oh, some other way to not have to keep coming! I'm not leaving my doors open all day now that they're so many fruit flies about!

godmum56 · 11/08/2025 17:16

Buxusmortus · 11/08/2025 17:11

Completely different animals, completely different behaviours and needs. There's no comparison.

Dogs used to need to have a licence, that should be brought back.

also for cats

Slightyamusedandsilly · 11/08/2025 17:16

Cats have a right to roam wherever they wish. This idea is based on the fact that dog and livestock owners are obliged by law to keep their animals under control - but these duties do not apply to cat owners. The law recognises that cats are less likely to cause injury to people or damage property than some other animals.

However, cat owners do have a duty at law to take reasonable care to ensure that their cats do not injure people or damage property. Cases involving damage to property or injury to people by cats are rare.

WatermelonGatorJerky · 11/08/2025 17:16

EvenHungrierHippo · 11/08/2025 17:13

I don’t know any cat that will touch cheap cat food.

I’m sure most aren’t fussy. I haven’t got all day to sit at my patio doors with a water pistol. But leaving a big bowl of cat food in the garden is within my control, and my right. It’s my garden.
If the cats are coming in anyway, then I may as well…if only to piss off their owners.

Fortunately my spike mats are working well at the moment.

Daisy62 · 11/08/2025 17:15

We found that two sonar devices at opposite ends of our small garden sorted the problem out. Our non-cat neighbours on one side have them too. We did years of chucking water at the cats but it didn’t work as there are so many cats in the road and we’re not always in the garden. We switch the devices off when one of my adult kids is here and in the garden, as she can hear them.

Lionness5 · 11/08/2025 17:15

Try orange peel and stop with the hose. Just pick it up fgs.

Just had to chase my neighbours cat off my counter where my cat was watching him eat his food.

SkylarFalls · 11/08/2025 17:13

herbalteabag · 11/08/2025 17:08

That's the whole point though. There isn't a way. Police will not let you keep someone else's cat so pointless discussing it.

I don't want to keep it. Come and take it back!

It just comes in before I closed the door.

Cheeky fecker

EvenHungrierHippo · 11/08/2025 17:13

WatermelonGatorJerky · 11/08/2025 17:01

Another thing you could do is feed the cat. I’ve noticed owners really don’t like this and post about it all the time on the community chats.

If I get another cat visitor in the future, I shall ensure I have a few tins of cheap cat food ready to go.

I don’t know any cat that will touch cheap cat food.

SkylarFalls · 11/08/2025 17:11

Buxusmortus · 11/08/2025 17:08

They aren't wildlife, they're domestic animals that belong to someone, so if you stole my cat I would contact the police.
Unfortunately for cat haters, despite being domestic animals, the law still says they have the right to roam.
If I had a homing pigeon, for example, that flew into your garden, you would have no right to keep it either.

So they're NOT wildlife now... See... Good we're getting somewhere

I didn't steal it. it came here by itself. I am allowed to close my door. I will immediately hand it back to the nice copper and tell them exactly how much I DONT want it coming in and making itself at home....

How many times are you going to bother them before you bother to enclosed YOUR garden?