To feel inconvenienced by a tragic accident?

Fair enough but I won't change my opinion on this one.

It’s not for you to decide what people can discuss.

You don’t like it, you opt out.

You could say that about the majority of threads on here. None of them need to be started. And seeing as it’s not down to you what others decide to post about I don’t think it’s fair for you to say that.

The top and bottom of it is, this thread didn't need to be started in the first place.
Would you start a thread of this nature?
I know I wouldn't.
Some things are best kept to yourself.

Someone just now, has called op a tosser? sorry if l’ve got other things to do and l’m not sitting on this thread 24/7.And actually you are choosing to ignore, op, has put down many posters on here and name called.If you’re going to dish it out, which she has, it’s hardly shocking, posters are going to give it back
Firstly why is she telling posters that she has ADHD and autism, that doesn’t change anything.She’s quite competent and able to start, no doubt one of many threads, by her own admission regularly changing her username and hold her own.
I could say anything on here, to try justify my behaviour, it doesn’t make it true🙄

Does anyone have a clue what OP was hoping to get from this thread or the point of it?

OP, are you with a partner or friend you could have discussed with? Or would they have thought it was an odd thing to say?

Eh? People name change all the time. Some people name change every month.

And she has explained she name changed to avoid weirdos following her on to other threads, which is perfectly valid given the vitriol on this thread.

Why would I? Maybe she didn’t want to be outing - she’s in a particular country doing a particular thing and it hasn’t gone to plan so it’d be easy for anyone close to her to identify her.
I have a couple of different usernames. One I only use for stuff that’s a bit more outing because I had an incident with an abusive ex who found some previous posts of mine. It doesn’t automatically mean someone is on the wind up.
Im not questioning her attitude to people because they’ve been bloody awful to her and I think she has been defending herself. The difference here though is OP isn’t holding herself up at some sort f paragon of morality so at least she isn’t being a hypocrite.

Dear God.

And it really isn't that damning.

Some of the replies are hilariously smug. The ones that imply Pompeii itself is some sort of lure for the ghoulish (two different posters there) were particularly risible.

She makes clear she's not referring to bereaved posters when she talks about being amused.

She refers to how thoroughly nasty people can be on MN, which is simply factual.

The end is a bit off-hand, but since this post isn't likely to be seen by anyone close to the accident in question (although that is more likely now that one poster helpfully linked to a report about the accident in an attempt to guilt-trip the op), it's neither here nor there.

Sorry, not seeing this dreadfulness on the part of the op. And, yes, I do see a lot of smug self-righteousness and shaming.

I'm not fragile at all, thankyou, it was her attitude that was triggering rather than the situation.
And why haven't you questioned why she changed her username for this thread?
Why aren't you questioning her attitude to other people?
She's been taking the piss from her first post.

Yes, OPs on AIBU are not allowed to talk back for some reason!

I’m convinced what they’re actually upset about is that their attacks on the OP don’t seem to be upsetting her. She has a thicker skin, clearly.

Exactly! Christ, if you’re so fragile that you can’t read words on a forum then stay off the forum! OP isn’t responsible for managing stranger’s feelings for crying out loud. I thought we had moved past the “I’m triggered” childish bullshit.

But lots of people said HTH to OP, Why are you only upset if OP says it?

Yes, I know that 🙄 It's the rest of her post and especially the 'HTH'. Comes across as crass in the situation.

Well, she has a point. Why stay in a thread you find triggering?

And I agree with everything she says in that post. She’s absolutely correct. She even made a point of saying that she’s excluding people who have suffered similar. I assume the posts that have made her laugh are the ones that are attacking her.

You get that she’s not the one who said ‘get up, you fucker’, right? She’s quoting someone else.

Not much empathy from her here, either.

Gobbing off, the irony of it! from someone who has plenty to say for themselves.Most of it repetitive and patronising.You agree with op, l get it loud and clear, however you are not going to forcibly change other people’s view, who have the audacity! to disagree with you and op.

You're just being silly now.

Thank you for sharing this.

Exactly. The fact that the blindingly obvious hypocrisy is seemingly not obvious to that poster does make me think she’s on the wind up TBH.

This post basically sums her up.