To feel inconvenienced by a tragic accident?

Oh FFS, it’s not inappropriate. OP isn’t saying this to the family of the person that died, she’s writing on an anonymous forum. People are allowed to think of themselves and virtue signallers are far more annoying, pretending they’re truly upset about the death of strangers. They may think it’s sad, but their life carries on, yet they come here to tell others off. 🙄

Not my offence. My post was only deleted because it referenced a previously deleted post.

Yes it makes you shitty and so does starting this thread about it tbf.

It really is an awful thread.

People who commit suicide are nearly always in a very dark place. I've heard of two cases recently where a teenager boy and also a young man with a young family had taken their own lives. I didn't know them but I felt so sad for them and their families.

Because it’s relevant to the subject matter and was only deleted because it referenced a post that had been previously deleted.

This isn’t about being devastated, this is about a really inappropriate thread and others on here, who think it’s appropriate to then go onto posting about suicide, that it’s funny, making light of it and that it’s inconvenient to them.

Not unreasonble. I feel like it every damn week on the motorway i'm on. If its not some prat (usually the same one) trying to throw themselves off the motorway bridge, or walking down the motorway - on one occasion saying they'll off themselves if their girlfriend doesn't get back together with them, then its the wretched highway maintenence playing silly buggers with incident management and keeping the road shut for hours when there isnt even a fatality - and when there is? god knows they keep it shut for far longer than neccessary.

I'm totally with you. especially on a trip like that!

(No, this is not a reverse answer, no it it not satire etc - and also for referance - I have both been and had family in the bridge situation - and its actually made me even less empathetic than i was before. Now it just messes up my day and pisses me off. even more so as they usually walk past the bloody hospital to get to that thrice forsaken bridge!)

Yes it does.

What it’s ’some twat’ they usually kill or injure someone else rather than themselves sadly.

Okay none of us like our plans being messed about.
However Your 3rd paragraph is quite disturbing to read. To be quite honest you’re coming over like a narcissist. Mind you a bit more compassion you'd be a narcissist!

I’m on the fence. It’s ok to feel upset that you’re missing your trip, at the end of the day you didn’t know that person.

However, that person meant the world to someone else/multiple people and this will be an awful time for them. You can always go back if it means that much to you. That person will miss out on the rest of their life.

Hopefully, that puts it into perspective.

Well yes because it's not very nice how you talk about it in your initial post

Just remember, one day it could be your death or tragedy that people like yourself may feel "inconvenienced and pissed off" that it got in the way of their day.

No one is immune to death, always be grateful it wasn't you.

Goodness.
Turns out you’re not a nice person at all.

this!!

You're entitled to your feelings but mine would be sadness for the life lost and the families and friends who have suddenly received horrible news.

I hope the rest of her holiday is shit.

Yes. A troll.

This is pretty nasty.

Yeah, my thoughts exactly.
Think OP has just shown us what she really is.

Pretty nasty response that wasn’t it!

OP I think you answered your own question of whether you’re a shitty person with that reply.

So delete the thread.
Why did you even post it in the first place knowing thered be people on here who have been through this?
The fact that you've just coldly said that to me shows me that you do lack empathy and that, yes, you are indeed an incredibly shitty person. And a not very nice one to boot!

Wow

It's the crowing about it that's also shitty.

I do feel inconvenienced when someone I care for deeply has an accident or emergency. Because it is actually going to impact my life as well as theres. I will need to do more, care more, think more about them. So it's human nature when it will change your life for a significant period of time.

Not because you missed out on one day of a fancy holiday.

If you’re asking you know the answer, it’s the sort of reaction I’d expect from a sociopath! Though in this day and age of self absorption and narcissism your attitude doesn’t surmise me. Believe me I’m not one to gush over with feelings at such an event but I do have respect for the situation.

The person is dead so his or her troubles are over, but, but you’ve failed to take into consideration their relatives. The deceased could be someone’s father, mother’s brother sister, daughter, son etc you have can always book another holiday the dead person can’t.

Ive done a lot of travelling, if you travel there is always a chance things can and will go wrong, that has to be factored into your travel plans, you think the world revolves around you, well I’ve got news for you, it doesn’t. In the grand scheme of things we are nothing but pimple on the ass of life.