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What’s one small thing you could give up that would save you a LOT of money long term?!

382 replies

early30smum · 10/08/2025 22:12

Coffees in London are around £4 now. I definitely don’t get one myself every day, but between me and my husband we definitely average out at spending this per day just on coffee. We just worked out, spending £4 a day on coffee every day, is almost £1,500 a year. Just on takeaway coffee. Insane. Over 20 years, that’s just under £30,000…

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Perimenoanti · 11/08/2025 08:58

I don't have small things I could give up that cost a fortune. I spend a lot on my two cats (200-300 a month) but they are hugely important to me, so no small thing. I look forward to when I 'graduate' therapy as this would save me 300 quid a month. Not a small thing either, but that's an expense that will eventually go and I look forward to having that extra money.

BeMellowAquaSquid · 11/08/2025 08:58

Vaping and monjaro. I can’t believe I even started vaping what a dick.

Amberlynnswashcloth · 11/08/2025 08:54

A point about coffee out - I don't drive so days out for us usually involve being able to get coffee for me and toastie for DCs. It gives us somewhere to stop that's warm and dry with a clean toilet before the long bus journey home. The cost of this is now crazy so it means less days out, unfortunately. Its not at all desirable to picnic in Scottish horizontal wind and rain.

PrioritisePleasure24 · 11/08/2025 08:52

Dogaredabomb · 11/08/2025 05:58

Yes, some shops they're over £20.

No idea how people afford this now!

Avantiagain · 11/08/2025 08:51

I am having to travel more often now and have started taking flasks of coffee and packed lunches when I am travelling. I still treat myself to a Costa cooler when it is warm and I don't want to give that up.

Shamesame · 11/08/2025 08:47

things from fancy bakeries. I’m on the no money part of maternity leave and yet I can’t stop buying them. I live near an amazing one that people queue for ages to get into and spent £20 there the other day without thinking.

harriethoyle · 11/08/2025 08:46

Amazon. It’s too easy just to click and buy. But this month I’m trying a tip I read on here - give yourself a fixed amount of “fun money” and fritter it (or not) however you want. Once it’s gone, it’s gone. It’s definitely made me more mindful about the little 5 quid spends here and there…

IHopeYouStepOnALegPiece · 11/08/2025 08:43

Cinaferna · 10/08/2025 22:37

Taking people out for dinner. For decades I thought being able to take an entire group of people out for dinner was the height of sophistication and generosity and I longed to do it. Then finally I earned enough to do it occasionally but I do it far too bloody often. I would save a few grand a year if I stopped. But I love doing it. And what is money for, once you have covered the basics? I don't buy expensive clothes. Never had my nails done, ever. Only get a hair cut twice a year. Never buy takeaways.

My best mate is equally generous with her money and takes people out for dinner (she says v occasionally, its not!) and it is the loveliest feeling to be looked after like that and to be on the receiving end of her generosity.

InterestedDad37 · 11/08/2025 08:41

Getting out of debt was a big one for me - after many years, I got free of it 4 years ago. Really liberating! It costs a fortune to be in debt.

Dogaredabomb · 11/08/2025 08:41

With toiletries and beauty products I gathered up everything that wasn't in daily use and put it in a box. Now before I buy anything I check the box, it really helps and I have barely bought anything for years.

I did the same previously with cleaning products and it was alarming how many repeated items I had.

I have a mantra - dare to run out. It focuses the mind and means you're only buying what you genuinely need and genuinely haven't already got tucked away somewhere.

EdithBond · 11/08/2025 08:41

Nothing. No car. No commute (WFH). Rarely spend money to socialise. Don’t eat meat or anything pricey and cook from scratch. Haircuts twice a year. No expensive face creams or beauty treatments, nails etc. No gym membership. Kid lives at home to afford uni.

Still struggling. Rent crucifying. Landlord prob feels they need it to waste money on crap!

Feel lucky, though, and really enjoying life.

Flamingoknees · 11/08/2025 08:40

Pilates - fortunately I'm in a cheap Everyone Active gym for swimming, gym and other classes I might fancy. There's no substitute for a proper dedicated pilates teacher though - £9 a class,2 and sometimes 3 x a week. Can't see me giving up whilst physically able.

JulietSierra · 11/08/2025 08:38

I could probably give up loads of things and save money but they are the things that make like more pleasant so I have no intention of giving them up. I meet a friend for lunch once a week which costs maybe £20. Would be much cheaper to make my own sarnie but not nearly as nice!
Same with a treat coffee.One of my favourite things to do is sit in a coffee shop by myself and read my kindle for an hour. I could do that at home and save a fiver, but it’s not nearly as nice.

LittleBitofBread · 11/08/2025 08:37

Cleaner. But I have a painful physical condition that means the less scrubbing etc I can do, the better.
Hair. £50 a time, and I have short hair so have to have it cut every 6-8 weeks. I’m not even going to work out how much that is over a year; I don’t want to know!
Membership of an art gallery. This is the one I have the weakest argument for keeping, and I know I should give it up, but I love it.

spoonbillstretford · 11/08/2025 08:36

I could cut out loads of things, but for one thing I'm on a very good salary and things like having a coffee on the train or a take away add to the little joys of life. For another, I've lost two stone recently and have cut down on everything food and drink related as it is, and still have a few pounds to lose. So while I'm still on that path and am not yet in maintenance, I'm not making any further lifestyle adjustments or cutting things out as it can tip the balance over to feeling like masochism, and may be counter-productive. And when I stop taking mounjaro, I'll be saving the money I spend on it anyway.

Dinosaursare · 11/08/2025 08:36

Dh gave up diet pepsi, we save around £150 a month!!

FluffyWabbit · 11/08/2025 08:29

Had acrylic nails for years. Loved them.

Covid stopped me having them but then went to gel nails when things opened back up.

Hate them. Hate having them done, hate doing them myself, hate paying for them, hate the removal process, hate that they don't last etc.

Tried acrylic again and just decided nails aren't a priority, anymore.

So, in short, nails are done!

Thinking about how to stop doing my hair but I do have to look professional so it's a balance.

Roseblooms7 · 11/08/2025 08:25

Children at Uni. One has just graduated and has a job and the other has 2 years left. I will be minted when he finishes!

Nothungrycat · 11/08/2025 08:23

High end cheese and bread. Loaves from our local independent baker are now £5 or £6, and its almost impossible not to then stop off at the cheese stall. Last week I spent £23 at both, which works out as £1,000 a year...

HairyToity · 11/08/2025 08:21

I'm careful on what I spend on myself, the kids hobbies cost about £3,500 per year though. I don't want to stop any of them.

Cyclingmummy1 · 11/08/2025 08:20

Hair, but I'll never do it.

I've recently checked our budget and contact lenses are over £1 a day. I can't see without them, and DH spends as much on glasses, so not much of a saving to be had.

We're at the end of private education; even after paying university rent, we'll be £1k a month better off.

Dymaxion · 11/08/2025 08:15

Wine
Vinted
Charity shops

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 11/08/2025 08:13

Wine

Apfelkuchen · 11/08/2025 08:07

Gousto box, have just worked out that’s £2,400 per year.

suburburban · 11/08/2025 08:07

Beauty products and clothes , I do love them