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What’s one small thing you could give up that would save you a LOT of money long term?!

382 replies

early30smum · 10/08/2025 22:12

Coffees in London are around £4 now. I definitely don’t get one myself every day, but between me and my husband we definitely average out at spending this per day just on coffee. We just worked out, spending £4 a day on coffee every day, is almost £1,500 a year. Just on takeaway coffee. Insane. Over 20 years, that’s just under £30,000…

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northernballer · 11/08/2025 09:24

Personal trainer but I've got rid of all my other luxuries (cleaner, facials etc) and I know I would be less fit without her. £1200 per year is a lot though so no sure I can keep her much longer.

I have massively cut back in my Coke zero habit and yhthat has saved me £30 per month at least.

MsMiniver · 11/08/2025 09:23

Wine.
My commute.

HoneyHoneyHowYouThrillMe · 11/08/2025 09:22

JudgeJ · 11/08/2025 09:17

We once paid the grand sum of 5p for an almost dead plant, OH felt sorry for it and as it was Good Friday we thought we could resurrect it. 15 years on it's still going strong!
He had form for feeling sorry for random plants etc., he once bought the last Christmas tree late on Christmas Eve so it wouldn't get thrown out, cue a mad rush to search unused decorations and lights but it was lovely.
Can't believe the amount of money spend on this thread though, I feel positively puritanical.

Your DH rescuing the last Christmas tree makes me feel cosy and warm inside...Proper hygge!

MaryGreenhill · 11/08/2025 09:21

Cars , garden , Christmas and birthdays

SaladAndChipsForTea · 11/08/2025 09:21

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 11/08/2025 09:19

House magazines. I can't stop myself buying the latest editions of things like 'Your Home' and 'Ideal Home'. They are SO expensive and it's not as if I'm going to be doing any of the things they suggest, my house is too small for a start. But I work in a supermarket right opposite the magazine rack, and I can feel my palms start tingling when the new mags come in on a Tuesday...

Have you looked at your local library? Ours do BorrowBox so you can rent magazines online free of charge. Perfect for those that you just want to flick through!

Tdp123 · 11/08/2025 09:21

early30smum · 10/08/2025 22:12

Coffees in London are around £4 now. I definitely don’t get one myself every day, but between me and my husband we definitely average out at spending this per day just on coffee. We just worked out, spending £4 a day on coffee every day, is almost £1,500 a year. Just on takeaway coffee. Insane. Over 20 years, that’s just under £30,000…

It's worse than that - if you are a higher rate tax payer and put that in your pension - assuming a 7% compound growth rate, this would be >£100,000 after 20 years.

HoneyHoneyHowYouThrillMe · 11/08/2025 09:20

My Emma Bridgewater addiction. I have officially given it up now, other than a few items still on my wish list. But buying a mug or two (or three!) here and there adds up quickly! I've already stopped buying Japanese tableware as that was getting expensive too.

Other than that I don't really have much to give up as I'm already pretty frugal. I get my hair cut once in a very great while, have never dyed it, and only have nails done for holidays away. I've stopped buying make up like sweeties and just stick to my favourites.

Don't go out for coffees at all, and we usually go out to eat once or maybe twice a year if something very special comes up. Tend to do/see free things most of the time.

We don't drink much at all anymore so there's not the drip drip drip of bottles with the weekly shop either.

SaladAndChipsForTea · 11/08/2025 09:20

I buy nice whisky (admittedly quite expensive upfront but often a gift) and drink sparingly and without a mixer so quite affordable when compared to drinking a few bottles of wine each week (and better for my waistline!)

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 11/08/2025 09:19

House magazines. I can't stop myself buying the latest editions of things like 'Your Home' and 'Ideal Home'. They are SO expensive and it's not as if I'm going to be doing any of the things they suggest, my house is too small for a start. But I work in a supermarket right opposite the magazine rack, and I can feel my palms start tingling when the new mags come in on a Tuesday...

FairFar · 11/08/2025 09:19

LadyKenya · 11/08/2025 09:11

🥑🥑 I eat a lot of them, and have an expensive food outlay. It is something I prioritise, but could save money, by buying, and eating cheaper food.

Yeah, those as well, but I'm on a medically restricted diet, avocado is something healthy that I can actually eat. So cutbacks will have to be elsewhere.

JudgeJ · 11/08/2025 09:17

Allswellthatendswelll · 10/08/2025 22:44

Me too- I just buy very discount plants that usually die now!

Vinted
Kindle books

We once paid the grand sum of 5p for an almost dead plant, OH felt sorry for it and as it was Good Friday we thought we could resurrect it. 15 years on it's still going strong!
He had form for feeling sorry for random plants etc., he once bought the last Christmas tree late on Christmas Eve so it wouldn't get thrown out, cue a mad rush to search unused decorations and lights but it was lovely.
Can't believe the amount of money spend on this thread though, I feel positively puritanical.

FairFar · 11/08/2025 09:16

early30smum · 10/08/2025 22:22

Oh this is amazing! I gave up Diet Coke for 5 months and it was great, have started again now though. And what’s more annoying is I waste more money on buying it individually as I try not to have it in the house in bulk. Please update one day on how much you save!

Same here! But if I buy a case for home then I drink far too much of it. I don't want to add up how much I spend.
I did give up for a year, but I've succumbed again.

AnotherGreyMorning · 11/08/2025 09:16

I could not give up the gym. I need it to stay strong and healthy. Otherwise how will I work into old age?

Could give up my pets. But won’t.

Socialising is a big one. I should at least halve that. Stay home and study.

Youdontseehow · 11/08/2025 09:16

Dogaredabomb · 10/08/2025 22:27

I gave up smoking a couple of months ago, £20 per day 😬

I remember swearing I would give up when a pack reached a tenner.

Well done @Dogaredabomb - I’ve never smoked but my friend is always fighting to stay off the fags - I hope you can stay off them too!!

PigglyWigglyOhYeah · 11/08/2025 09:14

Nonbio46 · 11/08/2025 09:04

Buying yarn. 🧶

Me too. My house is full of it!

Tinatubby73 · 11/08/2025 09:13

GeeButItsGreatToBeBackHome · 11/08/2025 03:11

Over the last year I have given up:

Saturday newspaper £4pw £208pa
Drinking a glass (or 2) of wine or G&T at home most evenings £624pa approx
Chocolate £1.50pw £78pa
National lottery £48 per 4 weeks £624pa
Omaze £20pm £240pa
Peoples Postcode lottery £12.25pm £147pa
Total saving £1921pa

I'm saving hard for something very important.

It surprised me how much these small things came to when added up over a year. It would cover a holiday or some bills.

I don't really miss them now. They had all become a habit. I particularly missed wine o'clock whilst cooking and with dinner after a hard day. It got easier and I feel better for it. As well as saving money, it meant I lost a bit of weight and my skin, sleep and emotions have improved too.

I'd recommend trying it.

Next stop, stopping breathing! 😂

I was drinking lager.the big boxes of 10.since I've given up my sleep has improved 100% too.wejust come back from an overnight stay in our caravan and id hit the lager/spirits on arrival and keep going.this time I was alcohol free for the first time ever!

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 11/08/2025 09:13

Nonbio46 · 11/08/2025 09:04

Buying yarn. 🧶

I was going to ditto that, but it’s probably not more than £30 a month* and everything I make is for a particular charity so I’m not giving it up. I do my own nails and rarely have a takeaway coffee.

*I order from Wool Warehouse, where I can see all previous orders from the past couple of years so could tot it all up, but I’m not going to!

WonsWoo · 11/08/2025 09:13

Weekend lunches out. DH and I have got into a routine of going to get lunch out almost every Saturday after we have visited my elderly parents. It's not unusual to get lunch out on Sundays as well. Nothing extravagant but it adds up.

LadyKenya · 11/08/2025 09:11

🥑🥑 I eat a lot of them, and have an expensive food outlay. It is something I prioritise, but could save money, by buying, and eating cheaper food.

BlueandWhitePorcelain · 11/08/2025 09:05

Eating out
Coffees out
Clothes (the excess of what I need)
The cats (not really)

Nonbio46 · 11/08/2025 09:04

Buying yarn. 🧶

PumpkinsAndCoconuts · 11/08/2025 09:03

PrioritisePleasure24 · 11/08/2025 08:52

No idea how people afford this now!

Addiction, unfortunately...

PumpkinsAndCoconuts · 11/08/2025 09:00

First class train ticket on my morning commute. That's about £2200 a year compared to 2nd class (according to the current conversion rate). But I work on the train and have a fairly long commute.

Followed by non-essentials like holidays, eating out, dance classes, gym membership, our cleaning lady.

Buying skincare without getting a tester beforehand (aka online). And buying skincare and makeup before checking what I already own.... 😅(<= I have told myself to stop doing this and it seems to be working. Mostly.)

Iamnotalemming · 11/08/2025 08:59

Im trying very hard to give up bottled water. I travel a lot and often need a drink on the go. Am appalled by how expensive a bottle of bloody water is these days plus I feel awful about the plastic and then end up carting it around looking for a recycling bin. Have refillable bottle and take it with me and try to get it refilled where possible. Am slightly depressed by how few water fountains there are around in the UK.

Marblerun18 · 11/08/2025 08:59

Paying £4 for a tiny brownie or slice of cake in a coffee shop when I could go to the supermarket next door and buy a whole cake for the same price...or make one at home.