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To ask if you would visit Northern Ireland?

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BlueFlamingoes · 10/08/2025 20:21

Would you visit NI? Why/why not? I always find it interesting how marmite of a place my home is - keen to hear some opinions and maybe dispel a rumour or two :)

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Cilliana · 16/08/2025 20:51

BIossomtoes · 16/08/2025 20:47

Where are they? And how would anyone know? I haven’t heard my Catholic family members (who are in mixed marriages) mention no go zones.

I suppose the places with lots of union jacks and kerbs painted red, white, blue wouldn’t feel particularly welcome to some?

Ihavepaidalotforthisstory · 16/08/2025 20:47

Jaws2025 · 16/08/2025 20:06

I think that is a "you" problem not a NI one

It would be a me problem if I wanted to go. I don't.

BIossomtoes · 16/08/2025 20:47

Ihavepaidalotforthisstory · 16/08/2025 20:40

There's still plenty of places in northern Ireland that Catholics wouldn't be welcome.

Where are they? And how would anyone know? I haven’t heard my Catholic family members (who are in mixed marriages) mention no go zones.

Ihavepaidalotforthisstory · 16/08/2025 20:40

BlueFlamingoes · 16/08/2025 19:58

This is a very strange thing to say considering a large proportion of the population are catholic!

There's still plenty of places in northern Ireland that Catholics wouldn't be welcome.

user1476613140 · 16/08/2025 20:37

Was at a wedding in Cookstown in 2008 but didn't get a proper chance to sightsee. Would love to go over for a week and explore.

Grandad on my mum's side is originally from Newtonards.

5dollah · 16/08/2025 20:31

I live an hour away from the border with NI. If I'm honest, I find NI quite underwhelming. I've been up quite a lot. The roads are crap.

Cilliana · 16/08/2025 20:23

I visited NI a few years ago from ROI and was warned by friends (from NI themselves) that the town I was visiting was a very Protestant one so to be careful where we parked the car with our southern reg. This was about 9 or 10 years ago now though.

Jaws2025 · 16/08/2025 20:06

Ihavepaidalotforthisstory · 16/08/2025 19:02

Born and raised in England to an Irish mother and English father. I'm a practising Catholic. Honestly I wouldn't ever feel comfortable in Northern Ireland. I know people will say times have changed but I wouldn't go!

I think that is a "you" problem not a NI one

BlueFlamingoes · 16/08/2025 19:58

Ihavepaidalotforthisstory · 16/08/2025 19:02

Born and raised in England to an Irish mother and English father. I'm a practising Catholic. Honestly I wouldn't ever feel comfortable in Northern Ireland. I know people will say times have changed but I wouldn't go!

This is a very strange thing to say considering a large proportion of the population are catholic!

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TizerorFizz · 16/08/2025 19:34

Yes. Maybe Belfast but the coast and countryside interest me far more. My DD went to Belfast and did a “troubles” tour. She wasn’t keen. So I think it very much depends on what you want to see.

Gloriia · 16/08/2025 19:31

'Lived there for a few years. As an English person (with Irish roots), I was always othered'

There does seem to still be rampant othering. Lots of flags everywhere not just republicans or loyalist but flags for other conflicts too. Where I live I've never seen a flag anywhere.

BIossomtoes · 16/08/2025 19:22

Ihavepaidalotforthisstory · 16/08/2025 19:02

Born and raised in England to an Irish mother and English father. I'm a practising Catholic. Honestly I wouldn't ever feel comfortable in Northern Ireland. I know people will say times have changed but I wouldn't go!

And yet hundreds of thousands of practising Catholics live there quite happily now.

Ihavepaidalotforthisstory · 16/08/2025 19:02

Born and raised in England to an Irish mother and English father. I'm a practising Catholic. Honestly I wouldn't ever feel comfortable in Northern Ireland. I know people will say times have changed but I wouldn't go!

GiantTeddyIsTired · 16/08/2025 18:57

Well, I was there a couple of hours ago picking up a parcel from OOHPod.. but I guess that's not what you mean :)

I've been to the Giant's causeway, and to the fantastic fun inflatable park and indoor skydiving, I've been shopping, and I really want to go as far north as I can and get a chance to see the northern lights.

When the kids are a bit older, I also fully intend to go axe-throwing at a place that I follow on Facebook.

I'm not going to deny, the weather sucks (but then it's not a huge amount better in the UK/the rest of Ireland) but the scenery is fantastic (as it is for all of the wilder bits of the UK - the Scottish coast is also beautiful).

If I was coming from the UK, I would defo go via Dublin though - the duty free prices make it very worth the short extra drive.

Meadowfinch · 16/08/2025 18:53

Yes, of course. Why not? I had a fabulous holiday there years ago, and the people were lovely. 😊

Pebbles16 · 16/08/2025 18:52

Mustbethat · 10/08/2025 20:52

Same.

isn’t it more people who haven’t gone can’t see past the news descriptions. The troubles, military, politics.

much like Beirut. It’s still used to describe a war zone, but outside of those issues it’s a very beautiful place.

@Mustbethat I LOVED Beirut. It was a very sobering experience, but such a beautiful country, lovely people and great food.

SkylarFalls · 13/08/2025 11:47

I felt the same as previous posters in Australia. It's a long way to go to feel like you're in England

NI feels less English to me than Australia TBH (I don't mean that in a "not BRITISH" way or related to republican/unionist stuff, I mean specifically English-ey, same as how Scotland is not "English-ey")

I feel it's much more refreshing in its differences from England, and therefore a better holiday, than Australia is.

BeMellowAquaSquid · 13/08/2025 11:30

Belfast is one of the most welcoming cities I’ve ever been to in Europe. Amazing people and it’s stee r in really interesting history.

DonnaHadDee · 13/08/2025 11:28

NI is a great and very affordable place to visit. It's an undiscovered part of these islands for most people. I'm biased, but I'd recommend the whole coast from Down through Antrim. Lots of nice beaches, scenery, towns, great coastal walks, nice tee/coffee shops, etc. There is also an incredible variety when you think about the mountains in south part of Down, the flatter coaster paths in the north, the Antrim glens, Rathlin and so on.

It's also much more accessible for a short trip than other trips that people take to west coast of Scotland (which is amazing!) or Cornwall (not a big fan! too busy).

whiteroseredrose · 12/08/2025 23:39

Yes, we have just been. Giants Causeway was amazing. easyJet cancelled our flight so we missed a day. We are looking forward to going back to do the things that we missed.

popcornpower2025 · 12/08/2025 23:24

Have been a few times as DH is from there and still lots of family over there. I don't know if it would've been high on my travel list if I hadn't met DH though

Jaws2025 · 12/08/2025 22:09

The view from Mussenden temple is amazing. I really don't think you can beat the beaches.

DollydaydreamTheThird · 12/08/2025 22:02

RubieChewsDay · 11/08/2025 23:08

I felt similar, I went to South Africa on the way which totally blew my mind. I did have a good time and absolutely loved the barrier reef, but it was so weird arriving in Sydney after such a long journey and it feeling a bit like I'd arrived back in London but with better weather and easier access to the beach.

Yes exactly how I felt. It was a bit meh in comparison to the sights, sounds and smells of Asia. I also found some Aussies rather racist at times as well which was not what I had expected. Considering it is such a multicultural society I was rather shocked my this. I did have a fab time and I have great memories but I wouldn't rush back.

Purplecatshopaholic · 12/08/2025 09:04

Been to Belfast twice - loved it. The people are awesome! Very like Glasgow/Scotland I thought, in that they were open and welcoming and we had a great time in the pubs just getting chatting to people. Would defo come again and see more of NI.