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To think this is not abscene…but fairly normal?!

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Kitchenbattle · 10/08/2025 19:11

I have moved house and I finally have a walk in wardrobe. I’ve decided to hang everything except trousers. Friend said this was an obscene amount of clothing and laughed so much. I think it’s not that crazy 😅 what do you think obscene or normal? 🤣 this is just the top section, next section over is dresses and coats etc.

To think this is not abscene…but fairly normal?!
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oldmanandtheangel · 11/08/2025 18:15

bloody hell it's minimal AF! (by my standards)

Dancingintherain09 · 11/08/2025 18:13

Definitely not obscene. I reckon I double that easily with just my spring summer wardrobe. Autumn winter are currently in vacuum bags in the loft room. I change over end of September and April/may I have several pieces that are year round trousers, jeans shirts cardigans etc
I have a 7 drawer chest of drawers and under bed storage for pj's
Though I do wish mine was as tidy as yours. tidy and organised into ggroups ie dresses tops cardigans skirts trousers etc

Flatulence · 11/08/2025 18:07

It looks like a lot of clothes compared to what I own but it's certainly not "obscene". I'd say it's fairly standard.

I'm just utterly ruthless with donating/selling stuff I haven't worn for 12 months so I'm a bit minimalist!

somethingbeginningwithb · 11/08/2025 18:05

That's not even a tenth of my wardrobe. I dread to think what your friend would say about me!

user1492809438 · 11/08/2025 18:02

Perfectly acceptable, your friend has wardrobe envy!

MediatorMom · 11/08/2025 18:01

Not obscene at all. I have 2 full closets 😂

HappiestWhenGardening · 11/08/2025 17:58

Kitchenbattle · 10/08/2025 19:11

I have moved house and I finally have a walk in wardrobe. I’ve decided to hang everything except trousers. Friend said this was an obscene amount of clothing and laughed so much. I think it’s not that crazy 😅 what do you think obscene or normal? 🤣 this is just the top section, next section over is dresses and coats etc.

Blimey, I looked at this thread thinking we must be talking about porn or something nasty again - and then realised we’re talking about a few clothes!

no, of course not obscene. Enjoy! We might be dead tomorrow, get your innocent pleasures however you wish x

Noseynebs951 · 11/08/2025 17:55

Looks like mine and I’ve more rails with coats and dresses too and clothes in the roofspace for winter which will come out mid September when I put the summer stuff away 😂

Daftypants · 11/08/2025 17:49

I don’t think that’s loads , especially since that’s all your T-shirts hung up , both long sleeve and short sleeve .
My long sleeve and short sleeved tops are in drawers with one or 2 hung up as they crease.
I also like a striped t shirt and could easily wear a pair of linen trousers and a stripe t shirt daily from May to September 😆

Julimia · 11/08/2025 17:03

Nothing to do with anyone else. If you like clothes then you like clothes, end of. Enjoy your walk in wardrobe.

WhamBamThankU · 11/08/2025 17:00

Riverswims · 11/08/2025 11:11

I call stealth boast

I agree

sassyclassyandsmartassy · 11/08/2025 16:24

😂😂 good thing your friend hasn’t seem mine!!!! I have one wall of just shoes! 🙈 As such I am sure you can imagine the clothing…

Travelfairy · 11/08/2025 16:22

Looks lovely and organised. About average i would say, you could probably cut it down a bit but if you have the space which you clearly do then keep them! Your friend might be a wee bit jealous!

Kitchenbattle · 11/08/2025 12:28

Riverswims · 11/08/2025 11:11

I call stealth boast

Yes, look at my white t shirts. Honest on not a stealth boast. lf I was boasting I would honestly say…

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Riverswims · 11/08/2025 11:11

I call stealth boast

PestoHoliday · 11/08/2025 10:28

I've had a look through my closet (half of a double sliding door IKEA wardrobe) and my three drawers in the shared chest of drawers.

I have drawer at the bottom of the wardrobe for 'memory clothes', stuff I don't or can't wear that reminds me of something. Team sports shirt, cocktail dress I bought on my 21st in Florence, my grandmother's hand knit scarf, dress I got married in, an old acrylic jumper I've had sinc I was 18.

Then a drawer for trousers. I have quite a lot at the moment as I've gone down 3 dress sizes this year so there's stuff that's too big. But usually it's

3 pairs of jeans
2 pairs of trousers
2 pairs of summer trousers
1 pair of leggings
1 pair of joggers

I have 22 dresses or tunics (long tops)
6 shirts
9 t-shirts
2 skirts
3 cardigans

And other than underwear and swimsuits, that's it.

And yes, @Kitchenbattle , of course you can be a ninja. That's my gift to you 🥷🏻

Itiswhysofew · 11/08/2025 10:12

No, that's not at all obscene. I've got more, but half if it I don't actually wear🙄😆

Kitchenbattle · 11/08/2025 10:08

minipie · 11/08/2025 09:40

Actually I think it looks like more than it is because it’s all hung up. If the tops were folded in drawers it would look like less. Bet a lot of people have this sort of amount.

Yeah I thought this too, I didn’t actually realise how many T-shirts I had until I hung them up.

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minipie · 11/08/2025 09:40

Actually I think it looks like more than it is because it’s all hung up. If the tops were folded in drawers it would look like less. Bet a lot of people have this sort of amount.

LaurieFairyCake · 11/08/2025 08:55

I’ve 20 times that amount at least

WithOnlyTheMemories · 11/08/2025 07:29

I've got way more than this but I have been thinking about trying to cut down to make it all a bit more manageable.

I wear a lot of the same things over and over but I like to know I have the option of the other stuff, should I wish. Which I never do... 🤦🏻‍♀️

Kitchenbattle · 11/08/2025 06:49

RoseAlone · 11/08/2025 03:30

That's uneccessary. No one needs that amount of clothes. Donate at least two thirds to charity and don't be so self indulgent

That’s my year round wardrobe, I wear them all.
@ThatBlackCat I’ve literally just moved in and am sorting it, so it’s very much not lived in that much. In saying that I’m a very organised, neat freak, I don’t let my house get messy…my DP is the same so the house is always spotless and neat.
@oohyoudevilyou yes they all fit me.

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sammylady37 · 11/08/2025 05:42

The sanctimony on this thread is hilarious, if not unexpected on mumsnet. It’s far from obscene op. Enjoy your lobby organised wardrobe and your clothes.

sashh · 11/08/2025 03:31

Willquery123 · 10/08/2025 19:12

Looks great. Wish my wardrobes were as organised!

Organised!!

OP it is making my teeth itch. Please sort it either by colour or sleeve length.

RoseAlone · 11/08/2025 03:30

That's uneccessary. No one needs that amount of clothes. Donate at least two thirds to charity and don't be so self indulgent