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To be annoyed by another scaremongering Guardian article about weight loss medication

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FeatherBell · 10/08/2025 14:19

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/aug/10/body-positivity-shrinking-girl-summer-everyone-getting-smaller-except-me

I understand this is about the author’s personal feelings and experience, but I still feel it’s a little irresponsible. I was a somewhat ‘early adopter’ of Mounjaro and it’s been life changing for me, but if I’d read articles like this it may well have put me off.

  • Stating there were shockingly few checks and balances to get a prescription - if she used a legitimate supplier, this is unlikely to be the case.
  • Not making clear that her reaction - being barely able to eat and losing 16kg ‘rapidly’ - is very unusual at the lowest dose. And that there are options other than Wegovy if you don’t react well.
  • The emphasis on taking the injections to become ‘skinny’, rather than healthier.

I fully agree that people should be treated with kindness and respect at any size and I am someone who took a lot of inspiration from watching plus sized influencers taking part in sport, so I get why she’s worried about losing the body positivity movement. But it simply isn’t true that you can be healthy and obese - obesity isn’t healthy, and if the movement is losing influencers because they are now able to succeed in losing weight when they weren’t before, that suggests that they are in agreement with that. I’ve never been totally sold on how inclusive that movement is anyway - the most popular ones almost always have beautiful faces. It’s the same BS as normal beauty standards, just wrapped in a different size.

The suggestion that she has to choose between her mental health or being a healthier weight also seems somewhat reductive. I hope she finds a happier headspace for herself, but I wish this sort of article could remain as a personal blog/social media post rather than being endorsed by the mainstream press.

I thought we’d entered the age of body positivity. Then came ‘shrinking girl summer’ – is everyone getting smaller except me?

It’s been the year of weight-loss drugs, with celebrities seemingly disappearing before our eyes. For those of us left behind, it’s both a torment and a temptation. Spoiler alert: I tried the jabs, too

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/aug/10/body-positivity-shrinking-girl-summer-everyone-getting-smaller-except-me

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fourelementary · 10/08/2025 23:31

FeatherBell · 10/08/2025 17:35

I think there is an implicit criticism. I certainly don’t see it as a threat though, that’s an odd comment? She talks about the ‘moral’ choice of taking the jabs, that they’ve let to a fresh wave of fatphobia and praises overweight celebrities for not ‘feeling the need to shrink’.

You seemed to be worried articles like here would or could be a threat to the popularity of WLI… to me. Hence my comment.
What’s wrong with criticising them? They have their place for very overweight people who are diabetic and clinically obese. Not for people who can’t be arsed making the necessary lifestyle changes to lose weight healthily. And society and the popularity of WLI are making them seem like the latter…that’s worthy of criticism.
It’s odd that you describe the article as scaremongering when she literally barely mentions the side effects and certainly doesn’t go into any detail about them.

TheGreatWesternShrew · 10/08/2025 19:13

I think she was honest and it’s an opinion piece

FeatherBell · 10/08/2025 17:35

fourelementary · 10/08/2025 16:09

It’s not outside the norm. It’s expected for around 1 in 10 according to the dr on the radio phone in about WLI on radio 4 the other day.

I think this is a classic example of “you see the world as you are, not as it is” as I saw far more about a woman struggling to love her body as it is whilst providing a positive role model for her children and fitting into a society as ours that values women for their looks alone and sees them as less is always more… which speaks to me. You as a WLI user saw criticism of your choices… or a threat to them?

I think there is an implicit criticism. I certainly don’t see it as a threat though, that’s an odd comment? She talks about the ‘moral’ choice of taking the jabs, that they’ve let to a fresh wave of fatphobia and praises overweight celebrities for not ‘feeling the need to shrink’.

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MagpiePi · 10/08/2025 16:29

It is an opinion piece describing her personal experience, not an in depth scientific paper.
I thought there was very little about her taking weight loss drugs. I read it as, she tried them, didn’t like it and probably won’t try them again even if there are alternatives. I would be surprised if she hadn’t used a reputable supplier but she clearly was expecting more questions about her situation.

fourelementary · 10/08/2025 16:09

It’s not outside the norm. It’s expected for around 1 in 10 according to the dr on the radio phone in about WLI on radio 4 the other day.

I think this is a classic example of “you see the world as you are, not as it is” as I saw far more about a woman struggling to love her body as it is whilst providing a positive role model for her children and fitting into a society as ours that values women for their looks alone and sees them as less is always more… which speaks to me. You as a WLI user saw criticism of your choices… or a threat to them?

FeatherBell · 10/08/2025 14:58

I did read the article, yes, and I don’t agree that it is particularly in depth about women’s worth or the intricacies of society. I am not suggesting the topic should be censored at all, but I do think people have a responsibility to consider the impact of their words. If you are publishing something in a national newspaper about an unusual experience (which her extreme reaction to the injection was) then I think you absolutely should make it clear that it’s outside the norm. Why wouldn’t you?

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Vaxtable · 10/08/2025 14:53

Yabu

TaborlinTheGreat · 10/08/2025 14:44

YABVU. Did you actually read the article?! Most of it isn't about weight loss drugs, and the bit that is about them is just her own experience. That's not scaremongering!

fourelementary · 10/08/2025 14:29

YABU and have reduced her article to what you perceive about it rather than what she wrote. There was minimal stuff about WLI and a lot about the intricacies of society and women’s belief that their looks and their bodies are what determine their worth as people. It’s never going to be a simple topic and it should not be censored.

FeatherBell · 10/08/2025 14:28

I seem to have missed off the poll somehow and it won’t let me add it now 🤷‍♀️

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