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Need to plan at to give at least £100k per child to set them up in early adulthood

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TulipLavender · 10/08/2025 09:38

I have very young DCs and I'm currently nowhere near a high income but I've been thinking a lot about future financial planning.

What the impact of AI, unknown or insecure job market for younger generations, cost of living etc., I feel like I should prioritise saving to help provide some support for each of my DCs to help pay for uni costs and then support with later house deposit. I'm also expecting that they may need to live at home long into their 20s.

So I'm thinking i need to plan to be able to have £100k available for each child. Even this seems like it may not stratch the surface with unknown future uni costs and house prices but it will be a struggle to achieve this savings goal.

What are your thoughts around future financial planning for yoru children, do you have a target amount in mind? Would you prioritise this over paying a lot for things like holidays now?

YABU - its too much to give and need to reprioritise enjoying life more now

YANBU - with such unknown futures for our children, they will need at least this to ensure they have a safety net and support with getting on their feet

OP posts:
TheLette · 10/08/2025 09:44

How are you going to save multiples of £100k if you aren't high income?

Saz12 · 10/08/2025 09:44

IMO, worth saving an affordable amount each month. Either for DC future or your own rainy day.
Better to buy DC less and save instead, but am not sure setting a target is a great plan as inflation, interest, life events will all get in the way.

laughingnow · 10/08/2025 09:44

As above

Cornflakes44 · 10/08/2025 09:42

Concentrate on building your career, give them a good childhood free from significant worry about money, teach them to work hard and support their talents. That’s all your job is. The rest is up to them. I honestly don’t think it good for young adults to have everything figured out and paid for my their parents. Get them to uni and then basically I think it’s over to them.