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JustAlice · 09/08/2025 10:16

"Sir Keir Starmer plans to update the Equality Act to give public authorities a new duty to consider a person’s “socio-economic background”.
The changes could mean that schools are forced to give pupils from a working-class background priority when applying for school places, according to Conservative research, instead of judging applications based on how far away from a school someone lives."

Last year BBC had articles on how Brighton and Hove Labour council implemented similar policy, and now substancial % of school places goes to children on FSM instead of childre living closer to the school, making average % of FSM in them closer to the council average.
Protests didn't lead to anything.

If Starmer is going to rollout this model for the whole country, I'm torn, because though I'm against class division and think that current model encourages it

  1. I strongly disagree that the families on less than minimal wage income are the only working people in the country. Maybe call them deprived to be honest.
  2. In Brighton, faith schools are still not impacted.

YABU - we should be happy about this
YANBU - not a good idea

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User28473 · 10/08/2025 00:26

It would be much better to scrap faith schools, since it is middle classes that play the system and travel to further away faith schools regardless of their religious belief.

DrPrunesqualer · 10/08/2025 00:09

nearlylovemyusername · 09/08/2025 22:36

Well, the news article is about giving priority to a certain group of society to state service which is funded by all taxpayers.

Which means discrimination of other groups (non working class) who are put at the end of the queue.

I'm not even sure if it's legal.

ETA: I understand this approach when it's about SEN or foster care, these are tragic individual circumstances, but here we're talking about entire class background. I hope some clever lawyers can sort this out.

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I read something about Starmer revising the Equalities Act

Although someone upthread noted this would be acceptable to the current version anyway. ?

Brianthedog · 09/08/2025 22:59

lavendarwillow · 09/08/2025 22:47

On the flip side parents need to remember that some of the nicest and most grateful children go to school in not so ‘nice’ areas with less than good reputations. It is a myth that these schools will drag your child down. Some of the worse entitled behaviour and bullying actually comes from pupils in ‘outstanding’ and private schools. I work in education and see this first hand.

A fairer way would actually be a lottery system for schools within the same town.

And the single best thing Labour could introduce, is for schools to expel children quicker and sooner for bad behaviour and no recourse to attend another school. It is troublesome children that take up too much of teachers time and cause stress for everyone around them. They should not be entertained on school premises. Somewhere else but not school.

Maybe not “drag down” behaviour wise, but certainly academically.

I have a few local friends whose children go to the closest secondary school. They have outside tutoring as so much of the teaching time is taken up with difficult behaviour and disruption that sometimes, not a lot of teaching goes on. The poor teachers are so busy fire fighting. My friends children are doing really well, but they do a hell of a lot of home with them and invest in pretty intensive tutoring to make up for the lack of teaching in class.

Again, not the fault of the school or the teachers, they are doing their best.

lavendarwillow · 09/08/2025 22:47

On the flip side parents need to remember that some of the nicest and most grateful children go to school in not so ‘nice’ areas with less than good reputations. It is a myth that these schools will drag your child down. Some of the worse entitled behaviour and bullying actually comes from pupils in ‘outstanding’ and private schools. I work in education and see this first hand.

A fairer way would actually be a lottery system for schools within the same town.

And the single best thing Labour could introduce, is for schools to expel children quicker and sooner for bad behaviour and no recourse to attend another school. It is troublesome children that take up too much of teachers time and cause stress for everyone around them. They should not be entertained on school premises. Somewhere else but not school.

nearlylovemyusername · 09/08/2025 22:36

Well, the news article is about giving priority to a certain group of society to state service which is funded by all taxpayers.

Which means discrimination of other groups (non working class) who are put at the end of the queue.

I'm not even sure if it's legal.

ETA: I understand this approach when it's about SEN or foster care, these are tragic individual circumstances, but here we're talking about entire class background. I hope some clever lawyers can sort this out.

DrPrunesqualer · 09/08/2025 22:33

nearlylovemyusername · 09/08/2025 22:24

They do level, but down. Their aim is for everyone to have the same level of education even if it means to have it worse for everyone.

@DrPrunesqualer post demonstrates it perfectly.
That’s why I’m against academic selection at age 11. The Medway towns are Grammar areas and anyone who doesn’t get in is marked for ever. The prescence of Grammar schools is why the others are rough and really quite crap.

In a rough area with parents as described, grammars give a chance to some kids to escape. Pushing academic kids into classes with disruptive ones, whose parents "just want to fight against everything and teach their children to do the same" won't save those rough kids but will bring down the former ones who did have a chance of success.

Although some kids have been moved to private when all else fails. They’ve done well.

Im guessing this is what this news article is all about.

Brianthedog · 09/08/2025 22:31

nearlylovemyusername · 09/08/2025 22:24

They do level, but down. Their aim is for everyone to have the same level of education even if it means to have it worse for everyone.

@DrPrunesqualer post demonstrates it perfectly.
That’s why I’m against academic selection at age 11. The Medway towns are Grammar areas and anyone who doesn’t get in is marked for ever. The prescence of Grammar schools is why the others are rough and really quite crap.

In a rough area with parents as described, grammars give a chance to some kids to escape. Pushing academic kids into classes with disruptive ones, whose parents "just want to fight against everything and teach their children to do the same" won't save those rough kids but will bring down the former ones who did have a chance of success.

Exactly. It’s not dds fault that we had to move here, due to shitty circumstances. Why should she have to be held back by other children?

And like I said, grammar schools aren’t the issue here. There is one in the town 25 mins away, 6 or so scattered about the nearest city 35 mins away. Some are up to an hour away (but kids do travel more than an hour for a grammar), so they aren’t bringing down the schools where I am at all.

The local primary is a fantastic school if you want it to be. The secondary schools don’t have such good reputations, but it’s harder for the schools as children get older. But I do know children who go to them who thrive due to their parents and home lives.

DrPrunesqualer · 09/08/2025 22:30

nearlylovemyusername · 09/08/2025 22:24

They do level, but down. Their aim is for everyone to have the same level of education even if it means to have it worse for everyone.

@DrPrunesqualer post demonstrates it perfectly.
That’s why I’m against academic selection at age 11. The Medway towns are Grammar areas and anyone who doesn’t get in is marked for ever. The prescence of Grammar schools is why the others are rough and really quite crap.

In a rough area with parents as described, grammars give a chance to some kids to escape. Pushing academic kids into classes with disruptive ones, whose parents "just want to fight against everything and teach their children to do the same" won't save those rough kids but will bring down the former ones who did have a chance of success.

I agree. There does seem to be a race to the bottom motto coming from Labours policies in general

DrPrunesqualer · 09/08/2025 22:29

Brianthedog · 09/08/2025 22:17

Okay, I’ll shout it louder - it’s not the schools!

Children who have parents who engage, who instill education into them, who don’t encourage them to fight with teachers - they do well!

It’s the parents who hold their children back and make them turn out just like they are, it’s not the schools.

My husband works in education for our local authority, he says it’s like they are banging thier heads an against a brick wall half the time. Everything the children need is there for the taking. There are lots of adult education programmes, free classes for parents, free activities. Not many are taken up.

the grammars here don’t affect the local schools, They are too few and too far. That isn’t what is bringing down the local schools here - like I said, vanishingly few children in this area take the 11+ anyway, it’s not comparable to Medway.

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You don’t need to shout it

Im award it’s parents
Im aware the kids are products of their parents

Like I said
( and I don’t have a desire to shout)

That doesn’t mean we abandon kids just because…..it’s the parents and they don’t care so

Maybe mixing it about a bit, as the news article of this thread, is exactly what’s needed. 50/50 as much as possible.

Im not in favour due to practicalities. But. Maybe it is the only way. If schools are financed better. Perhaps longer hours too even and more state boarding might help.

I rarely see students from badly performing schools at my Uni. I’d like to never have to see the words ‘special measures’ ever again.

Timeforachangerose · 09/08/2025 22:26

This is surely not a national need and not required everywhere? My child's school has well below FSM national average. It also isn't at capacity due to the decline in birth rate. So anyone from outside of the catchment can get in regardless of FSM status. But they don't apply despite it being an excellent school because it's rural, hard to get to and feeds into an even more remote middle school.

nearlylovemyusername · 09/08/2025 22:24

DrPrunesqualer · 09/08/2025 21:59

Every child matters equally. Governments should never ignore certain schools because the solution is
too difficult,
too costly or
takes too much time.

It’s those schools that need the most focus and one solution will not work for them all.
I would expect Labour to level up and at the very least give every child a chance of success

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They do level, but down. Their aim is for everyone to have the same level of education even if it means to have it worse for everyone.

@DrPrunesqualer post demonstrates it perfectly.
That’s why I’m against academic selection at age 11. The Medway towns are Grammar areas and anyone who doesn’t get in is marked for ever. The prescence of Grammar schools is why the others are rough and really quite crap.

In a rough area with parents as described, grammars give a chance to some kids to escape. Pushing academic kids into classes with disruptive ones, whose parents "just want to fight against everything and teach their children to do the same" won't save those rough kids but will bring down the former ones who did have a chance of success.

Brianthedog · 09/08/2025 22:17

DrPrunesqualer · 09/08/2025 22:11

I’ve lived in the Medway towns where the A &E waiting room is regularly full of teenagers after a school fight, at school.

Ive lived down the road from Broadwater farm
I’m well aware of atitudes
I’m well aware of crap schools

That’s why I’m well aware we should never abandon any child. That’s why I’m against academic selection at age 11. The Medway towns are Grammar areas and anyone who doesn’t get in is marked for ever. The prescence of Grammar schools is why the others are rough and really quite crap. That is why I am against academic selection at 11

Giving up on kids because of their parents attitude or academic ability is not how society moves forward successfully or fairly. I’d hate to think my taxes were paying for that.

You are doing whats best for your kid at the moment.
You have no choice at the moment and that’s what we do
It doesn’t mean we have to agree on the existing system

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Okay, I’ll shout it louder - it’s not the schools!

Children who have parents who engage, who instill education into them, who don’t encourage them to fight with teachers - they do well!

It’s the parents who hold their children back and make them turn out just like they are, it’s not the schools.

My husband works in education for our local authority, he says it’s like they are banging thier heads an against a brick wall half the time. Everything the children need is there for the taking. There are lots of adult education programmes, free classes for parents, free activities. Not many are taken up.

the grammars here don’t affect the local schools, They are too few and too far. That isn’t what is bringing down the local schools here - like I said, vanishingly few children in this area take the 11+ anyway, it’s not comparable to Medway.

DrPrunesqualer · 09/08/2025 22:11

Brianthedog · 09/08/2025 22:01

Again, it’s not my child’s primary school that is the issue. They actually have a lot of funding as 57% of children are in receipt of FSM. They do so much but many parents don’t want it!

A lot of the parents just want to fight against everything and teach their children to do the same.

God, when ever I post about where I live, I always say I wish you could come and spend a week here, come to the school everyday, see the people who live here, you’d know exactly what I mean. It’s so frustrating when people just don’t get that people love a life of hanging out of windows shouting, smoking weed and big dogs.they couldn’t give two shits about education and don’t want to change.

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I’ve lived in the Medway towns where the A &E waiting room is regularly full of teenagers after a school fight, at school.

Ive lived down the road from Broadwater farm
I’m well aware of atitudes
I’m well aware of crap schools

That’s why I’m well aware we should never abandon any child. That’s why I’m against academic selection at age 11. The Medway towns are Grammar areas and anyone who doesn’t get in is marked for ever. The prescence of Grammar schools is why the others are rough and really quite crap. That is why I am against academic selection at 11

Giving up on kids because of their parents attitude or academic ability is not how society moves forward successfully or fairly. I’d hate to think my taxes were paying for that.

You are doing whats best for your kid at the moment.
You have no choice at the moment and that’s what we do
It doesn’t mean we have to agree on the existing system

Brianthedog · 09/08/2025 22:01

DrPrunesqualer · 09/08/2025 21:59

Every child matters equally. Governments should never ignore certain schools because the solution is
too difficult,
too costly or
takes too much time.

It’s those schools that need the most focus and one solution will not work for them all.
I would expect Labour to level up and at the very least give every child a chance of success

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Again, it’s not my child’s primary school that is the issue. They actually have a lot of funding as 57% of children are in receipt of FSM. They do so much but many parents don’t want it!

A lot of the parents just want to fight against everything and teach their children to do the same.

God, when ever I post about where I live, I always say I wish you could come and spend a week here, come to the school everyday, see the people who live here, you’d know exactly what I mean. It’s so frustrating when people just don’t get that people love a life of hanging out of windows shouting, smoking weed and big dogs.they couldn’t give two shits about education and don’t want to change.

DrPrunesqualer · 09/08/2025 21:59

Brianthedog · 09/08/2025 21:54

So what do you do in a school like my children go to, where a lot of the parents went there themselves as no one seems to leave here. They hated it, they have passed that hatred of it on to their children. The parents fights with staff, and each other in the playground.

It’s not the school. The school, if you want it, engage with it and work with them, are fantastic. My children are thriving there, the teachers are amazing, so engaged and put so much in. But it’s the majority of people who live here who ruin it.

You can’t do much about that.

im talking about my children’s primary there, but the secondaries are the same.

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Every child matters equally. Governments should never ignore certain schools because the solution is
too difficult,
too costly or
takes too much time.

It’s those schools that need the most focus and one solution will not work for them all.
I would expect Labour to level up and at the very least give every child a chance of success

Brianthedog · 09/08/2025 21:54

DrPrunesqualer · 09/08/2025 21:41

Or for all schools to be equally as good.
Its the only way to truly start levelling up.
Abandoning some Schools and the children in order to provide for a few isn’t tackling the problem.

Every child deserves a good school at the very least.

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So what do you do in a school like my children go to, where a lot of the parents went there themselves as no one seems to leave here. They hated it, they have passed that hatred of it on to their children. The parents fights with staff, and each other in the playground.

It’s not the school. The school, if you want it, engage with it and work with them, are fantastic. My children are thriving there, the teachers are amazing, so engaged and put so much in. But it’s the majority of people who live here who ruin it.

You can’t do much about that.

im talking about my children’s primary there, but the secondaries are the same.

Brianthedog · 09/08/2025 21:50

TheNightingalesStarling · 09/08/2025 21:39

Is it well advertised that thus help is available for FSM pupils? Does the school encourage them to apply?

It’s a very well known school. It’s in all the school guides you are given in year 5. At the end of the day, it’s another school choice. Yes, it’s well signposted regarding provision for FSM children. Dd isn’t in receipt of FSM but I know all about it as it is very, very clear on their website and literature.

Our closest city, where most of the other grammars are, is well known for having grammars. It’s hardly hidden knowledge and wouldn’t take much to find out about it you wanted to.

There are adverts on the local radio all the time about registering for the 11+

When I spoke to the head about dd having time off for the exams, he said no one else has bothered in years. He always seems exhausted by it though, him and the other staff put up with so much abuse from the parents. A lot of the staff bent over backwards to help dd with exam prep, they would have done that for all the children, they are fantastic.

I know that they have told other parents about their options, as dd had some low level bullying when other children found out what schools she had applied for and that she was taking the exam, I had a couple of shitty comments from parents, “local schools not good enough for you then?” “I wouldn’t send my kid to those stuck up schools” and shit like that. It earned me the nickname “kate Middleton” (I don’t have the local accent, so I’m fair game).

It’s is a shame as a lot of the kids in DDs year are really bright, it’s a shame they didn’t get the opportunity to try.

DrPrunesqualer · 09/08/2025 21:41

Brianthedog · 09/08/2025 21:19

Where I live, there are grammar schools around 25-40 mins away, yet hardly anyone here takes the 11 + (it’s a deprived town in the West Midlands).

My dd was the first one to take the 11 + at her school for as long as anyone can remember. I don’t understand why, when we have one of the best grammars in the country a 20 min drive up the road.
The secondary schools in my area are dire.

I am not from here, I grew up in an area with lots of grammars, where everyone just did the 12+, as it was there then, it was just what happened. So it was normal for me for dd to do it.

Dd is going to the grammar in September. They have to take a certain proportion of FSM chlidren and the pass mark is much lower for them. They get two sets of uniform given to them, there is a school coach which they can take for free, music lessons are free for them or heavily subsidised, as are school trips. I asked the head why more children don’t do it and he laughed at me, and said “the parents wouldn’t even think about it, they wouldn’t put the effort in.”

Which is true (I’ve posted about the school and the parent’s upthread). But it’s such a shame for children to not even be givnen the opportunity to try.

Or for all schools to be equally as good.
Its the only way to truly start levelling up.
Abandoning some Schools and the children in order to provide for a few isn’t tackling the problem.

Every child deserves a good school at the very least.

TheNightingalesStarling · 09/08/2025 21:39

Brianthedog · 09/08/2025 21:19

Where I live, there are grammar schools around 25-40 mins away, yet hardly anyone here takes the 11 + (it’s a deprived town in the West Midlands).

My dd was the first one to take the 11 + at her school for as long as anyone can remember. I don’t understand why, when we have one of the best grammars in the country a 20 min drive up the road.
The secondary schools in my area are dire.

I am not from here, I grew up in an area with lots of grammars, where everyone just did the 12+, as it was there then, it was just what happened. So it was normal for me for dd to do it.

Dd is going to the grammar in September. They have to take a certain proportion of FSM chlidren and the pass mark is much lower for them. They get two sets of uniform given to them, there is a school coach which they can take for free, music lessons are free for them or heavily subsidised, as are school trips. I asked the head why more children don’t do it and he laughed at me, and said “the parents wouldn’t even think about it, they wouldn’t put the effort in.”

Which is true (I’ve posted about the school and the parent’s upthread). But it’s such a shame for children to not even be givnen the opportunity to try.

Is it well advertised that thus help is available for FSM pupils? Does the school encourage them to apply?

Brianthedog · 09/08/2025 21:37

JustAlice · 09/08/2025 21:29

@Brianthedog can children from your town take a bus there?

Yes. Very easily. It’s only 20/25 mins up the road from here. Direct public bus which runs every 10 mins, with a five min walk to the school from the closest bus stop.

Or, there is a school coach which goes through our town. It’s free to children on FSM (but obviously takes longer, around an hour as it goes though lots of places to pick up children to get there).

The other grammar schools are in the closest city, 35 ish mins away which you can get a train to from the station which is a ten min walk from the school, or again, buses. Dd isn’t going to one of those, but I assume they have coached too which probably come through our area, children travel a long way to get to grammars - dd isn’t going to school with some children who are live over an hour away from it and that seems to be normal.

JustAlice · 09/08/2025 21:29

@Brianthedog can children from your town take a bus there?

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Brianthedog · 09/08/2025 21:19

Doitrightnow · 09/08/2025 20:54

But that doesn't show that grammar school system didn't help social mobility? If your Dad's parents stopped him from going, it's not a fault of the school system.

My grandma also passed the 11+ but her poor, working class parents stopped her from going. She ended up having a shotgun wedding at 17 after falling pregnant. Sometimes I wonder if she'd been allowed to go how her life would have been different.

I also think a lot of kids would be happier learning more bricklaying, car mechanics and dress making and less physics and Spanish. If there were vocational and academic schools that were equally good, I don't think having a divide would be a bad thing.

Where I live, there are grammar schools around 25-40 mins away, yet hardly anyone here takes the 11 + (it’s a deprived town in the West Midlands).

My dd was the first one to take the 11 + at her school for as long as anyone can remember. I don’t understand why, when we have one of the best grammars in the country a 20 min drive up the road.
The secondary schools in my area are dire.

I am not from here, I grew up in an area with lots of grammars, where everyone just did the 12+, as it was there then, it was just what happened. So it was normal for me for dd to do it.

Dd is going to the grammar in September. They have to take a certain proportion of FSM chlidren and the pass mark is much lower for them. They get two sets of uniform given to them, there is a school coach which they can take for free, music lessons are free for them or heavily subsidised, as are school trips. I asked the head why more children don’t do it and he laughed at me, and said “the parents wouldn’t even think about it, they wouldn’t put the effort in.”

Which is true (I’ve posted about the school and the parent’s upthread). But it’s such a shame for children to not even be givnen the opportunity to try.

Doitrightnow · 09/08/2025 20:54

BoredZelda · 09/08/2025 14:22

Conversely, less bright children were written off at age 11. If they lived in poverty, that was it, wealthier kids who failed the 11+ still had the advantage of parents engaged in their education and were able to support them through their exams, and give them opportunities to get a decent job. My parents are the perfect example of it. My dad was from a very poor family. Although he passed the 11th+, his siblings didn’t, and his parents didn’t believe in education so he did 2 years at the secondary modern then was told he needed to leave school and work. It was only because when he reached 1k he wanted better for himself than being a farm labourer and joined the army.

That had a lot to do with my mum. She was from a middle class family, she failed the 11+ (despite having been at a private school) and left school with O Grades in Art and Home Economics. Her parents never let her settle for that and organised for her to take an exam in the civil service (where her aunt worked), she went on to work there until she had her kids and then returned to office work when we went to school. My Grandma and Granda (mum’s mum and dad) had many a chat with my dad, encouraging him to see past the barriers his own mum had set, and when he said he was going to join the army, my grandma was the one who helped him and supported him whereas Granny (dad’s mum) effectively turned her back on him and had a lifelong hatred of my mum because of it. Together they eventually built a successful life, far beyond anything my dad could have expected if he had continued working as a farm labourer.

Grammar schools were never the panacea they were sold as. They broadened the class divide and left millions of kids on the scrap heap based on one guy’s assertion that IQ was fixed by the age of 11.

But that doesn't show that grammar school system didn't help social mobility? If your Dad's parents stopped him from going, it's not a fault of the school system.

My grandma also passed the 11+ but her poor, working class parents stopped her from going. She ended up having a shotgun wedding at 17 after falling pregnant. Sometimes I wonder if she'd been allowed to go how her life would have been different.

I also think a lot of kids would be happier learning more bricklaying, car mechanics and dress making and less physics and Spanish. If there were vocational and academic schools that were equally good, I don't think having a divide would be a bad thing.

luckylavender · 09/08/2025 19:06

The Brighton & Hove one is dreadful. Children being bussed all over the place. It’s a total lottery.

Brianthedog · 09/08/2025 19:04

Jamesblonde2 · 09/08/2025 18:46

Assuming people are right that the good schools are due to parents and pupils. So due to this plan, the shit schools become good? And good schools become shit? Then do Labour try to swap it round again later on? So the newly shit school ends up becoming good and vice versa? Haha. Mind blown.

Yeah, I can’t see anyone from a nicer area being keen to bring thier children to our school, bang in between two notorious council estates. They just wouldn’t do it. And I wouldn’t blame them one bit.

I mean, The school is what you make of it. My children do really well, the teachers are fantastic. If you engage, get involved, push your child to achieve then you really get the best out of it.

But man, any one turning up from a middle class area (as I did when I moved here), would really struggle at how most of the parents are (as I did at first).

Also, a lot of the parents here don’t value education. They teach their children that it’s a punishment. They would drag the better schools down. People don’t like hearing that, but it’s the truth.

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