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To think that white British/ American etcmen are just as much a threat to women as migrants?

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malificent7 · 08/08/2025 12:47

I am not excusing grooming, paedophile sex rings and unmonitored immigration at all but I hate all these protests.
I know that my white male ex teacher is a sex offender. Not to mention the Epstein scandal.
Aibu to think that ALL men are a danger to women...not just men of different ethnicities/ religions etc?

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Somerford · 10/08/2025 23:30

MiloMinderbinder925 · 10/08/2025 23:23

You want mass programmes where non whites are sent to their 'country of heritage'?

No. You've asked the same question repeatedly and you've had the same answer repeatedly.. There are lots of immigrants living here who have integrated and contribute a lot to our society regardless of skin colour. There are lots of who have not integrated and whose contribution to our society is profoundly negative, they should leave.

Somerford · 10/08/2025 23:27

MiloMinderbinder925 · 10/08/2025 23:18

I'm not the one arguing that foreigners are a risk to women. I'm asking what you think is going to be done about it if (God forbid) Farage is voted in.

Do you think Farage will send the navy into the channel? Escort people back to France? Round up foreigners Trump style by sending ICE agents onto the streets? Build concentration camps? Ban Muslims from entering the country? Declare a national emergency and put the army onto the streets?

What solutions would work for the issues you think we have?

Again, it isn’t my job. My job as a voter in a democracy is to vote for whoever commits to the strongest measures to deal with the problem. You don't believe the problem exists, I do. Lets vote whichever way we'd like to vote come the next election.

MuckFusk · 10/08/2025 23:26

Wow. 51% believe this objectively truthful statement is unreasonable?
When I say that it's because I take it you mean all men are a potential threat, not an actual threat. Since there are far more white UK men (over 75% as of the 2021 census) then obviously they present the biggest threat. The math is simple.

I see a lot of people are pointing to rape stats in other countries. The part they are conveniently forgetting is that in countries where rape isn't punished, men will commit more rapes. If they move to a country where it is punished, it seems logical to conclude they will commit fewer rapes, especially if getting citizenship rides on them obeying the law. Not one person can show evidence that men from x,y or z country are more likely to commit rape when they immigrate to the UK than white, native Brits are. Now, it's possible that they are. Who knows? Maybe their desire to rape overrides their desire to become citizens and their fear of punishment for all we know. But even if that was so, they simply don't have the numbers to present a greater threat.

TopPocketFind · 10/08/2025 23:24

Somerford · 10/08/2025 23:22

Remigration. This is all very circular isn't it.

It is very circular seeing that only Lowe's party and the far right are considering that.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 10/08/2025 23:23

Somerford · 10/08/2025 23:22

Remigration. This is all very circular isn't it.

You want mass programmes where non whites are sent to their 'country of heritage'?

Somerford · 10/08/2025 23:22

TopPocketFind · 10/08/2025 23:20

And how do you suggest the damage get repaired?

Remigration. This is all very circular isn't it.

TopPocketFind · 10/08/2025 23:20

Somerford · 10/08/2025 23:16

He's saying very clearly in plain English that mass immigration has caused incalculable damage. He did blame the Tories for it, yes, but he's blaming the Tories for "an open borders experiment" which has caused incalculable damage. If incalculable damage has been caused, it follows logically that you need to repair it. If you crash you car tomorrow you wouldn't address the damage by crashing it a bit less often in future, you'd repair the existing damage AND aim to not crash it again.

And how do you suggest the damage get repaired?

MiloMinderbinder925 · 10/08/2025 23:18

Somerford · 10/08/2025 23:10

Ok. But there wouldn't be a solution if there wasn't a problem, and every time I ask you say there isn’t a problem. So why do you want a solution?

I'm not the one arguing that foreigners are a risk to women. I'm asking what you think is going to be done about it if (God forbid) Farage is voted in.

Do you think Farage will send the navy into the channel? Escort people back to France? Round up foreigners Trump style by sending ICE agents onto the streets? Build concentration camps? Ban Muslims from entering the country? Declare a national emergency and put the army onto the streets?

What solutions would work for the issues you think we have?

Somerford · 10/08/2025 23:16

TopPocketFind · 10/08/2025 23:07

The incalcuable damage

I don't like Starmer's rhetoric on immigration but he is not talking about remigration.

He's saying very clearly in plain English that mass immigration has caused incalculable damage. He did blame the Tories for it, yes, but he's blaming the Tories for "an open borders experiment" which has caused incalculable damage. If incalculable damage has been caused, it follows logically that you need to repair it. If you crash you car tomorrow you wouldn't address the damage by crashing it a bit less often in future, you'd repair the existing damage AND aim to not crash it again.

Fetaface · 10/08/2025 23:12

The majority of sex offenders are white. We have a society that ignores sex offending and blames the victim and falsely accuses the victim almost 100% of the time.

In the UK our society sweeps sex offending under the rug. We have women arrested when they report because society believed the sex offender who lies more than the victim. We have men who engage in rape jokes and who ignore what their mates do.

We also have a media which portrays the victim as the perpetrator often and never mentions the criminal. It is that normalised that most women do not report as they know they have to accept it.

I've been sexually assaulted more times than I can count. ALL by white men. No idea of their background (English/American etc). I have been sexually harassed and abused because of my partners ethnicity by white men too.

We have men who expect sex because they bought a drink, we have men who grope frequently and wolf whistle kids in uniform. Do people think that if there was only white men in the UK then they would protest to punish the white sex offenders in the same way? Absolutely they wouldn't. Because they do not care. The protests are performative and lack care for women and girls.

Somerford · 10/08/2025 23:10

MiloMinderbinder925 · 10/08/2025 23:06

I assume you don't have any idea whatsoever and can't think of any solutions.

Ok. But there wouldn't be a solution if there wasn't a problem, and every time I ask you say there isn’t a problem. So why do you want a solution?

TopPocketFind · 10/08/2025 23:07

Somerford · 10/08/2025 23:03

Pardon?

The incalcuable damage

I don't like Starmer's rhetoric on immigration but he is not talking about remigration.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 10/08/2025 23:06

Somerford · 10/08/2025 23:02

You don't agree that there is a problem to be solved. Until you do, stop pestering me for a solution to a problem that you don't think exists.

I assume you don't have any idea whatsoever and can't think of any solutions.

Somerford · 10/08/2025 23:03

TopPocketFind · 10/08/2025 22:59

Brexit, Tories?

Pardon?

Somerford · 10/08/2025 23:02

MiloMinderbinder925 · 10/08/2025 22:58

What are you suggesting is done? You're being very vague.

You don't agree that there is a problem to be solved. Until you do, stop pestering me for a solution to a problem that you don't think exists.

BurntBroccoli · 10/08/2025 23:01

TopPocketFind · 10/08/2025 10:43

So you are in favour of stopping all immigration? From all countries?

Yes this is what they want. No migration at all except for white people.
There was a post on Reddit today saying exactly that.
It seems they would like the ‘White Australia’ policy of 1972 to happen here.

TopPocketFind · 10/08/2025 22:59

Somerford · 10/08/2025 22:57

Ask the current Prime Minister, those are his words

Brexit, Tories?

MiloMinderbinder925 · 10/08/2025 22:58

Somerford · 10/08/2025 22:53

If something has done incalculable damage, it follows logically that the damage ought to be undone. You can't undo damage by slowing or decreasing the rate at which future occurs.

What are you suggesting is done? You're being very vague.

Somerford · 10/08/2025 22:57

TopPocketFind · 10/08/2025 22:56

What incalculable damage has been done and by whom?

Ask the current Prime Minister, those are his words

Somerford · 10/08/2025 22:57

MiloMinderbinder925 · 10/08/2025 22:46

I believe he was bending over backwards to appeal to Reform voters. He's since apologised for his 'island of strangers' comment but he has history.

Ok. Well either he was telling the truth and correctly identifying the problem, or he was lying but he'd correctly read the mood, feeling and sentiment of the nation and understood that we live in a democracy and that the will of the majority will decide the next government. Either is fine with me.

TopPocketFind · 10/08/2025 22:56

Somerford · 10/08/2025 22:53

If something has done incalculable damage, it follows logically that the damage ought to be undone. You can't undo damage by slowing or decreasing the rate at which future occurs.

What incalculable damage has been done and by whom?

Somerford · 10/08/2025 22:53

TopPocketFind · 10/08/2025 22:47

Not that he is going to remigrate people

Net migration is already down.

If something has done incalculable damage, it follows logically that the damage ought to be undone. You can't undo damage by slowing or decreasing the rate at which future occurs.

TopPocketFind · 10/08/2025 22:47

Somerford · 10/08/2025 22:42

What do you think he meant when he said that our open borders experiment had caused incalculable damage? And when he said we'd become an island of strangers? What do you think he meant?

Not that he is going to remigrate people

Net migration is already down.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 10/08/2025 22:46

Somerford · 10/08/2025 22:42

What do you think he meant when he said that our open borders experiment had caused incalculable damage? And when he said we'd become an island of strangers? What do you think he meant?

I believe he was bending over backwards to appeal to Reform voters. He's since apologised for his 'island of strangers' comment but he has history.

BurntBroccoli · 10/08/2025 22:44

JamesMacGill · 10/08/2025 09:47

Here is a selection from this month, from a very small group of people (90,000 allegedly).

A man living in an asylum hotel has appeared in court accused of a sexual assault on a woman.
Tadi Alemeyeha, 22, pleaded not guilty to the offence, allegedly committed earlier this month, during the brief hearing at Manchester Magistrates’ Court on Thursday.

Two more migrants living in taxpayer-funded hotels in England have been accused of separate attacks on women, The Mail on Sunday can reveal.
A 26-year-old asylum seeker, staying at the Thistle City Barbican in central London was arrested on suspicion of strangling a 20-year-old woman, then threatening her in the street just a day later.
Shockingly, despite the alleged assault taking place in March, he is still free to roam the streets after he was arrested and released under an investigation which is still ongoing. Police admitted the probe had 'taken longer than we would ideally have wanted'.

An asylum seeker strangled and punched his girlfriend in their taxpayer-funded four-star hotel room, a court heard.
Mamadou Alion Diallo, 27, who is from Mali attacked fellow asylum seeker Zenabou Quedraogo at the Heston Hyde Hotel in Hounslow, London.

A Pakistani asylum seeker has appeared in court after being accused of repeatedly raping an eight-year-old girl.
It is alleged that Kamran Khan, 43, raped the child twice between September 2024 and July 2025 before forcing her to watch a third person engage in sexual activity.

A Syrian asylum seeker appeared in court accused with the rape of a young woman in a public toilet on Bournemouth seafront on Wednesday.
Mohammed Abdullah, 18, allegedly attacked the 20-year-old woman in the toilet in Undercliff Drive, Bournemouth, at about 2am on July 6

A small boat migrant has appeared in court accused of sexually assaulting a 14-year-old schoolgirl and inciting her to engage in sex.
Hadush Gerberslasie Kebatu, 38, is alleged to have put his hand on the school-girl’s leg, asked her for a kiss and suggested they make ‘Jamaican babies’ in Epping over two days last week, Chelmsford Magistrates’ Court was told.

A channel migrant has been handed a 14-month prison sentence after he sexually assaulted an 'extremely vulnerable' teenage girl who has learning difficulties in a park in broad daylight.
Aron Hadsh, 27, from Eritrea, who was living at a taxpayer-funded Holiday Inn near Heathrow, attacked the 19-year-old in June last year after she had been sent by her mother to pick up fruit from a food bank.

Osamah Al-Haddad was caught with three 'grotesque' videos when he arrived at Heathrow airport from Cairo, Egypt, in January 2024. Immigration officers uncovered the material, including 'depraved' footage of a man having sex with a goat, when they searched his mobile during asylum screening. (he’s still walking our streets btw and not being deported)

An asylum seeker accused of three sexual assaults in two days - which sparked ugly anti-migrant protests outside a hotel - had only arrived in the UK by small boat eight days earlier, MailOnline has learned.
Hadush Gerberslasie Kebatu, 38, appeared at Colchester Magistrates' Court last week where he was formally accused of inappropriate sexual behaviour towards schoolgirls in the pretty Essex town on Monday and Tuesday last week

This is all news from the last 5/6 weeks alone. From a population of men that total 90,000.

Let me guess - you ‘don’t know what I’m talking about’ and ‘I have no argument’. I don’t care.

A lot of ‘allegedly’ and ‘accused’ in that! These are not convictions.

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