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To think it's okay to shoot horses?

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Angels1111 · 08/08/2025 07:58

I've always been vegetarian but I'm not sanctimonious about it. The way I see it, as my family was vegetarian it wasn't a conscious choice I made. Who knows what I'd be doing if I had been born into a family eating meat and two veg every day. I also have huge space to improve my environmental footprint...the clothes I wear have probably been stitched by kids working long hours, I don't always remember to take a bag with me to the shops, quite a lot of my diet is imported...etc..
My point is, unless we're living off the land and making our own clothes we're all affecting the environment and we can all improve where we can reduce our impact on it.

All that to say....I was watching a show with some friends about how race horses, once past their point of use, are often shot. This was accompanied by protests of "that's so sad, so cruel" etc.

I wondered how it's any different to raising a pig for food and killing it once it's fat enough. Or a chicken for eggs and killing it once it doesn't lay eggs. To me, the horse may even have had a better life than animals raised for meat, since there is an onus on the owner to make sure it's well fed and kept healthy.

Of course, ideally I'd like the horse to live out it's natural life in retirement. I'd like all animals to live out their natural lives. But I can see why that might not be feasible for the owner.

I really don't understand why some animals are okay to eat, but others aren't. Why is okay to eat pig but not dog? Why chicken but not parrot? Why cow but not horse?

Please could you educate me?

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Theunamedcat · 29/01/2026 20:35

GaspingGekko · 08/08/2025 09:51

Mine has brought home a couple of live snakes. Was proud of himself but it definitely wasn't the work I was hoping for from him.
In fact virtually everything he caught was brought in alive and left for us to deal with.

Mine carries small teddy bears in his mouth and recently a stress ball was carried upstairs when my son was having a stressful night unable to sleep it was amusing and definitely worth a tin of whiskers

Minecroft · 09/08/2025 22:05

DysgraphiaQueen · 08/08/2025 10:15

"we're choosing to eat flesh but hemming animals into tiny spaces and feeding them rubbish to grow as quickly as possible so that we can eat them, and there is nothing "natural" about that."
See this here is why no one will take you seriously you are lumping every producer of animal products into one homogeneous group, this is completely and utterly untrue and hyperbole. Not every producer has animals in tiny spaces and feeds them rubbish, your just spewing rubbish. There are literally thousands of producers who farm naturally.

"If we take a step back from our history with animals, it seems somewhat arbitrary to think one is far too cute to eat whilst another one is fair game. To me you either eat them all or you don't."
So why are you not eating insects, poisoned fish and crop kill? Billions of species are destroyed to make way for farming your plant products, birds/mammals/insects ect are chopped up, crushed, poisoned, starved and sprayed to get you your plant products. Other countries eat these things so why don't you?

In fact when farming plants there a billions of species decimated for you to consume your diet, if they collect all these up are they not cute enough for you to eat?

Soy? If so , you’re wrong

wwf.panda.org/discover/our_focus/food_practice/sustainable_production/soy/

Inchworms · 09/08/2025 22:03

Serencwtch · 09/08/2025 21:56

They need to spend time feral as a kitten to learn from the mum. Even well domesticated cats will catch a mouse but only the ones raised feral will be ratters.

We have 2 working cats. 1 completely feral - can't touch her , the other is more confident around people - you can touch her but not luck her up. Both great workers. Feed barns are mouse free & both have been known to catch rats too.

They still sleep more than half the time though - that's just cats for you.

I think a house cat who wants to will catch a rat. I’ve had ones do it. But only a ratter raised to do it will eat them.

Serencwtch · 09/08/2025 21:56

GaspingGekko · 08/08/2025 09:27

Cats? If you've managed to get a cat working could you let me know how cos my cats are lazy buggers who expect high levels of service from the humans they keep.

They need to spend time feral as a kitten to learn from the mum. Even well domesticated cats will catch a mouse but only the ones raised feral will be ratters.

We have 2 working cats. 1 completely feral - can't touch her , the other is more confident around people - you can touch her but not luck her up. Both great workers. Feed barns are mouse free & both have been known to catch rats too.

They still sleep more than half the time though - that's just cats for you.

TheeNotoriousPIG · 09/08/2025 21:18

I have worked on a farm where one half of the owning couple rehabilitated race horses. Upon arrival, they were very highly-strung and neurotic. None were ever shot, but they were quite hard work (because of their previous lifestyle) and unsuitable for pet pony homes. Thus, while I personally disagree with horse racing, any 'unsafe' animal would be shot for health and safety reasons.

I still work in farming. Our cows do not eat 'rubbish'. When they are calves, they have milk, straw and specially-formulated calf nuts which are designed to meet their nutritional need. When they're a bit older, they swap the milk for water and straw for silage (fermented grass). This is usually in the winter months, when the ground is too wet and muddy for them to be out (seriously, they shelter by the hedges and bawl to come in as they do not like wet, windy weather), and also because the ground becomes 'poached'. Silage is also given in periods of low rainfall, when the grass doesn't grow very well. We keep them outside on grass as much as possible. We keep mainly dairy cows, which are kept for as long as possible, and in any case, their meat would go for cheaper cuts (e.g. pet meat, mince, burgers, etc). The more expensive beef cuts are from beef cattle (e.g. Belgian Blues or Limousins), which have muscling and fat marbling that is better suited for the meat industry.

If farmers stopped farming and released their livestock, then they would become wild (and potentially dangerous) vermin. Cows are quite large animals and non-farming folk often find them terrifying.

Some countries eat horse meat. It used to be common in the UK, but probably fell out of fashion at some point, like rabbit meat. Rabbits were possibly considered to be 'cute and fluffy' and non-working horses are very expensive pets (or field ornaments...). Cows, sheep, chickens, etc. are not generally seen as being cute, fluffy or as good pets, and milk, wool, meat and eggs are good by-products.

Personally, I'd rather stick to a more natural diet of eating meat, fish, pulses, fruits and vegetables than UPFs. Also, milk is one of the most perfect things to consume, as it contains small amounts of all minerals and vitamins apart from iron and vitamin B. If I could have a viable smallholding, I would, but at the moment, it's not economically viable.

stuckdownahole · 09/08/2025 19:31

There is a secondary market for ex racehorses but they need to be retrained first to be safe for the average hobby rider. The racing industry has lots of flaws but professional retraining centres are now properly funded as a % of race prize money is reserved for this purpose. There is also a register of non-racing agreements so that a horse given away or sold for a few hundred as unsound or unsuitable for racing can't make a reappearance without the consent of the previous owner.

Horses that severely fracture a limb can't be kept in traction so it's kinder to euthanise them a.s.a.p. There are some countries where the permission of the owner needs to be given but luckily UK allows on-course specialist veterinarians to act immediately in the animal's best interests.

Ashley911 · 09/08/2025 19:13

I am going dairy free this week and will be buying almond milk. I care less about the environment than animal suffering in the dairy industry

FalseSpring · 09/08/2025 13:44

@Brbreeze I did state that I only eat grazing animals - I do avoid factory farmed ones which is where the soy crop goes. I actively avoid imported foodstuffs when feeding my own animals or myself.

Ashley911 · 08/08/2025 21:49

I don't think you have to reason it out. Ask yourself if it is wrong or not that's it

Brbreeze · 08/08/2025 21:42

FalseSpring · 08/08/2025 20:21

I would be happy to eat the meat of any grazing animal, so horse, cow, deer etc. but I don't like eating pigs, cats or dogs because they eat meat and somehow that feels wrong.

I do think there is a huge misunderstanding about the sustainability of meat that needs to be addressed. I know several vegans who eat ultra-processed food from the supermarket but claim their veganism is a more sustainable alternative - it's not! Think of all the rain forests that have been replaced with cultivated land to feed the masses. The most sustainable meat in the UK is wild venison, probably followed by lamb from the Wales - nothing but grass can grow up on the mountains, but the sheep and deer convert grass to meat.

75-80% of the global soy crop is used for livestock feed. So let’s be realistic about vegans destroying the planet.

We can all try to make sustainable choices, but raising livestock by its very nature is going to require more land use than growing and eating crops directly.

Brbreeze · 08/08/2025 21:37

I’ve both owned horses and been vegetarian for decades, and been vegan for the last few years. And I don’t disagree with your logic at all.
But people are very defensive about their choice to eat meat and rationalise it in strange ways.
The argument I have seen trotted out here about plant based diets destroying habits is bizarre, when the vast majority of the worlds soy production for example is used to feed livestock.

HarryVanderspeigle · 08/08/2025 21:27

People will say dogs and cats are pets, but really it all boils down to being inefficient to eat carnivores. Grazing animals consume grass etc, which we can't eat, and convert it to meat, which we can. We can use marginal land that won't grow food crops and still gain food from it.

It makes no sense to eat animals that need a meat diet. Their prey would often be edible to us, or we would need to source meat for them, making it inefficient. Instead we used cats to get rid of vermin eating the winter cereal stores and dogs for hunting and protection. Over the years that morphed into keeping them as pets.

Ashley911 · 08/08/2025 20:57

You can tell how intelligent the different animals are and judge whether they are ok for food

CeilingStarsSparkes · 08/08/2025 20:40

Evidential the last butcher officially selling horse meat in UK was in 1955
For context food rationing occurred in UK from 1940 to 1954 & there are pealive now who lived through these times.

I have also travelled abroad & seen horse meat butchers & horse on the menu

I live near a zoo & horse meat is fed to the carnivours

Personally, I would not eat horse, but war can change things

DaisyChain505 · 08/08/2025 20:26

We shouldn’t get to pick and choose which animals we deem acceptable to treat badly/keep in poor conditions/torture/kill.

They are all equal and worthy.

FalseSpring · 08/08/2025 20:21

I would be happy to eat the meat of any grazing animal, so horse, cow, deer etc. but I don't like eating pigs, cats or dogs because they eat meat and somehow that feels wrong.

I do think there is a huge misunderstanding about the sustainability of meat that needs to be addressed. I know several vegans who eat ultra-processed food from the supermarket but claim their veganism is a more sustainable alternative - it's not! Think of all the rain forests that have been replaced with cultivated land to feed the masses. The most sustainable meat in the UK is wild venison, probably followed by lamb from the Wales - nothing but grass can grow up on the mountains, but the sheep and deer convert grass to meat.

Bumblebee72 · 08/08/2025 18:40

The UK is one of the larger exporters of horse meat to the EU so it must be coming from somewhere.

TheNoonBell · 08/08/2025 18:28

I wish we had that option. I'd far prefer to be shot when the time came. No waiting around in hospital in pain to breathe your last breath. None of that assisted suicide slow chemical stuff. Just bang, dead.

twistyizzy · 08/08/2025 18:17

caringcarer · 08/08/2025 17:01

I'm probably naive but I thought race hours went to stud after retirement.

You are naive! Geldings can hardly go to stud!

WasThatACorner · 08/08/2025 17:56

DysgraphiaQueen · 08/08/2025 10:39

@Angels1111 So you just said "the most ethical way to live is to be growing your own."

Such a nice fairy tail and must to be nice to not have a clue, how do you suggest everyone grow their own vegetables? Most people within the UK don't have a garden, millions have no home and I'm guessing you know zero about the topography of the UK. How do you suggest we grow vegetables on the Scottish Highlands or Pennies or the Peak District for example. There is a reason these places keep sheep ect.

Many parts of the uk are not suitable, geologically, meteorologically or geographically wise to grow crops.

"It still makes it arbitrary that it's okay to eat some animals but not others."
So you think selective farming is not a viable option, if we eat one species that is abundant, why are we not eating an endangered species and think this is wrong.

Cannot you see the difference between some one thinking eating shark fin soup as against eating a bacon sandwich is comparing apples to oranges and very absurd to say? One is endangered the other is not, your broad spectrum approach is bordering on insanity.

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I answer to your first point about people with no access to gardens etc to grow veggies i would suggest that community allotments would be beneficial from an ethical production perspective, improve community physical health, mental health, community cohesion, decreases use of foodbanks, poverty related vitamin deficiency, loneliness and isolation If the food industry was driven by need and quality over profit this could even extend into community livestock farming for meat.

And a question for your second point, would you be fine with shark fin soup if the sharks were aggressively farmed in the ways that sheep are?

maxelly · 08/08/2025 17:44

caringcarer · 08/08/2025 17:01

I'm probably naive but I thought race hours went to stud after retirement.

Some do but only the top performers, maybe less than 1% of males and maybe top 20% of females, you don't want to be breeding from inferior stock so the surplus has to go somewhere for want of a better word. There is no need to have a lot of breeding stallions, each one can easily have 100+ foals in a year, mares obviously limited to one baby per year so more need there but even so it's not a given a mare will make the grade if she doesn't have the pedigree and/or race record to justify her having race babies (some race-bred mares are also used to breed sports horses and/or as 'recips' or surrogates for sports horses mares which is another option as a job for those that don't make the grade for a race baby).

Majority of male racehorses are geldings so stud never going to be an option for them, but lots of possibilities after racing, they make great eventers, showing in the special retired racehorse classes, leisure horses for amateur dressage/SJ, hacks, pets...

Panama2 · 08/08/2025 17:39

MrsMoastyToasty · 08/08/2025 10:11

What I don't agree with is animals caught purely for sport. If you are going to catch a fish with a hook you should be eating it, not just having your photo taken with it before releasing it. Likewise if you hunt a fox you should eat it.

I am not a fan of fishing but have to say not everyone who fishes has their photo taken that tends to be carp fishing and at least this way the fish continues to live.

cant comment on fox hunting ting no idea what fox would taste like.

JohnTheRevelator · 08/08/2025 17:02

GaspingGekko · 08/08/2025 09:27

Cats? If you've managed to get a cat working could you let me know how cos my cats are lazy buggers who expect high levels of service from the humans they keep.

😂😂😂 Reminded me of the Hale and Pace sketch years ago about guide cats. He ended up on the shed roof and then finally the cat attempting to drag him through the cat flap.

caringcarer · 08/08/2025 17:01

I'm probably naive but I thought race hours went to stud after retirement.

JohnTheRevelator · 08/08/2025 16:59

I think it's probably because humans have a relationship going back thousands of years with dogs and horses. They have worked alongside man for so long that the idea of eating them is an anathema.