Left the house at 5.30am to go to work. Back at 9.30pm. Husband is on long leave and at home with our young kids. He was on a lads weekend this weekend. Come home this evening to both kids still awake. One of them in backwards inside out PJs. And the kitchen is disgusting. We are talking milk out all day. Pasta stuck at bottom of pans, noodle packets everywhere, nuggets on the floor. Piss all pver the floor. Husband is sleeping and im tidying.
He doesnt usually act like this and lads weekends are rare. But I do have to organise stuff for them and book things. But he does usually tidy up.
He says "help me out love. Ive had the kids all day and im struggling" and has gone to sleep.
Do I have no standards?