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AIBU to think the judge’s comments in this case are completely inappropriate?

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Lizzie67384 · 05/08/2025 21:52

A male judge stated he thought the rapist was not a ‘dangerous man’ and that the 13 year old victim had ‘not suffered much degree of psychological harm’

Top Tory blasts 'soft' sentence for man who raped 13-year-old girl

The judge who sentenced Sorosh Amini, 21, said he did not consider the rapist to be a 'dangerous person.'

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14973083/Iranian-man-raped-girl-13-alleyway-jailed-just-SEVEN-years-judge-didnt-think-dangerous-person.html

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VaseofViolets · 06/08/2025 00:15

You stated that you were pro-immigration. I replied that I’m not, for reasons such as this. Specifically, I think it’s clear that a not-insignificant number of immigrant men have cultural values and norms which differ from those in the UK. You extrapolated wildly from what I said and insinuated that I must therefore think all immigrants are rapists. Which no one does.

JamesMacGill · 06/08/2025 00:04

MrsSkylerWhite · 05/08/2025 23:54

I would like to understand what this comment meant, though @VaseofViolets , if it wasn’t suggesting that immigrant - rapist?

Really, please explain.

It’s obvious that poster meant she isn’t in favour of immigration due to the excess risk posed to women when we already have enough home grown sex offenders? She may have meant certain types of immigration, or immigration full stop, she or he can hopefully clarify.

Comtesse · 06/08/2025 00:02

JHound · 05/08/2025 22:38

Check that judge’s hard drive.

Immediately.

What a reprehensible comment. Try reading @JaniceBattersby explanation - some facts would not go amiss…

VaseofViolets · 05/08/2025 23:57

WorriedRelative · 05/08/2025 23:49

It isn't a defence, it is potentially a mitigation, different things.

I should have said I don’t think it’s an excuse, a defense or any kind of mitigating circumstance then. I’d be interested in hearing an explanation why his potentially being discriminated against would be considered mitigating circumstances in the rape of a child.

MrsSkylerWhite · 05/08/2025 23:54

I would like to understand what this comment meant, though @VaseofViolets , if it wasn’t suggesting that immigrant - rapist?

Really, please explain.

Juststop2025 · 05/08/2025 23:52

SaladAndChipsForTea · 05/08/2025 23:32

Why is the result of trauma-level relevant to sentencing?

Rape is rape. The act is illegal.

Whether it's a (perpetrator) husband, father, brother or stranger.... (means) date rape, threat, weapon... (mindset of perpetrator) drunk, angry, tired... (victim) age, sex, species etc

When will the crime alone be cinsidered abhorrent "enough"?

Why dies the victim have any any relevance? Rape is rape. He is a rapist.

Should always be a maximum sentence.

Agree. Judges finding ways to be lenient is extremely suspicious. Only rapists and rape apologists do this, and only rapists and rape apologists defend this. Check his hard drive.

WorriedRelative · 05/08/2025 23:49

VaseofViolets · 05/08/2025 22:39

‘Discriminated against’ - in what world would that possibly be considered as a defence or excuse for such abhorrent behaviour?

It isn't a defence, it is potentially a mitigation, different things.

MrsSkylerWhite · 05/08/2025 23:49

VaseofViolets · 05/08/2025 23:44

It’s not basically what I was suggesting at all.

In which case, I wholeheartedly apologise.

JamesMacGill · 05/08/2025 23:47

MrsSkylerWhite · 05/08/2025 23:41

Well that is basically what that poster was suggesting.

I won’t engage with you further because I have read your comments on other threads and don’t believe that you are posting in good faith.

Goodnight.

So opinions can only be in good faith and sincerely held if you agree with them and don’t find them too uncomfortable? Funny how posters always say that and duck out when confronted with irrefutable logic.

VaseofViolets · 05/08/2025 23:44

MrsSkylerWhite · 05/08/2025 23:41

Well that is basically what that poster was suggesting.

I won’t engage with you further because I have read your comments on other threads and don’t believe that you are posting in good faith.

Goodnight.

It’s not basically what I was suggesting at all.

VaseofViolets · 05/08/2025 23:42

Kibble19 · 05/08/2025 23:36

I hear you. Find space for these horrors to exist and keep the public safe.

It shouldn’t be necessary. They shouldn’t be here in the first place.

Kibble19 · 05/08/2025 23:41

JamesMacGill · 05/08/2025 23:38

Nobody has said that every immigrant is a rapist, in the same way people with concerns about transwomen aren’t saying every transwoman is a rapist. I refuse to believe you can’t extend the same logic to this.

Agree with you. MN is very active in the feminism section and many, many posters do not think TWTW. Most also accept that not every transgender person is a danger, but that some may be. News articles of men purporting to be women to access female spaces and commit a crime are often linked on relevant threads.

Yet, if you apply the same logic to immigration, you’re a nazi, racist, far right etc. I don’t know why one is so widely accepted and the other is vilified.

MrsSkylerWhite · 05/08/2025 23:41

JamesMacGill · 05/08/2025 23:38

Nobody has said that every immigrant is a rapist, in the same way people with concerns about transwomen aren’t saying every transwoman is a rapist. I refuse to believe you can’t extend the same logic to this.

Well that is basically what that poster was suggesting.

I won’t engage with you further because I have read your comments on other threads and don’t believe that you are posting in good faith.

Goodnight.

SummerEve · 05/08/2025 23:40

JHound · 05/08/2025 23:36

We need to be building more prisons.

Alternatively we could use all that time, effort and money preventing crime instead.

SaladAndChipsForTea · 05/08/2025 23:39

And for rape especially, the victim impact is just another way if taking away a victim's power.

If you want your perpetrator to do a proper sentence you have to either be traumatised or put on a show of being traumatised enough, even if it takes away your chance to claim back your power.

You can't stand up and say "fuck you, you took a small portion of my life and I refuse to give you the power of telling you it impacted me because youve already taken control once"

Instead, rape victims who want justice have to make a choice about exposing their vulnerability again.

I'm so over it.

JamesMacGill · 05/08/2025 23:39

Ponoka7 · 05/08/2025 23:36

Part of the problem with cases involving immigrant men is that they come from countries were rape isn't prosecuted. They also often murder, or cut out of the tongue of rape victims, so they can'tbe identified. There'sakso beencases were they'veblinded their victim. Children certainly aren't off limits.. So no-one can judge how dangerous these men are.

Quite and you can’t just check their criminal record as there won’t be one. Misogynistic regimes aren’t in the habit of prosecuting rape or sexual assault then keeping diligent records on criminal convictions.

JamesMacGill · 05/08/2025 23:38

MrsSkylerWhite · 05/08/2025 23:35

I agree with you. It is far too lenient. But you surely can’t believe that every immigrant is a rapist?
That would suggest that every white, British doctor called Harold and every white, British, special care unit nurse called Lucy is a murderer.

Of course they’re not.

Nobody has said that every immigrant is a rapist, in the same way people with concerns about transwomen aren’t saying every transwoman is a rapist. I refuse to believe you can’t extend the same logic to this.

SummerEve · 05/08/2025 23:37

JHound · 05/08/2025 22:38

Check that judge’s hard drive.

Immediately.

Don’t be stupid. It adds nothing to the debate.

Kibble19 · 05/08/2025 23:36

JHound · 05/08/2025 23:36

We need to be building more prisons.

I hear you. Find space for these horrors to exist and keep the public safe.

Ponoka7 · 05/08/2025 23:36

Extraordinarytimes · 05/08/2025 22:22

Dangerous is a legal term. It is a finding usually reserved for those with serious prior convictions as this is a good way of judging whether they will ck time to be a significant risk to the public on release. It does not impact the sentencing, just the licencing period after prison release.

And the severe psychological harm? Again, this will be based on evidence provided by the victim. A child is unlikely to be able to provide this as it’s usually proven by years of trauma.

No idea what the full summing up is, but these two comments in no way diminish the victim.

Part of the problem with cases involving immigrant men is that they come from countries were rape isn't prosecuted. They also often murder, or cut out of the tongue of rape victims, so they can'tbe identified. There'sakso beencases were they'veblinded their victim. Children certainly aren't off limits.. So no-one can judge how dangerous these men are.

JHound · 05/08/2025 23:36

Kibble19 · 05/08/2025 23:31

This is frustrating to read.

The sentence was handed down because even a judge can’t pluck a figure from the sky and imprison someone for that time. Look at the categories on the guidelines. The judge is limited in what they can do and I don’t doubt for a second that they must wish they could put these beasts away for longer. None of us know the intricacies of the case so we can’t possibly say how it ended up in which sentencing category.

The argument needs to be with the law, not the person working within the confines of it.

Absolutely the punishments need to be harsher. But they won’t be, because we can’t fit the criminals in as it is. There’s no room for longer stays.

We need to be building more prisons.

MrsSkylerWhite · 05/08/2025 23:35

VaseofViolets · 05/08/2025 23:26

Unfair in your opinion. Not mine. The sentence is wrong, I agree, far too lenient.

I agree with you. It is far too lenient. But you surely can’t believe that every immigrant is a rapist?
That would suggest that every white, British doctor called Harold and every white, British, special care unit nurse called Lucy is a murderer.

Of course they’re not.

SummerEve · 05/08/2025 23:35

DartmoorWanderer · 05/08/2025 22:07

I’d be interested to know what’s actually happened, rather than the daily mail version.

Yes, there is some misunderstanding here. The Judge is referring to a specific type of risk assessment normally carried out by a Probation Officer in a pre-sentence report, in order to pass a specific type of sentence with an extended licence period.

Kibble19 · 05/08/2025 23:33

SaladAndChipsForTea · 05/08/2025 23:32

Why is the result of trauma-level relevant to sentencing?

Rape is rape. The act is illegal.

Whether it's a (perpetrator) husband, father, brother or stranger.... (means) date rape, threat, weapon... (mindset of perpetrator) drunk, angry, tired... (victim) age, sex, species etc

When will the crime alone be cinsidered abhorrent "enough"?

Why dies the victim have any any relevance? Rape is rape. He is a rapist.

Should always be a maximum sentence.

It’s like a victim is punished for not being traumatised enough.

JamesMacGill · 05/08/2025 23:33

MrsSkylerWhite · 05/08/2025 23:23

That’s unfair. He is a rapist and the sentence was wrong. The overwhelming majority of immigrants aren’t.

No, but I’m against exposing women to any more risk than is necessary, particularly when the men come from terrifyingly misogynistic countries which de facto makes them more likely to be misogynistic (otherwise who is supporting the show there?). Please don’t do the equivalent of NAMALT and miss my point entirely.