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AIBU to think the judge’s comments in this case are completely inappropriate?

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Lizzie67384 · 05/08/2025 21:52

A male judge stated he thought the rapist was not a ‘dangerous man’ and that the 13 year old victim had ‘not suffered much degree of psychological harm’

Top Tory blasts 'soft' sentence for man who raped 13-year-old girl

The judge who sentenced Sorosh Amini, 21, said he did not consider the rapist to be a 'dangerous person.'

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14973083/Iranian-man-raped-girl-13-alleyway-jailed-just-SEVEN-years-judge-didnt-think-dangerous-person.html

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Bambamhoohoo · 07/08/2025 09:55

MaturingCheeseball · 07/08/2025 09:08

I wondered why people aren’t immediately deported. Then it was pointed out that a returned criminal might not necessarily be imprisoned in their own country, or released very quickly.

Countries’ crimes differ. For example we see nothing wrong with having an alcoholic drink - but you’d be banged up if you imbibed in some places. Likewise the crime of the individual in the case under discussion might be seen as minor in his place of origin.

Interestingly (or appallingly) there was a case of a patient raping a woman in a London hospital whose defence was that it wasn’t unacceptable in his culture. So if he’d been deported he’d presumably be free as a bird.

But also you don’t hold jurisdiction over other countries justice systems so how (and why tbh) would you imprison a citizen for something a foreign government wants them punished for, at your country’s expense? It’s just not practical, as well as the other points you raise

(and yes I know there are agreements made where prisoners serve out their sentence in their home country but they are individual arrangements with certain countries and usually swaps)

VaseofViolets · 07/08/2025 09:48

CurlewKate · 07/08/2025 09:37

Hmm-might be something to do with..you know, that thing the UK prides itself on….oh yes, I remember-human rights.

Suicidal empathy, as I said. More concerned with the ‘human rights’ of foreign born criminals than British women and girls having the right to walk their neighbourhoods in safety. You think the UK prides itself on this? It’s not much to boast about.

Donttellempike · 07/08/2025 09:38

Lizzie67384 · 05/08/2025 21:52

A male judge stated he thought the rapist was not a ‘dangerous man’ and that the 13 year old victim had ‘not suffered much degree of psychological harm’

Dangerous in this case had a specific meaning in law. As the Faily bigot well knows

CurlewKate · 07/08/2025 09:37

VaseofViolets · 07/08/2025 09:22

Frankly, that’s their lookout. If I commit a crime in this country, and I’m deported home and face a worse sentence there, I’ve no one to blame but myself. No sympathy there. I don’t know why it’s any concern of the UK.

Hmm-might be something to do with..you know, that thing the UK prides itself on….oh yes, I remember-human rights.

pinkstripeycat · 07/08/2025 09:37

Lizzie67384 · 05/08/2025 22:13

How is it bigotry? Where did I mention the race of the man? I’d be saying exactly the same thing if it was a white man?

Ooops you’ve got bigotry and racism mixed up. Silly. Got to be careful

VaseofViolets · 07/08/2025 09:31

Theunamedcat · 07/08/2025 09:26

Free as a bird but fleeing from persecution war etc they honestly cant have it every way and we could have them serve a sentence here then throw them out however we tend not too do that either

Suicidal empathy.

Theunamedcat · 07/08/2025 09:26

MaturingCheeseball · 07/08/2025 09:08

I wondered why people aren’t immediately deported. Then it was pointed out that a returned criminal might not necessarily be imprisoned in their own country, or released very quickly.

Countries’ crimes differ. For example we see nothing wrong with having an alcoholic drink - but you’d be banged up if you imbibed in some places. Likewise the crime of the individual in the case under discussion might be seen as minor in his place of origin.

Interestingly (or appallingly) there was a case of a patient raping a woman in a London hospital whose defence was that it wasn’t unacceptable in his culture. So if he’d been deported he’d presumably be free as a bird.

Free as a bird but fleeing from persecution war etc they honestly cant have it every way and we could have them serve a sentence here then throw them out however we tend not too do that either

VaseofViolets · 07/08/2025 09:22

CurlewKate · 07/08/2025 09:13

There is also the reverse situation-where someone would receive what we would consider an unacceptable sentence if they were deported to their home country.

Frankly, that’s their lookout. If I commit a crime in this country, and I’m deported home and face a worse sentence there, I’ve no one to blame but myself. No sympathy there. I don’t know why it’s any concern of the UK.

CurlewKate · 07/08/2025 09:13

MaturingCheeseball · 07/08/2025 09:08

I wondered why people aren’t immediately deported. Then it was pointed out that a returned criminal might not necessarily be imprisoned in their own country, or released very quickly.

Countries’ crimes differ. For example we see nothing wrong with having an alcoholic drink - but you’d be banged up if you imbibed in some places. Likewise the crime of the individual in the case under discussion might be seen as minor in his place of origin.

Interestingly (or appallingly) there was a case of a patient raping a woman in a London hospital whose defence was that it wasn’t unacceptable in his culture. So if he’d been deported he’d presumably be free as a bird.

There is also the reverse situation-where someone would receive what we would consider an unacceptable sentence if they were deported to their home country.

CurlewKate · 07/08/2025 09:11

cobrakaieaglefang · 07/08/2025 06:59

Maybe an investigation into the judiciary members private life is needed. Only one reason for leniency and sympathy towards a scumbag like that.

Or you could have a go at understanding the legal system in the UK? Once you understand it, you can campaign to get it changed.

MaturingCheeseball · 07/08/2025 09:08

I wondered why people aren’t immediately deported. Then it was pointed out that a returned criminal might not necessarily be imprisoned in their own country, or released very quickly.

Countries’ crimes differ. For example we see nothing wrong with having an alcoholic drink - but you’d be banged up if you imbibed in some places. Likewise the crime of the individual in the case under discussion might be seen as minor in his place of origin.

Interestingly (or appallingly) there was a case of a patient raping a woman in a London hospital whose defence was that it wasn’t unacceptable in his culture. So if he’d been deported he’d presumably be free as a bird.

cobrakaieaglefang · 07/08/2025 06:59

Maybe an investigation into the judiciary members private life is needed. Only one reason for leniency and sympathy towards a scumbag like that.

CurlewKate · 07/08/2025 06:48

MrsSkylerWhite · 06/08/2025 23:30

Absolutely no idea. I’m fully in support of immigration, the UK needs it. Why convicted overseas criminals aren’t deported has always baffled me, though.

He is being deported-after he serves his sentence.

Bambamhoohoo · 07/08/2025 06:33

MrsSkylerWhite · 06/08/2025 23:30

Absolutely no idea. I’m fully in support of immigration, the UK needs it. Why convicted overseas criminals aren’t deported has always baffled me, though.

They are deported after they have served their sentence

You want him to serve his sentence don’t you?

Bambamhoohoo · 07/08/2025 06:31

Juststop2025 · 06/08/2025 23:22

Again, imagine being THAT person on a thread who is trying the ACKSHUALLY raping children is ok in certain circumstances but I won't quite say that out loud...

Imagine even thinking of the instances where you might barely squeak by raping a child in order to try to disrupt and minimise normal, correct responses to child rapists.

Oof. Wow.

Not one person has said anything like that.

Yuasa · 07/08/2025 04:21

Juststop2025 · 06/08/2025 23:20

Lol you reported me for even saying I see you. Hahahahahaha! Yeah, nothing to see here, move along 😅

I didn’t report you, pal.

But if you’re going to make comments like ‘I see you’ - which on a thread like this one implies something very serious - you need to be able to back them up.

You’ve said you don’t do ad hominem attacks, so I’ve either said something so obvious that everyone literally can see it or you’ve applied your laser sharp powers of deduction to my posts, in which case you can join the dots for everyone.

Heaven forbid you might just be throwing around nasty, poisonous half-baked accusations.

JamesMacGill · 06/08/2025 23:30

MrsSkylerWhite · 06/08/2025 23:30

Absolutely no idea. I’m fully in support of immigration, the UK needs it. Why convicted overseas criminals aren’t deported has always baffled me, though.

Our economy needs it, in a kind of Ponzi scheme way, our environment definitely does not!

MrsSkylerWhite · 06/08/2025 23:30

JamesMacGill · 06/08/2025 08:08

I think a lot of people would think differently about a lot of things if it were their daughter.

Why isn’t he being deported?

Absolutely no idea. I’m fully in support of immigration, the UK needs it. Why convicted overseas criminals aren’t deported has always baffled me, though.

Juststop2025 · 06/08/2025 23:22

Again, imagine being THAT person on a thread who is trying the ACKSHUALLY raping children is ok in certain circumstances but I won't quite say that out loud...

Imagine even thinking of the instances where you might barely squeak by raping a child in order to try to disrupt and minimise normal, correct responses to child rapists.

Oof. Wow.

Juststop2025 · 06/08/2025 23:20

Yuasa · 06/08/2025 11:43

Please explain your logic.

And say clearly what it is you see. It would be good to be clear on what I’m being accused of and on what basis.

Lol you reported me for even saying I see you. Hahahahahaha! Yeah, nothing to see here, move along 😅

WorriedRelative · 06/08/2025 19:41

GiantTeddyIsTired · 06/08/2025 15:13

I get nuance, but I really struggle to see any nuance in child rape TBH.

Actually, no, of course, 2 13 year-olds having illegal due to age, but otherwise consensual sex isn't anything like a grown man forcing himself on a 13 year old.

I guess I see no nuance when it comes to adults raping children is what I should say.

I can't see any comparison in anyway similar to bread vs. crown jewels, or terminal patient given lots of morphine vs. bludgeoned to death during a mugging.

Adults raping a child is always very wrong. No wiggle room there.

Really you see no nuance in rape cases involving children? You see no difference between these fictional cases?

  1. 18 Yr old man having sex with his 13yr old girlfriend, she tells the court she consented but she's under the age of consent
  1. 18 Yr old man who was drunk at a party, went to a bedroom with a 13yr old girl who he thought was older, she enthusiastically consented to some "heavy petting" but he "got carried away and went too far". He has shown great remorse, written a heartfelt letter of apology, undertaken therapy and volunteered to undertake unpaid work for a charity educating young people about consent. He has no previous history and excellent character references
  1. A 40 Yr old man corners the 13 Yr old friend of his son and rapes her. He says "she was gagging for it", she says she was crying and saying "please stop" other girls come forward and report flashing and groping.
  1. A 30 Yr old man in a balaclava grabs a 13yr old girl walking home through a park in the dark, holds her down and rapes her, threatening to cut her throat if she screams and come for her family if she reports it. There are 10 other reports of similar crimes by this offender taken into account.

You really think there is no difference?

Youdontseehow · 06/08/2025 19:17

CyanDreamer · 06/08/2025 12:54

questioning sources is the opposite of "being part of the problem"

The DM might be accurate for once, but if you blindly believe everything that is written, you are the reason why we're in the mess we are in today

"If it's on the internet it must be true" is beyond stupid.

Yeah. Believing on the internet is just daft. That’s why I read newspapers and reputable online sources.

Yuasa · 06/08/2025 19:16

Ablondiebutagoody · 06/08/2025 19:07

Yep. Shut it down. Same as people reporting posts for being "deeply offensive"

Go on and say whatever it is you think people are preventing you from saying about this crime.

However, if what you want to say is that a poster you disagree with is some sort of unspecified deviant (as a deleted post aimed at me implied earlier) of course you’ll be shut down - by MN.

Ablondiebutagoody · 06/08/2025 19:07

MaturingCheeseball · 06/08/2025 18:35

I still maintain that some posters’ defence of the Judge’s comments (we all understand sentencing guidelines, thanks) are less about a devout respect for the Law and more about trying to silence any discussion surrounding this criminal.

Yep. Shut it down. Same as people reporting posts for being "deeply offensive"

Yuasa · 06/08/2025 18:53

MaturingCheeseball · 06/08/2025 18:35

I still maintain that some posters’ defence of the Judge’s comments (we all understand sentencing guidelines, thanks) are less about a devout respect for the Law and more about trying to silence any discussion surrounding this criminal.

Can you explain why? It doesn’t seem fair to cast aspersions on people’s motivations for posting without something to back it up.

Surely it doesn’t need to be stated that this is a dreadful crime. I can’t imagine what discussion we’d have about the crime itself, but if you think there is a point that is being stifled, what is it?

Whereas, it does seem worthwhile to point out misunderstandings. And I completely disagree that everyone on here understands sentencing guidelines! Lack of understanding about the law is a staple on any crime and justice thread.

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