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To think that most rich people don’t actually care about those struggling?

107 replies

ZippyMintCat · 05/08/2025 11:22

I keep seeing wealthy people make grand statements about philanthropy, “giving back”, and wanting to help but when it comes down to it, most of them don’t actually seem to care. They live in their own bubble, completely disconnected from the struggles of ordinary people.

They might donate to charity for tax breaks, post about “awareness” on social media or make vague comments about how “hard work pays off” but they rarely do anything that actually makes a difference. Meanwhile, the cost of living keeps rising, people are struggling to afford basics, and the ultra-rich just keep hoarding wealth.

Of course there are exceptions but in general, AIBU to think that rich people don’t really give a shit? Or am I just being cynical?

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Digdongdoo · 05/08/2025 11:36

Define rich? Mega rich multimillionaires and billionaires, I agree. Regular rich, I disagree. It's possible to care without thinking all problems are your responsibility to solve.

the80sweregreat · 05/08/2025 11:35

Some care and some don’t. They are only human after all.

Titsywoo · 05/08/2025 11:33

Do you mean the super rich like Jeff Bezos or people who earn 150k a year and have very comfortable lifestyle?

I'm sure lots of rich people do care and I doubt most of them are evil monsters. Most people are most concerned with themselves and their families that is just human nature. Plenty give back where they can but they can't help everyone. Sure there are some selfish horrible rich people but what do you want them all to do? They should be made to pay their fair share of taxes I agree but that is a problem with the system.

EveryDayisFriday · 05/08/2025 11:32

As long as the poor people pay their rent and still turn up to their low paid jobs, I don't think they care much above that tbh.

Statsquestion1 · 05/08/2025 11:30

What do you consider rich?

FenderStrat · 05/08/2025 11:28

Sorry, but you just sound a bit bitter and jealous.

MsPug · 05/08/2025 11:25

Wow. Well I don't like the poor people who make sweeping generalisations but here we are