A friend has been married a long time
Her husband is getting older now and struggling to find work and then have big money worries. He's 10 year older and wants to retire. But can't as they can't afford it.
They have also both had health worries. Him at the moment. Her in the past. Because he isn't earning much she has had to work full-time and is angry about it.
She told me she is having an affair and wants to end the marriage. But only if affair partner will rescue her. His wife has found out and he ended it but then he started it again.
She has always been unfaithful and lined up the next one before ending the current relationship. This will destroy her husband.
I am finding this so hard. I ended my marriage and went through much pain. Never once did I consider another relationship until I was free and single.
She and I just seem to have different morals.
AIBU to distance myself from her?