To not have sex for 8 years because I have small breasts

I don't think men prefer large breasts, I find small breasts look great in a blouse.
Who knows, I'm not a man.

I feel like a mug for replying now!!

Kindly OP, this is so far from the truth. I have small boobs, used to be self conscious of them when I was a teen but I love them now. I’ve had loads of compliments from men. I remember expressing insecurity in front of a guy when I was much younger about my small boobs and his reply was ‘anything more than a handful is a waste’. Even now, my husband loves them but he’d absolutely always choose bum over boobs! I find it really sad that you’ve convinced yourself they’re this massive deal, they’re really not.

I thought it seemed familiar and weird

Modelling is a bit different tbf. Its about making the clothes hang right, for women consumers, who don't necessarily want the clothes sexualised to the max.

The truth is different men like different things - just as women do. I genuinely fancy a guy with a faint belly. That doesn't mean I'd pick him as an underwear model if I had to sell the damn stuff. But I do find it attractive IRL. It looks kind of ... manly, like he isn't all fussed about his waist but gets on with life.

I find a slim waisted, snake hips type of guy most off-putting.

I think you are not meeting the right type of men.
But also could do with therapy to help you feel happy and confident just how you are.
And realise most men if not all have what would be considered flaws body wise. But its all about confidence.
I have always had a big chest and quite frankly would love them to be small. They hurt my back and cause all sorts off problems . Not to mention clothing never fits right.
And as others have pointed out with children and age they dont stay as pert as smaller do.
Im sure another thread very similar to this was started not that long ago.

Very shallow way of looking at things

Only the crap ones who aren’t worth having.

My Dh has consistently wanted sex and made me feel attractive over a 12 year period, in that time my breast size has changed significantly through pregnancy/breastfeeding.

I find your outlook on things really sad. And slightly odd.

@islaw3048unfln do you like / are you happy with your breasts?
If you feel good about yourself that is attractive to a lot of people

There are lots of famous women without big boobs widely considered sexy; Keira Knightley, Megan Fox and Jessica Alba have all been crowned ‘worlds sexiest woman’ by FHM at one point and none have massive boobs, they’re all quite normal sized. The kind of women labelled as ‘wow’ or ‘hot’ in places like Page 3 or Nuts magazine are obviously not representative of all or even most men!

Yabu otherwise supermodels wouldn't be in such high demand

OK, so if you're not on the wind up OP, where are you getting your info from? Do you really think all blokes would prefer Katie Price over, I dunno, Keira Knightley or Amal Clooney? Why would you think men who are in relationships with small breasted women have settled and are secretly lusting after the well endowed?

Seriously ridiculous. Most women don’t have “big” boobs, they have average ones. Mine, in my younger day were small but I was well fancied and had lots of sex. My DH definitely likes a smaller boob, as do many other men, but I think most don’t care much.
Now I’m older and a few stone heavier my boobs are bigger, but I preferred them before, genuinely.

TBH Op if you don't feel "wanted" you don't need to have sex.

I don't think I would want to in those circumstances either.

People on here may disagree with what men want or like, and they may be right, or they may be wrong.

But ultimately that's not really the point. If you don't feel desired then no, you are not BU for not wanting to sleep with them.

But give a few men a chance to get close - if not sleep with you. You might find they venture that they do find you attractive just as you are.

And fwiw pregnancy and BF can go a long way towards an augmentation.