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Was this comment by the waiter a bit off?

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doriiii · 02/08/2025 08:20

This is something that happened a couple of weeks ago but not sure if I'm being overly sensitive.

Went to meet a few friends for some food in a nice pub. I arrived a bit later due to work hours. When I arrived I asked the waiter where they were sat and he walked me over. I asked if they accepted blue light cards, and he said 'only if you say pretty please'.

It really grossed me out, and I knew he wouldn't have said it to my male friends.

I didn't say anything but did kind of laugh when I said 'right ok'.

AIBU to think it's just a bit of a gross comment?

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ilovesooty · 02/08/2025 08:23

No, he probably wouldn't have said it to a man. Why didn't you say anything during the time you were in the pub?

Caught off guard, in a rush, was on my period and could feel myself leaking and desperate to get to a toilet. Was a very stressful afternoon. I definitely wish I'd have said something and spent about an hour after thinking of all the hilariously witty things I could've said in response.

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FunnyOrca · 02/08/2025 08:23

Ewwwww 🥴

ilovesooty · 02/08/2025 08:23

No, he probably wouldn't have said it to a man. Why didn't you say anything during the time you were in the pub?

BCBird · 02/08/2025 08:22

Dick head comment from him

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