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To agree with the new guidance in Scotland to ban cake at nursery?

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AmericanMummmy · 01/08/2025 11:22

The new guidelines from the Scottish government are effective today (1st August) - among other food restrictions, cake should not be brought into nursery to celebrate a child’s birthday (or any other reason). The goal is to fight childhood obesity and promote healthy eating.

I’m totally in favour of this and don’t understand the backlash! Everything I read on this topic is about parents and staff thinking it’s a huge overstep and sapping all the fun out of life, like kids need cake to be happy. If parents want to feed their child cake outside of nursery, that’s completely their choice, but why does it need to be at nursery too? I allow my 3 year old to have sweet treats on occasion (such as birthday parties or holidays/weekend activities), but it drives me nuts when he’s being offered cake at nursery (several times a month), and it’s always at pickup right before dinner time. They give him lollies on most days too from what he tells me, it’s just too much sugar!

Am I the only one who agrees with this guidance? Are there not other ways we can teach children to celebrate that don’t involve ultra processed sugary treats? No judgement to how people parent - and I love sugary treats myself- but I want to teach moderation and show that there are plenty of other ways to celebrate.

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AmericanMummmy · 01/08/2025 12:08

TerrierCollector · 01/08/2025 12:00

I'm all for healthy eating, but healthy eating is about balance, and having a small piece of cake to celebrate an event is surely a good way to teach that - we have cake when it's a special occasion, not every day.

Not to mention the issues around the government telling people what they can and cannot eat.

Totally agree with moderation. But I don’t view every child’s birthday as a special occasion for my son. They stop being so special when they happen so frequently.

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DiscoBob · 01/08/2025 12:08

It's very specific as well. So no cake, but cookies, flapjacks, sweets etc are fine?

Banning cake, literally banning it by law seems ridiculous. It almost doesn't sound real.

FunnyOrca · 01/08/2025 12:08

HerewardtheSleepy · 01/08/2025 11:57

You really cannot see that this is a step too far OP?

What business is it of the Scots government what a Scots parent feeds their child in a private nursery they pay for?

You might be very surprised be the rest of the guidance! 😬 The healthy eating guidance for Nurseries in Scotland is incredibly strict to the extent that when the children bake they should not even use honey or raisins for sweetness.

For me, the guidance makes sense that a lot of children have poor diets at home and should be offered the chance to explore healthy eating at Nursery. It stops making sense when it curtails learning experiences and hen they enter P1 they can eat yoghurt and chocolate filled pack lunches every day.

AmericanMummmy · 01/08/2025 12:05

HerewardtheSleepy · 01/08/2025 11:57

You really cannot see that this is a step too far OP?

What business is it of the Scots government what a Scots parent feeds their child in a private nursery they pay for?

If they were dictating what children can eat in their own home, I’d see that as an overstep. But nurseries are regulated and for good reason. I certainly don’t think other children’s parents (who I may not even know) should decide what my children eat!

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TerrierCollector · 01/08/2025 12:00

I'm all for healthy eating, but healthy eating is about balance, and having a small piece of cake to celebrate an event is surely a good way to teach that - we have cake when it's a special occasion, not every day.

Not to mention the issues around the government telling people what they can and cannot eat.

HerewardtheSleepy · 01/08/2025 11:57

You really cannot see that this is a step too far OP?

What business is it of the Scots government what a Scots parent feeds their child in a private nursery they pay for?

Redbushteaforme · 01/08/2025 11:54

I would be more concerned about the nursery offering lollies regularly. Really bad for teeth and unnecessary.

Sharing birthday cake is traditional and social. I can't see the problem with nursery children having a few small slices a month. On the other hand, Scotland like other places has real child dental and obesity problems so perhaps birthday cake is best reserved for home and birthday parties and nurseries can celebrate birthdays in other ways. This also solves potential problems with cakes being brought in from home and possible allergy and dietary requirement issues.

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