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Air Bnb has ruined my life

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itsafan · 31/07/2025 16:57

There is literally no way out of this situation 😢 other than for us to give up our jobs and relocate in the hope that we can find new jobs and a place to live. There are literally no other rentals available in the area even if we could afford the rents. A mortgage is out of the question as we would need at least a hundred grand deposit.
There are at least 1000 properties listed on Airbnb within a 5 mile radius, many of them would be ideal but the rents on them are extortionate and aimed at tourists we are talking at least a grand a week.
We have lived here for years in a residential complex (well before Airbnb and booking even got popular) we have jobs here and friends here and a life here. It is on the whole fine for 9 months of the year mainly local people living around us who all respect that we are living and just trying to survive.
Then the Airbnb people turn up and every week it’s new people above us below us next to us. The noise is horrendous and probably the worst problem. Being woken at all hours with people rolling suitcases along floors, lifts going up and down, shouting in the corridors and doors banging. It just goes on and on like this for months.
My anxiety with it all is now so bad that I’m having to take medication. The noise just feels constant.
Do people even realise when they are booking Airbnb that these are people’s homes that they are disrupting? Why don’t people go to hotels anymore ?
So yeah there is a huge housing crisis due to the airbnb situation and I’m just a small person in a situation that I can’t change other than to leave somewhere I call home. I suppose my AIBU is am I being unreasonable to feel like a company has ruined my life ?

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usedtobeaylis · 31/07/2025 19:42

That sounds intolerable OP. I'm sorry it's disrupting your life so much. Renters really do get a rough time.

ExpressCheckout · 31/07/2025 19:42

I am so sorry this is happening to you, I've obviously heard about the problems in Spain caused by Airbnb. It's similar same here in the UK.

I have friends in a similar situation here in the UK. They've left their hometown (nice town in a National Park) because they can no longer afford to live there and there are simply no smaller flats or apartments available that are not Airbnb.

It's upsetting that people can no longer hope to live near family, friends and work. Sadly I don't think the current UK government care about anyone who lives outside London or bigger cities, so it won't change soon.

I just wish people would stop using Airbnb, but I guess the kind of people who do use it are the kinds of people who simply don't care about other people, local communities, and the immense amount of damage they cause.

Jungfraujoch · 31/07/2025 19:35

abracadabra1980 · 31/07/2025 19:29

I’m always perplexed why certain small things need planning permission, but a person can rent their home out as an Air B&B without any restrictions needed. Same with dog boarding. I’m a big dog lover but with the hot weather and home working the incessant barking from one ‘new dog in the block’ is making me want to scream.

There are plenty of restrictions/regulations involved in running a holiday let (Airbnb is just an advertising platform like all the other holiday/cottage companies). There is a move towards licencing as they have in Scotland, France etc. This is very welcome as will weed out those people who are just cashing in with no care for the health and safety of their guests let alone giving them a great holiday experience.

DrSeuss · 31/07/2025 19:34

I am so sorry you find yourself in this situation. It sounds horrendous and I hope you find a way out.
This thread has solidified for me the fact that I should not make the small property that I recently inherited into an Air BNB. I had been considering a but will now put it up for long term rental.

Ponderingwindow · 31/07/2025 19:33

I’m honestly shocked Spain has not clamped down on this. It would be the simplest way to deal with over tourism. It used to be tourism levels could be controlled by the number of hotel rooms. Now it is a free for all.

abracadabra1980 · 31/07/2025 19:29

I’m always perplexed why certain small things need planning permission, but a person can rent their home out as an Air B&B without any restrictions needed. Same with dog boarding. I’m a big dog lover but with the hot weather and home working the incessant barking from one ‘new dog in the block’ is making me want to scream.

anyzee · 31/07/2025 19:25

I use companies like this for my trips to France and elsewhere. It mirrors the original ethos of Abnb which is no longer true to its roots. Anyway it can be a bit hit and miss with the odd eccentric owner thrown in for good measure and a good laugh, but never felt any danger as I'd always book a room with a couple or a female living there. So far so good and so very affordable when I'm travelling on my own as the cost of hotels with a single supplement is outrageous.

https://www.homestay.com/france/arles/57300-homestay-in-la-roquette-arles

Jungfraujoch · 31/07/2025 19:23

Pluvia · 31/07/2025 18:21

I feel your pain, OP. I don't have it so bad, but since our neighbour's elderly mother died she's marketed the annexe the mother lived in as AirBnB and was complaining to me the other day that she can't keep up with all the bookings, cleaning, linen etc. She has had guests most weeks since the start of the year and has been almost fully booked since mid-June. It's a small double bedroom with a small shower room off it and a small seating area with two armchairs, a short run of basic kitchen units. Two burners, an air fryer, a kettle, a toaster.

Because we live in a desirable area near beaches she is able to charge £120 a night, more at weekends, so she's getting £3k+ a month on top of her other earnings and on top of having inherited from her mum. Fortunately she's there much of the time and so the guests are relatively quiet, though they all want to barbecue and use the fire pit, so we have to have our windows shut much of the time. My neighbour is sick of all the smoke too, though, and says she'll remove the BBQ and fire pit at the end of the summer season.

It always seems to be the wealthy people who are raking it in from making others' lives a misery.

I hope the annexe is all up to date with fire regulations/insurance etc.

Tatty247 · 31/07/2025 19:21

We love staying in Airbnb's, there are so many great options and we always get somewhere with a kitchen. We are always very respectful. At the same time I 100% think they should be banned/much more strictly controlled in many cities and islands as they take housing away from locals. I wouldn't blame governments at all for doing that despite the fact that I love using them.

I do think though that living in a flat is often difficult whether the neighbours are Airbnbers or people there full time. I have had many bad experiences of flats without airbnbers, including people up at 5:30 being noisy getting ready for work, bottle bins being emptied vey early and smoking in the bathroom and all the smoke coming into our bathroom through the vent.

HonestOpalHelper · 31/07/2025 19:20

Umbilicat · 31/07/2025 17:18

Er, no, hotels are being used for the "purposes" you so snidely insinuate because Airbnb has destroyed their business model.

A lot of hoteliers jumped at the government deal to house asylum seekers as they had suffered during covid - many of those have now been returned to the original owners rather damaged, and so have never re-opened.

Same thing happened in different circumstances where the government sequestered stately homes in WW2 for the army to use, very many were not fit for habitation afterwards, too expensive to fix up and got demolished.

A combination of covid and the need to accommodate asylum seekers caused such damage to the businesses and Air Bnb has filled the void.

Araminta1003 · 31/07/2025 19:19

It is a political and planning issue, for sure. There are countries that manage it well and where every Air BNB first needs a permission to become one, and there is a max in every location. Commercial use is also planned for, Air BNB is essentially commercial use and as it is a new concept a lot of countries are just lagging in regulation. So I would complain to your local authority and tell them to manage the situation better. Max amount per apartment block and in each area and fees payable by landlords and overnight guest tourist charges etc.

Mildorado · 31/07/2025 19:18

Secretsquirels · 31/07/2025 19:08

I didn’t mean in the other flats, I meant in the communal areas.

Yes, they could do something with the communal areas, true, although really it needs to be in the actual flats.

EmeraldRoulette · 31/07/2025 19:17

@Pinkpeanut27 mouse cancelling headphones is the best autocorrect ever 😂😂😂😂

it's not the same as eBay is it? I mean Airbnb affects people very badly. eBay doesn't.

Sunholidays · 31/07/2025 19:14

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 31/07/2025 18:46

I asked if you were Spanish because if you are an British ex pat you are adding to the problem.

Eh?

Tabitha005 · 31/07/2025 19:11

Athreedoorwardrobe · 31/07/2025 18:57

You see i don't agree at all. Airbnb started out as a small enterprise to let people make some extra cash by renting out spare rooms to holiday makers..
The issues with people trying to run whole businesses via that platform are caused by local government not regulating the use of buildings well enough.
As I said before airbnb is one of many ways this issue occurs. If it wasn't airbnb it would be something else. It's slum landlording but just via a modern platform. The government needs to crack down on it but it's not a popular move amongst the upper classes is it? Let's be honest this is how a lot of money is made
You can point the finger at airbnb but it's just a smokescreen
The real issue is that it's legal to buy up multiple properties that you have no intention of living in.. no one individual or company should own entire streets of housing. Yet in some places they do!!
Rent control is also important. Zoning.
We need to put more pressure on government to implement these things.

Regardless of how Airbnb started out, they’re not preventing users (businesses) with multiple properties from using their platform. And if the current way Airbnb operates didn’t align with their strategy, then a huge business such as Airbnb wouldn’t be doing it. And actively PREVENTING Airbnb - and other platforms like them - from doing it would go a long way towards curbing the impact.

But, similarly, I completely agree with you that government intervention is required - and we all know that many people in politics own vast amounts of property, so….

KickHimInTheCrotch · 31/07/2025 19:10

We always go self catering and often use airbnb. My daughter has health needs that mean we can't eat out easily. I do think that local authorities should have better control over this business model though and manage the impact on local communities. They don't need to let it decimate local areas, some cities in europe have this strictly regulated.

I am very aware of how young people are priced out of buying houses in their local areas in places like Devon and Cornwall and we try to holiday in less popular places or use purpose built holiday properties like static caravans or lodges rather than residential homes.

Winter2020 · 31/07/2025 19:10

I think it is only a matter of time before airb&b is restricted in the UK because council's are using ever increasing amounts of their budgets to house homeless families in temporary accommodation, and the rate this is growing will bankrupt some of them in a few short years otherwise.

I hope there is a clampdown on these lettings in Spain OP.

https://www.londoncouncils.gov.uk/news-and-press-releases/2025/ps330m-homelessness-overspend-housing-crisis-threatens-bankrupt-london

£330m homelessness overspend as housing crisis threatens to bankrupt London boroughs | London Councils – Home

Boroughs highlight a growing mismatch between temporary accommodation costs and the subsidy received for this from the government.

https://www.londoncouncils.gov.uk/news-and-press-releases/2025/ps330m-homelessness-overspend-housing-crisis-threatens-bankrupt-london

Secretsquirels · 31/07/2025 19:08

Mildorado · 31/07/2025 19:01

She's not going to be able to do that in the other flats, though, is she? The owners don't care.

I didn’t mean in the other flats, I meant in the communal areas.

Mildorado · 31/07/2025 19:01

Secretsquirels · 31/07/2025 18:52

Have you chatted to the other residents?

Some reasonably cheap measures that hotels use to reduce this sort of noise are:
carpet stairwells and corridors
hang curtains, pictures etc In stairwells and corridors
have slow closers on doors
have rubber door stops on doors
have pads on the bottom of any furniture being regularly moved
have signs in the outside the front of the entrance requesting quiet between certain times
have signs requesting people to carry not draf luggage

She's not going to be able to do that in the other flats, though, is she? The owners don't care.

itsafan · 31/07/2025 18:59

@Secretsquirels hard flooring certainly does not help. Thank you for the suggestion we did think about getting some sort of quote for soundproofing (we did hear it can be hit and miss if it works though) it would be cheaper than relocating our lives I’m sure.
Thanks for the comments really didn’t expect so many. I’m going to step away now might come back and check but like I said I’m under a lot of stress at the moment and I can see me getting into some kind of argument defending my existence 😂 and it’s probably not great for recovery.

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Athreedoorwardrobe · 31/07/2025 18:57

Tabitha005 · 31/07/2025 18:50

Ah, and there’s the rub… a huge, faceless corporation can never be blamed. Well, actually, yes, they can. Airbnb’s business model has absolutely been strategically designed to encourage the buying-up of homes for the express intention of deriving profit.

You see i don't agree at all. Airbnb started out as a small enterprise to let people make some extra cash by renting out spare rooms to holiday makers..
The issues with people trying to run whole businesses via that platform are caused by local government not regulating the use of buildings well enough.
As I said before airbnb is one of many ways this issue occurs. If it wasn't airbnb it would be something else. It's slum landlording but just via a modern platform. The government needs to crack down on it but it's not a popular move amongst the upper classes is it? Let's be honest this is how a lot of money is made
You can point the finger at airbnb but it's just a smokescreen
The real issue is that it's legal to buy up multiple properties that you have no intention of living in.. no one individual or company should own entire streets of housing. Yet in some places they do!!
Rent control is also important. Zoning.
We need to put more pressure on government to implement these things.

itsafan · 31/07/2025 18:55

@NotEnoughKnittingTime ok thank you for your very helpful and kind comment !. I am not Spanish other half is. Would you suggest I leave him and then we can take up two homes ?

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Ponderingwindow · 31/07/2025 18:55

I really think local laws need to
change to prevent short-term, hotel like rentals in residential areas. There needs to be some provision for people who need legitimate short-term housing so laws need to be crafted carefully, but zoning laws exist for a reason. Tourists don’t belong next door to people trying to work and school.

I would start by making Airbnb like rentals comply with all hotel safety regulations and inspections plus pay all similar taxes. If you rent places out for less than 30 days, you should have to follow the same rules as a hotel.

DBSFstupid · 31/07/2025 18:54

silverspringer · 31/07/2025 18:32

You’re still contributing to a housing crisis. Doesn’t really matter if you don’t shriek in the garden.

Indeed.

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