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Air Bnb has ruined my life

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itsafan · 31/07/2025 16:57

There is literally no way out of this situation 😢 other than for us to give up our jobs and relocate in the hope that we can find new jobs and a place to live. There are literally no other rentals available in the area even if we could afford the rents. A mortgage is out of the question as we would need at least a hundred grand deposit.
There are at least 1000 properties listed on Airbnb within a 5 mile radius, many of them would be ideal but the rents on them are extortionate and aimed at tourists we are talking at least a grand a week.
We have lived here for years in a residential complex (well before Airbnb and booking even got popular) we have jobs here and friends here and a life here. It is on the whole fine for 9 months of the year mainly local people living around us who all respect that we are living and just trying to survive.
Then the Airbnb people turn up and every week it’s new people above us below us next to us. The noise is horrendous and probably the worst problem. Being woken at all hours with people rolling suitcases along floors, lifts going up and down, shouting in the corridors and doors banging. It just goes on and on like this for months.
My anxiety with it all is now so bad that I’m having to take medication. The noise just feels constant.
Do people even realise when they are booking Airbnb that these are people’s homes that they are disrupting? Why don’t people go to hotels anymore ?
So yeah there is a huge housing crisis due to the airbnb situation and I’m just a small person in a situation that I can’t change other than to leave somewhere I call home. I suppose my AIBU is am I being unreasonable to feel like a company has ruined my life ?

OP posts:
Tiredofwhataboutery · 01/08/2025 19:53

I think regarding clamp downs it does take years. Where I’m from originally (Edinburgh) it was a nightmare for air bnbs. It took years but there has been a serious clamp down ( for all of Scotland) according to Airbnb's own stats the number of whole house listings in Edinburgh has gone down by two thirds since its peak.

You need a licence and checks and it’s expensive, still doable, but much more a pain do landlords are less inclined .

Xenia · 01/08/2025 19:19

We have an illegal letting a few streets away from me (breaches the restrictive covenants where we live and probably also breaches the London no more than 20 days a year London airbnb restriction) which is making someone's life a misery whom I know. Luckily the council and Airbnb have now appointed a case officer. The owner was contacted who of course lives in Dubai and is from a country I won't mention but is a country of one of the enemies of the UK state and does not seem to care less. The owner is not the supposed "host" on the airbnb link . Since the lettings started the guests (or should i say the horribile people some of whom break the law ) are dumping waste in bin bags (as the airbnb for the flat has a rule about taking your waste when you go) I often clear up on the road by there and this week alone I have removed one plastic bag of waste and also a baby's nappy they hung on a bush. Awful guests. Awful hosts. Awful owner.

itsafan · 01/08/2025 19:11

There is a shared hall ! And I have actually done this today in a few different languages.
I would have to draw the line at a boat I’m afraid I suffer from terrible motion sickness 🤢

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Crikeyalmighty · 01/08/2025 19:01

@Livelovebehappy I understand that but do think there should be finite numbers ‘licensed’ within certain areas , it’s killing off many villages too in pretty areas as they are dead during the week or out of season, no kids for the schools , not enough trade in shops in the week etc out of season

Crikeyalmighty · 01/08/2025 18:59

@booksunderthebed blimey that’s brave- not sure I could get mine up to spit spot standard I would expect if someone was renting for a holiday

MellersSmellers · 01/08/2025 18:39

Thank you for raising this. Yes, air bnb is now a huge problem in tourist hotspots the world over, including in tbe UK, and they absolutely need to be regulated which in the UK prob means something like an HMO license or control under planning law.
They are removing a huge number of properties from the housing market with all the social tensions that follow on.

Toseland · 01/08/2025 18:37

Is there a shared hall? I'd print out an eye-catching notice asking for quiet and consideration, suggest times and point out it's a residential block.
I have a friend in Spain that lives on her boat for 3 months in the summer and rents out her house - could you do something like that?

Cosyblankets · 01/08/2025 18:05

samthepigeon · 01/08/2025 10:25

Exactly.

Many of the properties on Air BandB are also advertised through other companies too. I am staying in one shortly that was on several platforms.

I came on to say exactly this. So all those posters saying i would never use air bnb i only use whatever cottage website are just the same.

I don't use air bnb as i find their pricing structure to be misleading. I want to know the bottom line. I don't want all the add on prices just tell me how much it is. The last 2 or 3 places I've stayed in have been on air bnb as well as other holiday let sites Like booking.com
The whole system does need more regulation.
Many people have explained why hotels don't work for them.
To the posters suggesting a campsite. No thank you. It's not for me.

silverspringer · 01/08/2025 17:11

Flashout · 01/08/2025 16:20

But the other lets are the same! Cottages.com/booking.com/blakes/sykes they are largely properties across all platforms. It’s daft to demonise just one.

You’re right, we shouldn’t use any of them unless it’s purpose built holiday accommodation.

Mildorado · 01/08/2025 16:54

Flashout · 01/08/2025 16:20

But the other lets are the same! Cottages.com/booking.com/blakes/sykes they are largely properties across all platforms. It’s daft to demonise just one.

Who is demonising? Not me.

Flashout · 01/08/2025 16:20

Mildorado · 01/08/2025 09:24

We've done self catering holidays and never used Airbnb. There are loads of reasonable lets with checked properties, regulations and the owners paying tax.

But the other lets are the same! Cottages.com/booking.com/blakes/sykes they are largely properties across all platforms. It’s daft to demonise just one.

Livelovebehappy · 01/08/2025 16:02

Crikeyalmighty · 01/08/2025 12:49

@Livelovebehappy do any of your friends rent and live in areas full of them? I’ve used them and only had 1 poor experience- doesn’t mean I don’t disagree with them on a societal level , or at least not being registered as businesses and restricted in numbers - I am not against people letting rooms in their homes out or self contained annexes on the owners property - I am against whole units being let out

They're needed. We are always being encouraged to holiday in this country so need somewhere to stay in the places that are attractive to holiday in. Many of us don't want hotels bnbs or caravans. Before Airbnb there were always places to rent via booking.com, holiday cottages etc.

booksunderthebed · 01/08/2025 15:29

Crikeyalmighty · 01/08/2025 12:49

@Livelovebehappy do any of your friends rent and live in areas full of them? I’ve used them and only had 1 poor experience- doesn’t mean I don’t disagree with them on a societal level , or at least not being registered as businesses and restricted in numbers - I am not against people letting rooms in their homes out or self contained annexes on the owners property - I am against whole units being let out

I also once stayed in an airbnb that was clearly the owners only residence, they had obviously worked out this was a way to finance their holidays.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 01/08/2025 13:24

When I did my walkabout through Europe in the mid 90’s I stayed in hostels and B&Bs. The B&Bs were absolutely in residential neighborhoods the hostels not as much. The difference between the B&Bs of old and the new Airbnb is that the owners used to be on site and you had breakfast catered.

Ha.. and to find them you got a book(!) that you shlepped around in your backpack that you would pick a random listing and call first thing when you got off the train. The most popular one was “Let’s Go!” (It was lovingly referred to as “Let’s Lie!” because as you can imagine some of the info was pretty dodgy or out of date because it was published once a year) and you would buy one for every country or region that you planned to visit.

I kind of miss the B&Bs that I stayed in. Cheap, clean, a good breakfast in the morning and usually a granny running it that would make you a little homesick but would wish you well on your travels as you left.

Air Bnb has ruined my life
Crikeyalmighty · 01/08/2025 12:49

@Livelovebehappy do any of your friends rent and live in areas full of them? I’ve used them and only had 1 poor experience- doesn’t mean I don’t disagree with them on a societal level , or at least not being registered as businesses and restricted in numbers - I am not against people letting rooms in their homes out or self contained annexes on the owners property - I am against whole units being let out

Goldenbear · 01/08/2025 12:34

Livelovebehappy · 01/08/2025 10:54

There are loads of homes on right move for buyers. The shortage of homes are the ones where people need to rent. It's a buyers market out there. But MN seems to think there should be no landlords either and presumably all those who need private rentals should just live in a tent in a park somewhere. If there were no Airbnbs there would only be b&bs, hotels and holiday parks. Which aren't appropriate for some. So leave the Airbnbs alone....

Why should a whole area be Air BNBs, destroying communities that have lived there for years, unregulated and circumventing the business rates that other small businesses have to pay. Putting a strain on the local rubbish and recycling as services that permanent residents like me pay incredibly high council tax for. I don't want Air BNB neighbours in the local flats, houses that are using up all the parking on the Street at the weekend, having noisy get togethers like it is a Karaoke night at a hotel bar!

Goldenbear · 01/08/2025 12:26

Livelovebehappy · 01/08/2025 10:58

So glad you're in a minority. Many of my friends, family and acquaintances use Airbnb regularly. And love them. Never had a bad experience.

They are not in a minority at all. People who live in these areas are absolutely fed up of it and the negative impact on the permanent residents and community. I literally gave an example above of this frustration galvanising local residents into taking action and objecting to the leisure centre being made into luxury apartments, end result - it will continue to be a lesiure centre serving the needs of local residents!

CarlaH · 01/08/2025 11:06

Hotels are not an alternative to self contained self catering properties. I sleep very badly and so my partner and I have separate bedrooms. We need two bedrooms whenever we go away.

That doesn't mean that I have no sympathy for those who are affected by the anti social behaviour of people on holidays.

There does seem to be a huge rise in city break type holidays with people going away for just a few days rather than one annual holiday so more people can afford to travel more often.

Livelovebehappy · 01/08/2025 10:58

Crikeyalmighty · 01/08/2025 10:21

I think it needs to be banned in any areas with ‘a lot ‘ of tourism - I would ban it here in Bath, in fact most of the south west - or put a limit on it in terms of numbers- you have to be licensed and no more than xxx number with a radius etc - same in Lake District, London, Devon/cornwall etc - it’s an absolute menace and given that renting is needed by many due to house prices in many parts of the country, we simply can’t afford for potential rental stock to be depleted in this way . Mind you I would ban second homes too

So glad you're in a minority. Many of my friends, family and acquaintances use Airbnb regularly. And love them. Never had a bad experience.

Livelovebehappy · 01/08/2025 10:54

Silvertulips · 01/08/2025 07:32

We had two rental properties that we were happily renting out for £750 a month and Tenant trashed them from top to bottom about £30,000 worth of damage in total once we actually got them to leave the property
And that’s why they are Airbnb’s now

Sell them, let families live in them and build communities.

You are destroying people’s lives but at least you get paid.

There are loads of homes on right move for buyers. The shortage of homes are the ones where people need to rent. It's a buyers market out there. But MN seems to think there should be no landlords either and presumably all those who need private rentals should just live in a tent in a park somewhere. If there were no Airbnbs there would only be b&bs, hotels and holiday parks. Which aren't appropriate for some. So leave the Airbnbs alone....

Genevieva · 01/08/2025 10:38

itsafan · 01/08/2025 03:13

For some of the posters who go to Airbnb because they have more rooms so you can all have a room. You can cater for special diets/needs etc. it’s cheaper it’s more convenient for you. What did you actually do before for a holiday ? Airbnb didn’t exist before and people still went on holiday. Yes hotels are more expensive now but so is everything else. To the poster who said about the 30-40% deposit and the fees thank you for that. I think the poster before was trying to insinuate that I was trying to buy a mansion. This deposit I’m talking about is for an apartment.
I am taking all the comments on board even the ones I don’t 100% agree with.
The situation at the moment is that we didn’t originally move into a 24/7 hotel we moved into a residential building home. It’s now turned into some kind of premier inn without the added bonus of someone making my bed and a nice breakfast 😂. It seems this has mainly happened (looking at the responses) so that other people don’t have to go to hotels.
Obviously Airbnb are just one company booking is another who have thousands of residential homes listed in the area and probably in many many areas.
it is good news about the government cracking down. Although from my area I haven’t noticed any sort of knock on yet as far as housing is concerned hopefully that will come in time. Unfortunately money makes the world go round and the only real way to solve it is in taxing people so much for owning these properties it makes them become undesirable to outside investment.
They are building thousands and thousands of new homes, but they are all very unaffordable a lot of them are not even marketed in Spanish, they are purely aimed at foreign investors.
Probably contrary to popular belief it’s not really the brits they are aiming at. The big money is coming from the Middle East and Scandinavia. A lot of them are Airbnb but there are thousands of them that are empty, visited for a fortnight and then locked up until next august too.
The one thing I’m not sure has been thought through (if any of this has actually been thought through) is that eventually you will go to your Airbnb like all the other hundreds of thousands of people who don’t fancy a hotel. And there will be no one in the local restaurant to serve you because they have left they have nowhere to live. Bear in mind that the average Spanish salary is €2000 so around £1800 and you can bet you aren’t being payed more than that as a waiter in a restaurant. No problem you might think we like to self cater anyway, what if there is no one to serve you in the supermarket? What if there is no supermarket because it’s not worth it being open for 9 months with no customers? What happens then ?
The other thing to mention is that when we came to live here we had neighbors. We don’t have that community anymore getting to know your neighbors having a friendly chat. Even saying hey you were loud last night can you keep the noise down a bit. You can’t develop that relationship which I do miss too.

I’m sorry you are suffering, but privately owned holiday cottages / apparent have always existed. They are on booking.com and many other company websites as well as Airbnb. Airbnb is just an advertising platform. The difference is the massive increase in holidaymakers. Especially city breaks, which have a far longer season than beach holidays and resorts with pools.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 01/08/2025 10:35

I have no idea about what you can do as it will depend on the local system.

However I think air bnbs are awful in so many ways and should be much more closely regulated if not banned.

samthepigeon · 01/08/2025 10:32

I could be wrong, but it now feels like bed and breakfasts are really pricey. I used to use them sometimes for a weekend away, and could afford them then. It is hard to find anywhere affordable these days. I don't need anything fancy, as I am only sleeping there, but the prices seem to have become really high. Hotels aren't my bag; too much fussing around for me. I also like to cook my own food! Thus holiday rentals are what I want.

samthepigeon · 01/08/2025 10:29

itsafan · 01/08/2025 10:08

These self catering holidays in the 70’s,80’s and 90’s weren’t in residential buildings though were they ? On the whole the ones you could book through Thomas cook were purpose built for holidays ? That’s why they had reception desks and snack bars etc. Tbh it would be easier to have a reception desk and security at least there would be someone here to keep on top of things.

Not necessarily. I have holidays in self-catering places for decades, and have done as a child. We never stayed in somewhere purpose-built, but always in a house in a street, or on farms etc.

ElCorazon · 01/08/2025 10:27

Cinaferna · 31/07/2025 23:31

Please don't let ignorance feed your prejudice. A hotel near us was used to house refugees. The staff were laid off which is not good for local employment, I agree, but that's not the refugees' fault. But there was no food on offer and they couldn't cook in their rooms, obviously, so they often went hungry as they had very little money and couldn't afford to eat out. No one was cleaning the place and they had no access to cleaning products. The people housed there were very young men, often in their teens, who had been through absolute hell, losing loved ones - parents, brothers, cousins murdered by armed militia. Then travelling thousands of miles frightened, starving cold and alone. Imagine your own son doing that in his mid teens, knowing you or his beloved grandparents had been murdered by thugs, the family home torched to the ground.
Please find some compassion before you make comments like this.

Oh yes, all those strong men leaving the females and small children of their families behind in dangerous countries deserve our sympathy 😩