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Community larder - would you use one

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Moana987 · 31/07/2025 11:00

If you didn't need to for financial reasons?

Within a 15 minute drive I have 3 Community larders where you just go and help yourself. Sometimes they have some decent stuff in and other times its just stale bread left.

I use them now and again, when passing I may have a look but financially I dont need to use them so I feel guilty sometimes encase others need the food.

They are not food banks. They are to stop food that's perfectly fine going to waste.

Would you use one?

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WordsFailMeYetAgain · 31/07/2025 13:55

We have one near us that DH likes to go to. I try and discourage this as we don't need to buy cheap food and my argument is that it should be used by people who really need it. Occasionally, the larder will post on Facebook that they have too much and then I would purchase items to stop it being wasted.

DH says that when he goes down he always overpays for the food so he reckons it's ok.

ETA:
I use Discount Dragon which is an online equivalent. Short dated goods, sometimes imports, really good daily deals.

Moana987 · 31/07/2025 12:33

Delphiniumandlupins · 31/07/2025 11:40

I have used Olio, which is also to reduce waste, so I would use a community larder if there was a convenient one. I'd be careful not to take more than I could use and also maybe check with staff if they didn't seem to have much stock. You could always make a cash donation if you're feeling guilty.

The larders near me are basically sheds. Foods put in there and left, no staff to man it and some of the food is donated by local farms as they haven't sold it.

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AngelsWithSilverWings · 31/07/2025 12:02

Yes I have taken food from the community larder even though I don't need to financially.

The larder/fridge at the local community centre where I work as a volunteer is filled by a local Olio rep. Olio is about preventing/reducing food waste. Recently it was stuffed full of bananas and the rep was begging people to take two or three bunches each so I took a couple and froze them for making banana bread.

Sometimes I pick up a small box of doughnuts for the kids or a baguette or croissants/pastries.

ParvuliThankYouDebbie · 31/07/2025 11:47

If we had one near enough (we don’t unfortunately) and its purpose was to reduce food waste, then yes absolutely. I wouldn’t feel like it was encroaching on those who need food banks because we do have those locally. Two in particular that are self referral and are open every day - one even delivers. But it’s a shame that such an initiative is required really, how have we got to the point where there is so much food waste in the first place?

TeeBee · 31/07/2025 11:47

We have similar in my village. I would use it (although I continually forget its on). They are to reduce food waste, not just to cater for those who cannot afford food.

MalcolmMoo · 31/07/2025 11:46

We have one on our town and the ethos is very much to do with saving food from going to waste and not about your financial situation.

TheSnootiestFox · 31/07/2025 11:46

Sundaybananas · 31/07/2025 11:43

😅cross posted.

As someone who runs one, this is exactly the attitude we try to discourage.

That said, it probably varies from area to area. Ours is rural and there tends to be more of a community attitude.

😁 ah well, in the inner city of a deprived city with known food deserts, it's a slightly different picture!

I guess it is horses for courses though.

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 31/07/2025 11:45

@Moana987 wouldnt dream of using one if I didnt need to! that food might have be necessary for a family who is in desperate need! I would also put food in, like excess tomatoes and cucumbers from the greenhouse.

JessicaPeach · 31/07/2025 11:45

We have a larder and it definitely is a food bank that they try very hard to pitch as avoiding waste. They always have plenty though so I do go now and again. The bags are a fiver and I always give £10 to buy another for someone else, but whenever I do that the ladies always appear with another bag of fruit or whatever or a treat for the kids so I don't think they are short on stuff but the cash probably helps

Sundaybananas · 31/07/2025 11:43

TheSnootiestFox · 31/07/2025 11:36

As someone who used to work in this field, no. This is because while the message from the larder or pantry may be that its an eco thing to stop waste food, this is usually to remove stigma about using it rather than it being seen as something that's just for 'poor people'. I've set many, many of these up in my time and surplus food donations are dropping rapidly so there's not enough food for those who don't need support too. Most people self manage and realise the score after a couple of visits, but honestly nothing is more sickening than watching people rock up in their luxury cars to scoop all the cheap strawberries when you know that a struggling family will be along later and miss out. Have a bit of self awareness, people!

😅cross posted.

As someone who runs one, this is exactly the attitude we try to discourage.

That said, it probably varies from area to area. Ours is rural and there tends to be more of a community attitude.

RantzNotBantz · 31/07/2025 11:43

Boxes of fruit and veg get left in our library. I take a few apples or carrots etc on the second day if there are loads and it looks as if they will go to waste.

Likewise, the kind people who leave surplus windfall apples or courgettes in boxes by their gate, I happily take a few.

A community larder in an area with lots of struggling people? No, I wouldn’t.

Appletrig · 31/07/2025 11:43

No - because our local ones are clearly poverty reduction ones with a food waste sideline message to reduce stigma

Needmorelego · 31/07/2025 11:43

If it's the type that's for reducing food waste then I wouldn't have an issue with using one.
There's one near where my mum lives that's near a Hello Fresh distribution centre.
The "community fridge" regularly gets spare unsold boxes from them.
They would be thrown in the bin otherwise.
It's different types of food to what you usually get in a food bank (ie perishables vs non perishables).

PaintP0tsColours · 31/07/2025 11:41

3 near where I live

Stops food going to land fill

People also grow their own fruit & veg & add into the pantry

People also add small non food items too

There is also a separate book swap

People sometimes give me items, so I keep some for my family, some for friends & put the rest into the pantry.

It is a good idea

herbalteabag · 31/07/2025 11:41

JDM625 · 31/07/2025 11:32

There is one near us. I've never seen it as reducing landfill, I thought of it as 1 step away from a food bank! I've never used it as assumed only people in desperate need would use it? They have fridge, freezers, fresh produce and non food items like nappies, tampons etc but its all free and I don't think anyone stands inside managing what people take.

I use the olio app to reduce food waste locally and have put my excess allotment veg on there before too (or I give it out to friends/neighbours).

I've tried to use the Olio app at my work place and each time nobody turns up to collect it, despite claiming it, so I've stopped bothering.

Delphiniumandlupins · 31/07/2025 11:40

I have used Olio, which is also to reduce waste, so I would use a community larder if there was a convenient one. I'd be careful not to take more than I could use and also maybe check with staff if they didn't seem to have much stock. You could always make a cash donation if you're feeling guilty.

Sundaybananas · 31/07/2025 11:40

I co-run and part fund one.

It is absolutely set up to stop food waste. Reducing people’s food bills is a very pleasant side effect.

In fact we have gone out of our way to encourage the wider community to use it to take any stigma away. We had to deal with a couple of instances of “well meaning” people telling off people who were using it because “their cars and clothes were too nice” 🙄

We don’t charge. It’s done on an honour system. People can take whatever they want, and also (completely separately) donate any money they want. It’s worked well for years now.

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 31/07/2025 11:39

I use one and it costs £5 per visit and you can visit once per week.

You can take 10 items from the shelves which are things like tins tea, coffee and pasta, and 3 items from the fridge, so things like meat and milk. Then you can also take bread, and fruit and veg items for free and sometimes toiletries and nappies.

I do contribute back by taking surplus veggies from my allotment there.

TheSnootiestFox · 31/07/2025 11:36

As someone who used to work in this field, no. This is because while the message from the larder or pantry may be that its an eco thing to stop waste food, this is usually to remove stigma about using it rather than it being seen as something that's just for 'poor people'. I've set many, many of these up in my time and surplus food donations are dropping rapidly so there's not enough food for those who don't need support too. Most people self manage and realise the score after a couple of visits, but honestly nothing is more sickening than watching people rock up in their luxury cars to scoop all the cheap strawberries when you know that a struggling family will be along later and miss out. Have a bit of self awareness, people!

herbalteabag · 31/07/2025 11:36

I might if the food was getting thrown out otherwise and the main aim was for the food to be used, but probably not if I thought other people needed it due to finances. Also probably only if it was very close to me, I wouldn't drive 15 minutes to it.

MauraLabingi · 31/07/2025 11:34

I think their messaging needs to be clearer. We have one, labelled as a larder not a food bank, and it is clear that anyone is welcome, but then they also sometimes post stuff on Facebook in support of food banks / food poverty initiatives etc. So I think that's actually their primary motive but they call it a community larder to reduce misplaced 'shame' for needing to use it. So I don't use it. But sometimes at the end of the day they post saying how they're swamped with strawberries or whatever, so stuff does get wasted.

So do they operate as a food bank but accept that means that sometimes with fruit/veg gluts there will be waste? Or do they make it clearer they're for everyone, and accept that richer people might get so much of the food that some needier people might go hungry?

One option might be to have say 11am to 6pm for people who NEED the food, and then 6-8pm for everyone, to use up the waste.

JDM625 · 31/07/2025 11:32

There is one near us. I've never seen it as reducing landfill, I thought of it as 1 step away from a food bank! I've never used it as assumed only people in desperate need would use it? They have fridge, freezers, fresh produce and non food items like nappies, tampons etc but its all free and I don't think anyone stands inside managing what people take.

I use the olio app to reduce food waste locally and have put my excess allotment veg on there before too (or I give it out to friends/neighbours).

Chickenchickens · 31/07/2025 11:30

I would and do use our community larder, I normally take lettuce and cabbage that look past their best. As I know I can just remove other leaves and they probably will go on a compost heap.
They also have a pay what you want community cafe (drinks like lattes are charged) and I always buy a meal and give about 15% more then I would normally pay. I also give to the pay it forward meal deal.
But our community larder is really all about food waste not giving free food away.

Lightuptheroom · 31/07/2025 11:20

We use ours weekly, it means that we don't have to get to the point of struggling. Community larders exist to stop food going to landfill, we just take what we know we will use. We wouldn't qualify for a food bank so for us it's the in between and you're not taking from others.

CastleCrasher · 31/07/2025 11:19

I feel really conflicted on this. We have one locally and one a little further away.

The further away one sells their produce (cheap) and uses the money for local projects. It's better stocked than a standard corner shop, no shortage of anything. So those in need benefit both from the cheap produce and the profit from other people buying it. I'm happy to use that one.

(Edited to add - this one gives their produce free to those who can't pay, though i don't know how that's organised)

The other is a simple free-to-take community larder. Much smaller, hit and miss with what is in stock. They are very clear it's there to avoid food waste and actively encourage anyone, regardless of income, to use it. But often there are only a handful of items there, so I can't bring myself to take anything, as someone in need would them get nothing. Unfortunately, that also seems to mean that more goes to waste, so that one is failing.

I guess that's a long winded way of saying I wish they'd let those of us who are willing and able to pay to do so! 😅