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Is it me

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Horsewench · 30/07/2025 23:04

My children said they didn't visit as they didn't like my husband. We have seperated but I still don't get any visits. Daughter lives 15 mins away by car but expects me to go to her which is a 2 hour bus journey (3 buses). I've recently come out of hospital but no one has come near me and im struggling to cope. Im guessing what they said about hubby was just an excuse and it's really me they don't want to see. All I do is sit indoors and cry

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Horsewench · 31/07/2025 00:20

BunnyRuddington · 30/07/2025 23:10

I’m sorry that you’ve been in Hospital avd you’re feeling rough. Have you got friends who call or visit you?

No. I speak to my neighbour but that's all

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CarpetKnees · 30/07/2025 23:59

I'm sorry you've had to be in hospital and that you are feeling so low.

Without the full story, none of us can know about your relationship with your adult dc.

Perhaps for now, reach out to friends, and then, once you are feeling stronger reflect upon why it might be that your dc don't want to visit you.

Toddytoddyrumskin · 30/07/2025 23:11

I’m so sad for you, sending love and hugs. ❤️‍🩹

BunnyRuddington · 30/07/2025 23:10

I’m sorry that you’ve been in Hospital avd you’re feeling rough. Have you got friends who call or visit you?

SriouslyWhutNow · 30/07/2025 23:08

How long were you together? What age were the children? Could it be that they are upset with you for choosing him over them even though they told you they disliked him so much that they wouldn't visit you while you were with him (which should have been your cue to choose them)? You haven't shown them that you put them first for however long that was, it's going to take time to repair that.

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