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WFH / office days in new employment agreement

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catspyjamas1 · 30/07/2025 18:39

Hi all. Posting on AIBU for traffic as time sensitive.

I have verbally accepted a job offer. The policy is 3 days in the office (fine - its central London and my commute is an hour door-to-door from the shire).

They have sent me the employment agreement and not stipulated the 3 days, nor any provision for communicating changes to the policy in advance.

For context:

  1. I used to work indirectly for this company until three years ago. As a result of Covid & return to work era in offices, they mandated 3 days in the office a couple of months before they sold the subsidiary I worked for. It was deeply unpopular and handled very badly from a comms. perspective.
  2. I was recommended for the role by a very senior member of their leadership team. I went through several rounds of interviews and my experience is quite niche for the role.
  3. Since 2020, I have primarily been WFH. Before that, I was full time commuting 5 days a week for nearly 15 years. I do not want to go back to full time commuting and have no issue with 3 days a week. I have no interest in increasing beyond that and want to protect myself from any increase in the next couple of years at least.

So: I have requested a few amendments to the agreement. One is stipulating the 3 days and that any changes will be communicated in advance (I suggested 30 days).

They have replied it is a standard clause they will not edit.

I am deeply uncomfortable signing this agreement. I am also in a position that I can decline to move forward and find a different position, even if it takes a bit longer out of work.

YABU: accept the agreement and take the risk the company will increase office days.
YANBU: try push back, and decline the role if they refuse to add the current mandated 3 days with provisions to communicate any changes in advance.

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Didimum · 30/07/2025 18:48

Save the next job hunt for when/if they make you do more days. Seems silly to do it the other way around.

catspyjamas1 · 30/07/2025 18:47

@ArtTheClownIsNotAMime 30 days was an arbitrary number I picked - I did say that whatever the company could do was fine.

I will also be on six months probation and reporting to someone in the US who is not a year into the company (my tenure before and post selling is around 13 years) - so beyond a company wide policy change, I want to ensure that a) my line manager cannot randomly ask for more days for "business need" and b) during probation if they perceive things aren't working out, use increased office days as part of any performance requirements.

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HateThese4Leggedbeasts · 30/07/2025 18:45

Let's be clear they aren't changing it as they want the flexibility to change it in the future (and to be consistent with other employees contracts).

I agree with pp that if you otherwise like the job and could find something else if they increase the number of days I don't see why you wouldn't accept it and leave if that happens.

Justlurking101 · 30/07/2025 18:43

Accept the role but keep an eye on other roles that come up.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 30/07/2025 18:41

If you're confident of being able to find something else then I don't see the point of turning it down. If they do increase office days in future then you can just leave - is 30 days going to make that much difference?

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