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Do you want a receipt

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Bunnybenty · 30/07/2025 13:45

I moved to England not that long ago.

In other countries that I lived in, they just gave me a receipt in the shops, everytime that I bought something. The receipt was always handed to me with the purchase.

Why in the UK do they not just give the receipt to you,

instead they always ASK you if you want a receipt.

What annoys me about it, is that it slows the shopping experience down so much.

Many times I have been called back to the till, to be asked if i want a receipt.

Example: I was in a small shop this morning. I only had a certain amount of time, as i was on the way to work. I was walking out of the door, when the woman at the till shouted at me "Wait. Come back! come back!".

I thought maybe my payment hadn't gone through, so I walked all the way back to her.

She said "Do you want a receipt?".

It drives me mad!

OP posts:
Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 11:38

RimTimTagiDim · 01/08/2025 09:40

Make sure you keep the receipts.

No I will just get the abusive posts deleted.

Which I did.

Haha. The laugh is on you.

I am not taking bullying or abuse on this thread

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dynamiccactus · 01/08/2025 11:31

Bunnybenty · 31/07/2025 20:31

No that wasnt my intention at all. I certainly don't want attention.

And i definitely don't want the attention that i have received on his thread. I have received a lot of abuse. It hasn't been enjoyable

I came on to have a minor moan about a minor thing as a lot of people do. I wasnt thinking about it that seriously.

The point is you made it a national thing.

If you'd just come on and moaned about the receipts people would have agreed or disagreed.

But it's really irritating for people to come on here and complain about the UK (and to tell Irish people they don't know what's going on in their own country, too).

And actually I don't see people coming on here and moaning about practices in France or Canada or Australia. Occasionally you get threads about places people don't like for holidays or that they find creepy (!) but they include UK places too.

dynamiccactus · 01/08/2025 11:27

I would have told him to fuck off and find some real crims. Then not shopped their again. Security guards pee me right off

Yes especially when they'd probably just watched the OP buy the things at the self-serve till.

I used to get annoyed with the ones who worked at my company as well - it always irritated me that I was being told what to do by people who didn't actually work for my company but were contracted in from an outside firm. They should be directly employed and receive proper training.

Luddite26 · 01/08/2025 10:08

Getmoveon14 · 01/08/2025 07:42

I find it strange that the self check out tills in Sainsbury's ask if you want a receipt. I once said 'no,'. I was then stopped by the security guard and asked to show my receipt. I explained that I didn't have one. He told me to make sure I got one in future. Don't know why they don't just make it automatic!

I would have told him to fuck off and find some real crims. Then not shopped their again. Security guards pee me right off.
I got followed last summer in boots I had my birkies on I'm a granny had a baby in a pushchair a toddler on reins and a 5 year old with ASD. How fSt could I bloody run. Haven't spent a penny in that shop since.
Our Sainsbury's security guards spend more time looking at young women and chatting to each other than watching for the professionals.

I don't take a receipt then think well they will have to go back through that till and find my details.

Blueuggboots · 01/08/2025 10:00

I get irritated with “do you want a bag?”. I think it would reduce the bags being used if they didn’t automatically offer….
in many European countries, I believe it is illegal to not be given a receipt whereas in the UK, it isn’t.

DappledThings · 01/08/2025 09:59

Bbq1 · 01/08/2025 09:49

I have a question... I usually say, no thank you when offered a receipt but nine times out of ten, the receipt is automatically generated. It appears that if unwanted, the receipt is thrown into a bin by the cashier. How is that preventing paper waste /landfill?

Edited

Not my experience. More often than not now they ask before printing so no wastage.

It's pretty recent this has started happening and places have realised people often don't want receipts. Cafés and restaurants have been further along the curve than shops I've found.

Bbq1 · 01/08/2025 09:49

puffylovett · 30/07/2025 14:20

I get why you’re annoyed but equally you’re being unreasonable. I only ask for a receipt if I’ve bought something that needs a guarantee. I’ve been refusing them for years, so much paper waste!

how many times have you screwed up the receipt you’ve been given and chucked it in the bin. Or left it languishing in a pocket. So much landfill.

I have a question... I usually say, no thank you when offered a receipt but nine times out of ten, the receipt is automatically generated. It appears that if unwanted, the receipt is thrown into a bin by the cashier. How is that preventing paper waste /landfill?

DappledThings · 01/08/2025 09:40

RimTimTagiDim · 01/08/2025 09:40

Make sure you keep the receipts.

God I miss the laugh reaction

RimTimTagiDim · 01/08/2025 09:40

Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 09:27

If anyone personally abuses me this morning. You will be reported.

Have a discussion without throwing insults.

Make sure you keep the receipts.

KrisAkabusi · 01/08/2025 09:39

My question was more - how is it reducing paper waste, when I see them just throw the receipts in the bin anyway.

Because most of the time you get asked before they print anything! There may be some shops where the receipt gets printed automatically, or the cashier is working on muscle memory and automatically hits print. But in the vast majority of shops where they ask if you want a receipt, whether they print one or not depends on your answer. Which saves paper!

If you are the only person that has to walk back to a cashier three times a day to be asked about aa receipt, and you are the only person that watches them put a receipt in the bin every time, consider that this appears to be a 'you issue' and not one that reflects the >80% of people here that think you are being unreasonable.

DappledThings · 01/08/2025 09:38

My question was more - how is it reducing paper waste, when I see them just throw the receipts in the bin anyway.
Seriously? Because that doesn't always happen. Sometimes they do that and it's pointless. Mostly they ask before printing and then don't print. It's a changing process that is not universal.

Just give me the receipt at the point of purchase. Its easier for everyone
Not for those of us who don't want one.

Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 09:27

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If anyone personally abuses me this morning. You will be reported.

Have a discussion without throwing insults.

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Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 09:25

KrisAkabusi · 01/08/2025 09:05

"As i said, it doesnt reduce that much paper waste"

"No, I already know that they say they do it to stop paper waste. Obviously. Everyone knows that."

That's from two consecutive posts of yours. Your question in your OP was very clear "Why in the UK do they not just give the receipt to you?". It's been explained to you countless times, you claim to understand it, but you still don't agree (or believe it happens elsewhere).

Obviously I know the reason they don't print receipts in the UK, is to reduce paper waste.
That is what they say. Everyone knows that. The reason is out there.

You didnt "explain" anything to me

My question was more - how is it reducing paper waste, when I see them just throw the receipts in the bin anyway.

Just give me the receipt at the point of purchase. Its easier for everyone

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MrsScarecrow · 01/08/2025 09:16

Sign up for e receipts. Saves paper and won't get lost/thrown away when you need to return or prove purchase eg when item under warranty. Simples ! Opt out of sales emails etc.

Realisticpointofview2 · 01/08/2025 09:12

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KrisAkabusi · 01/08/2025 09:05

"As i said, it doesnt reduce that much paper waste"

"No, I already know that they say they do it to stop paper waste. Obviously. Everyone knows that."

That's from two consecutive posts of yours. Your question in your OP was very clear "Why in the UK do they not just give the receipt to you?". It's been explained to you countless times, you claim to understand it, but you still don't agree (or believe it happens elsewhere).

cyvguhb · 01/08/2025 08:57

mushypeas94 · 01/08/2025 08:26

I live in Ireland. I am routinely asked if I want receipts. I always say no.

It's so strange, almost like not every shop Ireland runs to a strict set of rules

The OP has been to 3 shops where they didn't ask, you are always asked, maybe there should be some kind of special investigation into this disparity

LillyPJ · 01/08/2025 08:52

Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 08:41

Im laughing reading this post. Its so ridiculous!

Do you think I actually came on here asking a question, got "educated", would say thanks, and then go away "happy to have the answer"

How ridiculous.

No, I already know that they say they do it to stop paper waste. Obviously. Everyone knows that.

Case proved!

Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 08:41

LillyPJ · 01/08/2025 08:36

Exactly. You'd think it would be that simple and that after after a few replies the OP would have gone away happy to have the answer. Maybe even have said thanks? But it's become obvious that that's not what they wanted when they asked the question!

Im laughing reading this post. Its so ridiculous!

Do you think I actually came on here asking a question, got "educated", would say thanks, and then go away "happy to have the answer"

How ridiculous.

No, I already know that they say they do it to stop paper waste. Obviously. Everyone knows that.

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Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 08:39

LillyPJ · 01/08/2025 08:36

Exactly. You'd think it would be that simple and that after after a few replies the OP would have gone away happy to have the answer. Maybe even have said thanks? But it's become obvious that that's not what they wanted when they asked the question!

Are you serious!

"Happy to have the answer" for fuck sake.

As i said, it doesnt reduce that much paper waste, as when I have said no to a receipt, I have seen the shops print the receipts and throw them in the bin.

"Say thanks" . Now you are really having a laugh! As if i would say thanks.

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Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 08:37

Blinky21 · 01/08/2025 08:19

It's an odd thing to be bothered by and it's pretty obvious if they are asking you if you want one at all, they are reducing paper waste. If they ask if you want a receipt emailed, they are after your details for marketing too

Im not that bothered by it though am i. I don't lie awake at night tossing and turning with rage about receipts

I posted a minor moan on the day that it happened, as thousands of people do on mumsnet all the time.

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LillyPJ · 01/08/2025 08:36

Blinky21 · 01/08/2025 08:19

It's an odd thing to be bothered by and it's pretty obvious if they are asking you if you want one at all, they are reducing paper waste. If they ask if you want a receipt emailed, they are after your details for marketing too

Exactly. You'd think it would be that simple and that after after a few replies the OP would have gone away happy to have the answer. Maybe even have said thanks? But it's become obvious that that's not what they wanted when they asked the question!

mushypeas94 · 01/08/2025 08:26

I live in Ireland. I am routinely asked if I want receipts. I always say no.

MysweetAudrina · 01/08/2025 08:19

I live in Dublin, Ireland. I get asked in Lidl, Aldi, Tesco, SuperValu, Dunnes etc if I want a receipt. I always say no.

Blinky21 · 01/08/2025 08:19

It's an odd thing to be bothered by and it's pretty obvious if they are asking you if you want one at all, they are reducing paper waste. If they ask if you want a receipt emailed, they are after your details for marketing too

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