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Do you want a receipt

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Bunnybenty · 30/07/2025 13:45

I moved to England not that long ago.

In other countries that I lived in, they just gave me a receipt in the shops, everytime that I bought something. The receipt was always handed to me with the purchase.

Why in the UK do they not just give the receipt to you,

instead they always ASK you if you want a receipt.

What annoys me about it, is that it slows the shopping experience down so much.

Many times I have been called back to the till, to be asked if i want a receipt.

Example: I was in a small shop this morning. I only had a certain amount of time, as i was on the way to work. I was walking out of the door, when the woman at the till shouted at me "Wait. Come back! come back!".

I thought maybe my payment hadn't gone through, so I walked all the way back to her.

She said "Do you want a receipt?".

It drives me mad!

OP posts:
Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 14:39

meatsandcheeses · 01/08/2025 14:32

Why are you here if its that bad?

Already answered.

Read the thread. Youre an adult.

Im not going to answer the same question over and over for you.

OP posts:
Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 14:38

CandyCane457 · 01/08/2025 14:04

Have to say I’ve not seen one quite like this for a while 🤣

And you specifically talked about “this thread.” But now you’re saying the bullying pile ons happen on “many threads” so not sure why you’re surprised it’s happening on yours too then!

As you well know...it happens on loads of threads.

Ive seen so mant OP's be called mentally ill. It is the go to insult from bullies on mumsnet

OP posts:
meatsandcheeses · 01/08/2025 14:32

Bunnybenty · 30/07/2025 15:28

Mumsnet really needs to do something about the cesspit of bullying and nastiness that is on here
. It's disgusting. Its out of hand

I posted about a very serious life issue on mumsnet once and i was ridiculed and i was told that i was wallowing in misery.

I post about a minor issue on this thread, and again I am riduculed, and there is nasty post after nasty post, aftet nasty post.

I have seen the O.Ps on so many other threads on here, be trashed, abused and ridiculed.

And this is supposed to be an advice forum.

You don't see this on any other forum, only on mumsnet .

Edited

Why are you here if its that bad?

MilkyBarsAreOnMee · 01/08/2025 14:08

Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 14:00

That is your opinion, not fact

and I totally disagree with you.

Fair enough, we'll have to disagree then. Have a good weekend OP.

grumpygrape · 01/08/2025 14:06

Is this some sort of online masochism ?

CandyCane457 · 01/08/2025 14:04

Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 13:59

Strange how these bullying pile -ons happen on many threads then...

Have to say I’ve not seen one quite like this for a while 🤣

And you specifically talked about “this thread.” But now you’re saying the bullying pile ons happen on “many threads” so not sure why you’re surprised it’s happening on yours too then!

KrisAkabusi · 01/08/2025 14:02

As i have already written , i never said that it didn't happen in other countries

You said "I don't think it happens in ireland" in direct response to me saying it's normal practice here, since confirmed by lots of other Irish posters. So you're being a bit disingenuous with your claims now.

Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 14:00

MilkyBarsAreOnMee · 01/08/2025 13:58

As I said, "recent posts aside". The tone was set many, many pages ago by you, please don't try to claim the moral high ground now

That is your opinion, not fact

and I totally disagree with you.

OP posts:
Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 13:59

CandyCane457 · 01/08/2025 13:56

Why do you think people on “this thread” necessarily are horrendous?
I think it’s because the OP has set the tone.

Strange how these bullying pile -ons happen on many threads then...

OP posts:
MilkyBarsAreOnMee · 01/08/2025 13:58

Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 13:54

Telling me to "check my meds"

Is definitely abuse and bullying.

As I said, "recent posts aside". The tone was set many, many pages ago by you, please don't try to claim the moral high ground now

Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 13:57

DappledThings · 01/08/2025 12:36

It's not a national thing because it's wildly varied across the UK and other countries.

That's what's annoying people and why this ridiculous thread has gone on so long. Because you insist on talking about things in absolutist terms in different countries.

What are you on about "and other countries"

As i have already written , i never said that it didn't happen in other countries.

And it is not anything that "i have done", that is annoying peoppe.

I have seen the same kind of bullying pile - ons happen on so many threads on here.

Remember that the start of this thread, I even predicted exactly what the bullies would write. As it is the same on every thread.

And I predicted it exactly right.

OP posts:
CandyCane457 · 01/08/2025 13:56

Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 13:53

Another bully alert. As i said, i will report every single abusive post.

Jesus people on this thread are horrendous.

Edited

Why do you think people on “this thread” necessarily are horrendous?
I think it’s because the OP has set the tone.

Mrsttcno1 · 01/08/2025 13:55

OP you’ve literally had some of your own posts removed for bullying & nastiness, you lose the moral highground a bit then.

Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 13:54

RimTimTagiDim · 01/08/2025 13:13

I note others have also had your abusive posts deleted. See, reciepts are useful!

You spelled receipts wrong.

OP posts:
Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 13:54

MilkyBarsAreOnMee · 01/08/2025 13:17

@Bunnybenty, recent posts (which I agree some have been less than kind) aside, people disagreeing with you or pointing out the flaws or lack of logic in your responses is not "abuse" or "bullying". Yes, a lot have been fairly forthright but that, I assume, was most likely in response to your own tone and refusal to accept any differing views.

Edited for spelling.

Edited

Telling me to "check my meds"

Is definitely abuse and bullying.

OP posts:
Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 13:53

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Another bully alert. As i said, i will report every single abusive post.

Jesus people on this thread are horrendous.

OP posts:
MilkyBarsAreOnMee · 01/08/2025 13:17

@Bunnybenty, recent posts (which I agree some have been less than kind) aside, people disagreeing with you or pointing out the flaws or lack of logic in your responses is not "abuse" or "bullying". Yes, a lot have been fairly forthright but that, I assume, was most likely in response to your own tone and refusal to accept any differing views.

Edited for spelling.

RimTimTagiDim · 01/08/2025 13:13

Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 11:38

No I will just get the abusive posts deleted.

Which I did.

Haha. The laugh is on you.

I am not taking bullying or abuse on this thread

I note others have also had your abusive posts deleted. See, reciepts are useful!

daleylama · 01/08/2025 12:38

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

DappledThings · 01/08/2025 12:36

Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 12:32

It is a national thing.

Your post is idiotic.

Loads of threads on mumsnet complain about things that happen in the UK.

How sensitive are you, that you can't take a complaint about something that happens in the UK.

It's not a national thing because it's wildly varied across the UK and other countries.

That's what's annoying people and why this ridiculous thread has gone on so long. Because you insist on talking about things in absolutist terms in different countries.

Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 12:32

dynamiccactus · 01/08/2025 11:31

The point is you made it a national thing.

If you'd just come on and moaned about the receipts people would have agreed or disagreed.

But it's really irritating for people to come on here and complain about the UK (and to tell Irish people they don't know what's going on in their own country, too).

And actually I don't see people coming on here and moaning about practices in France or Canada or Australia. Occasionally you get threads about places people don't like for holidays or that they find creepy (!) but they include UK places too.

It is a national thing.

Your post is idiotic.

Loads of threads on mumsnet complain about things that happen in the UK.

How sensitive are you, that you can't take a complaint about something that happens in the UK.

OP posts:
Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 12:30

cyvguhb · 01/08/2025 12:16

On a quick whizz through I can see about 6 deleted posts and 2 of them are yours @Bunnybenty

What does that tell us?

What does that tell you?

Not much.

OP posts:
GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 01/08/2025 12:19

60andcounting · 30/07/2025 13:48

I think because it saves paper if you don't want one. I can't stand the " can I have your email address" I say no now.

Yes! I never give my email address, and if they ask why, I say I have far too much stuff cluttering up my inbox anyway.

If I do need a receipt (e.g. when buying a sweater as a present for dh) I make sure I get one and keep it safe.

cyvguhb · 01/08/2025 12:16

On a quick whizz through I can see about 6 deleted posts and 2 of them are yours @Bunnybenty

What does that tell us?

bouncybees · 01/08/2025 12:08

Bunnybenty · 30/07/2025 15:49

Oh go away. Fuck sake. Mumsnet has to be the absolute cesspit of humanity at times.

I'm on another chat forum. People talk about all manner of things. They complain abput shopping, about relationships, about friends.

Normal people on that forum come on and reply like adults

on Mumsnet, which is supposed to be an advice forum for adults, it just attracts the most immature crazy posters that write like ten year olds.

How did it get to be like this here?

I’m crazy but you’re the one going on nearly 100 posts about a receipt 😅

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