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Bunnybenty · 30/07/2025 13:45

I moved to England not that long ago.

In other countries that I lived in, they just gave me a receipt in the shops, everytime that I bought something. The receipt was always handed to me with the purchase.

Why in the UK do they not just give the receipt to you,

instead they always ASK you if you want a receipt.

What annoys me about it, is that it slows the shopping experience down so much.

Many times I have been called back to the till, to be asked if i want a receipt.

Example: I was in a small shop this morning. I only had a certain amount of time, as i was on the way to work. I was walking out of the door, when the woman at the till shouted at me "Wait. Come back! come back!".

I thought maybe my payment hadn't gone through, so I walked all the way back to her.

She said "Do you want a receipt?".

It drives me mad!

OP posts:
Southern25 · 02/08/2025 15:26

But you need a receipt as proof of purchase, or if you want to exchange something such a clothes.
However if I go to my local COOP to buy a load of bread,I just say no I don’t want a receipt.
Many years ago I brought a crate of beer from a supermarket. The receipt fell onto the floor but as my hands were full, I didn’t bother picking it up ,thinking I didn’t need it.
On my way out an over zealous security guard stopped me and insisted I show him my receipt. So I had to put my crate of beer down and look for my dropped receipt.

In Lidl you have so scan your receipt to leave the shop, so you have to get a receipt anyway.

MNdrama · 02/08/2025 15:21

Bunnybenty · 02/08/2025 14:52

No of course it hasn't occured to me, seeing as I see the same insult directed at many OPs on mumnset .

I saw a poor woman post a thread the other day, and she was called mentally ill and nuts

It is intended to insult, not show concern. We all know it.

What are you even on about? I was called "bonkers" on this thread. Of course it is an insult

Seriously though, why are you still replying to comments nearly 3 days after your original post if the comments are upsetting you so much? Genuinely interested

MNdrama · 02/08/2025 15:16

Bunnybenty · 02/08/2025 14:34

Great. Just go then.

This is not an airport. You don't need yo announce your departure.

Wow. Either you're an expert troll, or a massive hypocrite. Which is it?

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 02/08/2025 15:15

Bunnybenty · 02/08/2025 14:52

No of course it hasn't occured to me, seeing as I see the same insult directed at many OPs on mumnset .

I saw a poor woman post a thread the other day, and she was called mentally ill and nuts

It is intended to insult, not show concern. We all know it.

What are you even on about? I was called "bonkers" on this thread. Of course it is an insult

I do agree that someone wouldn't typically be expressing concern about your mental health if they described you as "bonkers'.

But I also think that someone using the expression "bonkers" is probably making a lighthearted comment about your behaviour rather than a serious observation about the state of your mental health.

That said, I've reflected on my own earlier comments on this thread, and I will concede that you're right - we should not make assumptions about people's mental health, even when they are behaving in a wildly unreasonable manner. We simply aren't in a position to diagnose, and your behaviour may simply be a reflection of your personality. I apologise.

Bunnybenty · 02/08/2025 14:52

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 02/08/2025 14:44

Has it occurred to you that people might be giving you the benefit of the doubt when they suggest that there might be mental health issues going on? It isn't actually an insult.

The alternative is that the unreasonable behaviour is just a part of your personality.

No of course it hasn't occured to me, seeing as I see the same insult directed at many OPs on mumnset .

I saw a poor woman post a thread the other day, and she was called mentally ill and nuts

It is intended to insult, not show concern. We all know it.

What are you even on about? I was called "bonkers" on this thread. Of course it is an insult

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MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 02/08/2025 14:44

Bunnybenty · 02/08/2025 14:26

I totally disagree with you and her.

I predicted at the start exactly what the bullies would write, as they write it on every single thread

We need a mumsnet bingo card to cross off what the bullies say. As they say the same shit all the time.

"Op you are mentally ill"

Bingo!

Has it occurred to you that people might be giving you the benefit of the doubt when they suggest that there might be mental health issues going on? It isn't actually an insult.

The alternative is that the unreasonable behaviour is just a part of your personality.

CandyCane457 · 02/08/2025 14:42

Bunnybenty · 02/08/2025 14:34

Great. Just go then.

This is not an airport. You don't need yo announce your departure.

Could’ve said the same to you the other night when you wrote:

Save your posts. I am getting off this thread to go and meet friends.

Bunnybenty · 02/08/2025 14:34

Megsy81 · 02/08/2025 14:30

I’m sorry but I’m not going to waste my time with someone who has a complete lack of ability to take heed when someone is genuinely trying to help them out.

Not sure what the relevance of me having been to Ireland, lived in Ireland blah blah blah is in comparison to your experience. It does nothing but indicate you are only here to argue with people …. Poorly from that response as it was completely irrelevant.

Not that it matters, but I lived there for several years actually. Your post was never about who who lived in Ireland or who visited there like yourself so you’ve really lost track of your own thread!

I can’t wait for your response, but please know I won’t be responding so I’m sure you can relish in feeling like you have “won” an argument with someone on here by closing them down. I just won’t waste my energy on arguing with someone who has no logical reasoning in their response to me

Great. Just go then.

This is not an airport. You don't need yo announce your departure.

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YourWinter · 02/08/2025 14:31

I was a Waitrose checkout operator when they started making a printed till receipt optional. It’s incredible how many people said they didn’t want one (and how many then leave it in the trolley in the car park). With no receipt you have no proof of payment and it’s just baffling that anyone would opt out.

It’s saving the store a little money, not saving the planet.

Megsy81 · 02/08/2025 14:30

Bunnybenty · 02/08/2025 14:23

Have you been in Ireland recently at all?

I am guessing that you haven't.

I have. So at least i have experience of what i am talking about.

You don't.

I’m sorry but I’m not going to waste my time with someone who has a complete lack of ability to take heed when someone is genuinely trying to help them out.

Not sure what the relevance of me having been to Ireland, lived in Ireland blah blah blah is in comparison to your experience. It does nothing but indicate you are only here to argue with people …. Poorly from that response as it was completely irrelevant.

Not that it matters, but I lived there for several years actually. Your post was never about who who lived in Ireland or who visited there like yourself so you’ve really lost track of your own thread!

I can’t wait for your response, but please know I won’t be responding so I’m sure you can relish in feeling like you have “won” an argument with someone on here by closing them down. I just won’t waste my energy on arguing with someone who has no logical reasoning in their response to me

Bunnybenty · 02/08/2025 14:26

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 02/08/2025 14:24

Well said. It's a shame that the OP completely missed the point that you made so effectively.

I totally disagree with you and her.

I predicted at the start exactly what the bullies would write, as they write it on every single thread

We need a mumsnet bingo card to cross off what the bullies say. As they say the same shit all the time.

"Op you are mentally ill"

Bingo!

OP posts:
Bunnybenty · 02/08/2025 14:24

Megsy81 · 02/08/2025 14:16

You literally said “I don't thnk it happens in ireland” in your 2nd or 3rd post in response to someone saying it absolutely does happen where they are in Ireland. A bit like most of your responses, others are twisting your words and “bullying” but you are equally playing semantics with them. Your latest post is a prime example.

People have been a touch harsh, and there was one or two comments that crossed a line I believe, but the word bullying has been thrown around a lot for posts that mirror that of your own. One or two comments against your thoughts you should rightfully ignore, but when the majority of posts are saying it’s you, maybe take a step back and hold a mirror up for a bit of self reflection.

That isn’t an insult, that isn’t me bullying or being nasty, I’m trying to be helpful. When an audience is divided massively against your favout, it’s usually a good time to question why. You can have fun others can’t. You can swear others can’t. You can criticize others can’t. You can say people posts are ridiculous but when others do they are a bully - definitely a pattern to consider.

Rightly or wrongly, you don’t be able to win on this thread but keep calling others bullies, contradicting yourself and others, saying you are leaving the thread and then coming back is not going to help your cause for what you say is a lighthearted thread ….. it makes it not so lighthearted

"You won't be able to win on your thread".

Again you left out the words "in my opinion".

In MY opinion, I feel i am doing well on this thread.

I am now taking a stand against all bullies on mumsnet.

Ive seen too many OPs be bullied and trashed into the ground.

OP posts:
MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 02/08/2025 14:24

Megsy81 · 02/08/2025 14:16

You literally said “I don't thnk it happens in ireland” in your 2nd or 3rd post in response to someone saying it absolutely does happen where they are in Ireland. A bit like most of your responses, others are twisting your words and “bullying” but you are equally playing semantics with them. Your latest post is a prime example.

People have been a touch harsh, and there was one or two comments that crossed a line I believe, but the word bullying has been thrown around a lot for posts that mirror that of your own. One or two comments against your thoughts you should rightfully ignore, but when the majority of posts are saying it’s you, maybe take a step back and hold a mirror up for a bit of self reflection.

That isn’t an insult, that isn’t me bullying or being nasty, I’m trying to be helpful. When an audience is divided massively against your favout, it’s usually a good time to question why. You can have fun others can’t. You can swear others can’t. You can criticize others can’t. You can say people posts are ridiculous but when others do they are a bully - definitely a pattern to consider.

Rightly or wrongly, you don’t be able to win on this thread but keep calling others bullies, contradicting yourself and others, saying you are leaving the thread and then coming back is not going to help your cause for what you say is a lighthearted thread ….. it makes it not so lighthearted

Well said. It's a shame that the OP completely missed the point that you made so effectively.

Bunnybenty · 02/08/2025 14:23

Megsy81 · 02/08/2025 14:16

You literally said “I don't thnk it happens in ireland” in your 2nd or 3rd post in response to someone saying it absolutely does happen where they are in Ireland. A bit like most of your responses, others are twisting your words and “bullying” but you are equally playing semantics with them. Your latest post is a prime example.

People have been a touch harsh, and there was one or two comments that crossed a line I believe, but the word bullying has been thrown around a lot for posts that mirror that of your own. One or two comments against your thoughts you should rightfully ignore, but when the majority of posts are saying it’s you, maybe take a step back and hold a mirror up for a bit of self reflection.

That isn’t an insult, that isn’t me bullying or being nasty, I’m trying to be helpful. When an audience is divided massively against your favout, it’s usually a good time to question why. You can have fun others can’t. You can swear others can’t. You can criticize others can’t. You can say people posts are ridiculous but when others do they are a bully - definitely a pattern to consider.

Rightly or wrongly, you don’t be able to win on this thread but keep calling others bullies, contradicting yourself and others, saying you are leaving the thread and then coming back is not going to help your cause for what you say is a lighthearted thread ….. it makes it not so lighthearted

Have you been in Ireland recently at all?

I am guessing that you haven't.

I have. So at least i have experience of what i am talking about.

You don't.

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Megsy81 · 02/08/2025 14:16

Bunnybenty · 02/08/2025 14:04

Again, you are completely twisting my words into something that I didn't write.

I never "didn't believe' that it happened in other countries.

Posters came on here and said that they have been asked for receipts in France and other countries, and I never once wrote to them "I don't believe you'.

I know that it happens in other countries.

What i DID write is that I lived in Ireland fir all of last year, and I have gone back and visited Ireland every month this year, and I have never been asked "do i want a receipt" in Ireland yet.

Edited

You literally said “I don't thnk it happens in ireland” in your 2nd or 3rd post in response to someone saying it absolutely does happen where they are in Ireland. A bit like most of your responses, others are twisting your words and “bullying” but you are equally playing semantics with them. Your latest post is a prime example.

People have been a touch harsh, and there was one or two comments that crossed a line I believe, but the word bullying has been thrown around a lot for posts that mirror that of your own. One or two comments against your thoughts you should rightfully ignore, but when the majority of posts are saying it’s you, maybe take a step back and hold a mirror up for a bit of self reflection.

That isn’t an insult, that isn’t me bullying or being nasty, I’m trying to be helpful. When an audience is divided massively against your favout, it’s usually a good time to question why. You can have fun others can’t. You can swear others can’t. You can criticize others can’t. You can say people posts are ridiculous but when others do they are a bully - definitely a pattern to consider.

Rightly or wrongly, you don’t be able to win on this thread but keep calling others bullies, contradicting yourself and others, saying you are leaving the thread and then coming back is not going to help your cause for what you say is a lighthearted thread ….. it makes it not so lighthearted

KrisAkabusi · 02/08/2025 14:14

You said "I dont think it happens in Ireland" after I told you its routine here. That is not saying that you've never experienced it, it's saying that you dont believe what I wrote.

Bunnybenty · 02/08/2025 14:04

KrisAkabusi · 02/08/2025 13:03

But when people told you it happened in other countries, you didn't believe them.

Again, you are completely twisting my words into something that I didn't write.

I never "didn't believe' that it happened in other countries.

Posters came on here and said that they have been asked for receipts in France and other countries, and I never once wrote to them "I don't believe you'.

I know that it happens in other countries.

What i DID write is that I lived in Ireland fir all of last year, and I have gone back and visited Ireland every month this year, and I have never been asked "do i want a receipt" in Ireland yet.

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KrisAkabusi · 02/08/2025 13:03

Bunnybenty · 02/08/2025 11:36

Yes. I did.

Meaning, of the countries that I have lived in, I have only experienced it in the UK.

I didnt say that it doesnt happen in any other country in the world

But when people told you it happened in other countries, you didn't believe them.

Bunnybenty · 02/08/2025 11:36

ChompandaGrazia · 02/08/2025 10:52

You said It is only the UK that I have experienced this in.

Yes. I did.

Meaning, of the countries that I have lived in, I have only experienced it in the UK.

I didnt say that it doesnt happen in any other country in the world

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Growlybear83 · 02/08/2025 10:52

cyvguhb · 02/08/2025 10:49

I dont say yes to the receipt anyway as I get a notification from my bank app before I've even sat back down in the car so in the unlikely event that it want the amount on the pump I could go inside and get it checked

I need receipts for my business expenses when I do my tax return so unfortunately I don’t have an alternative. The information on my bank app doesn’t show sufficient detail for HMRC.

ChompandaGrazia · 02/08/2025 10:52

Bunnybenty · 01/08/2025 13:57

What are you on about "and other countries"

As i have already written , i never said that it didn't happen in other countries.

And it is not anything that "i have done", that is annoying peoppe.

I have seen the same kind of bullying pile - ons happen on so many threads on here.

Remember that the start of this thread, I even predicted exactly what the bullies would write. As it is the same on every thread.

And I predicted it exactly right.

Edited

You said It is only the UK that I have experienced this in.

maryhinge88 · 02/08/2025 10:50

cyvguhb · 02/08/2025 10:46

So the same information as the bank statement, I think the pp was wondering how people checked their statement info without the actual receipt to see if the amounts were the same.

I can only see that happening when you buy something from somewhere that the till and the card machine aren't connected and the seller types the amount into the machine, like a food truck or market stall but I don't know if those places would have till receipts anyway

That’s fair, I think I just prefer to not think about everything I’ve bought 😂.

cyvguhb · 02/08/2025 10:49

Growlybear83 · 02/08/2025 10:42

Pay at pump is great when it works, but the pumps at my local petrol station haven’t been able to dispense receipts for over a year now and you have to go inside to ask for one.

I dont say yes to the receipt anyway as I get a notification from my bank app before I've even sat back down in the car so in the unlikely event that it want the amount on the pump I could go inside and get it checked

cyvguhb · 02/08/2025 10:46

maryhinge88 · 02/08/2025 10:42

It just records each purchase you’ve made, how much and where from.

So the same information as the bank statement, I think the pp was wondering how people checked their statement info without the actual receipt to see if the amounts were the same.

I can only see that happening when you buy something from somewhere that the till and the card machine aren't connected and the seller types the amount into the machine, like a food truck or market stall but I don't know if those places would have till receipts anyway

Growlybear83 · 02/08/2025 10:42

cyvguhb · 02/08/2025 10:31

I use pay at pump so haven't been inside a petrol station for ages, I can safely say that the pump cares not a jot if you press yes or no when it asks if you want a receipt 😂

Pay at pump is great when it works, but the pumps at my local petrol station haven’t been able to dispense receipts for over a year now and you have to go inside to ask for one.

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